RSS Feed for This PostCurrent Article

To eliminate sexism we must first understand how it permeates our society

Ed. Note: Originally published at Alegre’s Corner. Reprinted here with Pat Bakalian’s express permission.

************************************

“If we don’t stand up for ourselves….” I have been a long time political activist and feminist. Yes, I said feminist and proud of it. I know that with some people that is not a good word but here is what it means to me very simply – anyone (male or female) who believes in the equality of men and women.

Last month I had lunch with Professor Bettina Aptheker. She is the head of the Women’s Studies (or here we call it Feminist Studies) department at the University of California, Santa Cruz (UCSC). We had a great time talking about what she was doing and what I was doing as the founder of the Campaign for Gender Equality (campaignforgenderequality.org)).

This was a match made in heaven because the Campaign for Gender Equality is working to educate, mobilize and unite people in order to eliminate sexism in this country and Bettina has just released a very important educational tool.

She has been teaching “Introduction to Feminisms” at UCSC for the last 24 years and now has all her classes on DVD’s for everyone to see. Well of course I immediately ordered myself a set – 17-DVD’s for just $20…..such a deal!

Over the holidays I watched all of them…sometimes while doing other things because you know us women have to and know how to milti-task. I came away more knowledgeable and able to see the whole picture.

I was reenergized and felt empowered, not at all angry at what I was learning. Yes, since I am older, I knew a lot of what she was talking about but being able to understand gender inequality, how far we have come in the last 40 years but how far we still need to go gave me a great sense of peace.

Bettina’s “Introduction to Feminisms” places women’s experiences at the center and emphasizes the diversity of women’s lives. She talks about everything from unlearning racism, to loving ourselves, to women, immigration and the global economy, to women and body image, to the politics of rape and how they all interrelate with each other. She is engaging, tells stories and covers sexism, racism and homophobia and how they are connected and contribute to gender inequality in this country and around the world.

I have been talking to many people about Bettina’s DVD’s and a couple of people have suggested that we have “Watch Parties” and talk about it afterwards. This reminded me of the “Conscious Raising” groups for the 60′s and 70′s. I think that it is a great idea because for us to eliminate sexism we must first understand it in a holistic way and how it permeates our society.

There is a lot of information out there but it is not always available and easy to understand. This might be something that you can share with your daughters (and son’s). The Campaign for Gender Equality has partnered with Professor Bettina Aptheker to spread the word. The DVD set is available at: introtofem.org. I hope that you will order it, hold “Watch Parties” and talk about what you can do.

Please pass this on to others and join us by signing up for our newsletter at www.campaignforgenderequality.org.

*************************************

Ed. Note: Pat Bakalian recommends these books by Professor Bettina Aptheker:

  • Tricia Spiegel

    Pat Bakalian is terrific! I have joined her group. I am going to get hold of that DVD set also.
    Thanks, Pat

  • JohnnyB

    Thank you Pat for the wonderful information.
    I’ve heard of Bettina and I’m going to buy her DVD’s to show my Men’s Group, some of them are dinosaurs.
    Went to your site http://www.campaignforgenderequality.org and signed up for your newsletter along with asking Pres Obama to form a Presidential Commission on Women.

    I love to see Feminism being explained so more will think of Equality for All.

    Keep up the great work, Pat

  • http://ezinearticles.com/?Three-Basic-Parenting-Styles&id=744499 Northwest rain

    How sexism permeates our society??

    Well that is damned easy — He got elected — His name is Obama — he used SEXISM.

    HE brought on the most intense sexism I have EVER seen.

    AND women (like MS magazine) are our worst enemies.

    This generation must start somewhere — and learning about the past MIGHT wake some women up.

    However — this deep Depression we are slowly sliding into — when women find that they can’t find jobs and there will be no help from the 0bama boy’s club — I predict that a whole lot of women will wake up.

    Years ago in Grad school my MA thesis was on sex role stereotyping — the only thing that got the girl’s attention was the fact that their pay would be considerably lower than the boys in their class. We managed to change attitudes about what what jobs men and women could do based on take home pay of girls. Many of the boys understood — because their mothers were the sole wage earners. And they didn’t know that their mothers made less money — simply because of their gender.

    Sexism is a matter of education — and after months and months of seeing and hearing the most intense sexist & misogynistic garbage (coming in part from 0bama himself) I am not hopeful of much change. Because women are women’s worst enemies.

  • http://alegrescorner.soapblox.net Alegre

    This is great info Pat. Thanks a million for helping to get the word out about these DVDs. We could all use a course on feminisms and these DVDs are affordable enough that we might consider sending out a few sets to the eejits in the press and media. They seem to have a really hart time getting their head around the idea that women deserve full and equal rights in our society!

  • Elaine

    The only way to fix the sexist crap is to focus on getting all the stupid (mostly young) women out their to stop being Girls Gone Wild types and get them to understand that we are a majority and if they can start having more respect for themselves and stop letting men exploit them we could be a powerful force in government policies.

  • http://ezinearticles.com/?Three-Basic-Parenting-Styles&id=744499 Northwest rain

    yep!

    WAKE UP GIRLS!

  • http://www.partizane.com catfish

    The link is broken introtofem.org. Maybe you could give us a teaser – what about these DVDs got you fired up about feminism again?

  • http://www.partizane.com catfish

    “Because women are women’s worst enemies.”

    Amen. The other week Susan asked for feminist book recommendations. Someone mentioned one on how Women Treat Women. Dang it looked good wish I could remember the title.

  • elise

    ” Because women are women’s worst enemies”

    Yes, Northwest. It so painful when that realization really hits home, but there it is and the question is, is there anything we can do to change.

    I was and am a feminist like Pat and I tried to let my daughter know in every way possible she was as valuable as her brother and I also raised my son to respect women as equal. In my naivete, I believed it would take no more than one generation to reach the status of true equality. There was such passion in the 60s and 70s in the movement.

    It didn’t take twenty years for feminazi to evolve as a word to describe women with ambition and independence. Now, as Susan discussed on another thread, Jay Z is a rich man because his music is being purchased and listened to by the young men and women in our country and our new president has given his approval to words which demean women and which emotionally abuse my gender. Our new president appointed Larry Summers as to head the Economic Council and this man espoused the theory men are intrinsically better able to comprehend the intricacies of science and engineering which I believe was a deliberately insulting snub to the intellegence of women.

    Personally, I believe the media in all it’s forms have encouraged (or created) the attitudes which are seeping into all of us and I consider it a physical assualt on myself and the other female memebers of my family and friends.

  • Seattle Moss

    ” Because women are women’s worst enemies”

    Wasn’t I surprised to find out this year that despite my best efforts to see a woman as president/vice president it is women themselves that are the brick wall to this advancement.

  • elise

    The extent and depth of it shocked me, Moss.

  • Seattle Moss

    Elise,
    I almost feel like I got snookered.
    My predictions are usually spot on, but I was completely wrong to believe that last year was to be..
    The year of the Woman

    Just didn’t happen

  • Seattle Moss

    Also…For a long time I have believed that violent movies that show abuse of women cultivate that type of behavior..I can’t watch these types of films because I want to leap on to the film and protect the woman..My natural instinct as a man.

  • elise

    Moss, you and the Dalai Lama.

  • winston

    As true as any proposition of Euclid.

  • RIChris

    Incidents like Chappaquiddick, where a young woman is left to die because of a callous, spoiled man, help to perpetrate sexism and violence against woman.
    Each time the people of Massachusetts voted for Kennedy, they voiced the opinion that Mary Jo Kopechne’s life was far less conseqential than that of Ted Kennedy.

  • BernieO

    I agree that women are women’s worst enemies. My mother-in-law is the biggest male chauvinist I know. She puts men on a pedestal, clearly preferring her sons and grandsons. Of course it is her daughters who are always there for her when she is sick, etc. My husband is aware of this and it has become a big joke between him and his sisters – and daughter. One sister called up a while back to say that their mother was praising him for taking a day off from work to visit her over the weekend. His sister is a single mother who works on commission only. She had taken a week off to help her mom after surgery. Her mother thought nothing of it. Clearly mom still cannot value women’s working even when it is absolutely necessary. This it is not something she is conscious of.

    That, to me, is why sexism is so insidious. It is largely not conscious. Studies show that the exact same paper will be graded lower by both men and women if it has a woman’s name on it. Another study with business executives showed they were more likely to say they would hire someone after seeing a resume if the name was male (or clearly white, not ethnic, AA, etc.). Similar bias exists against people who have uncool accents like Bill Clinton, Jimmy Carter or Sarah Palin.
    Subconscious bias is difficult to prove and therefore much harder to address. And the biases of a culture are internalized by all its members, even the ones being discriminated against. That is why those little AA girls in the famous study chose white over black dolls. Sadly a recent repeat of the experiment had the same result.

  • http://uk.yahoo.com/?fr=fptb-bt Josie

    This is a little off topic re this post but it is something I have been wondering about (and it is about sexism).

    There has been a lot of posts at NQ about how we should stop hating Obama and give him credit where credit is due. And many No Quarter radio broadcasters have stated that they want to support him as their President because they want Amercia to do well. I understand why NQ wants to make these points, so I have no beef with the site, or any of their radio shows.

    However, my question is- If a large number of black people felt that Hillary Clinton had, with the help of the media and the DNC, stolen the nomination from Obama through racist means, would they be saying similar gracious things about her as their new President?

    I think about this in light of all the discussion had recently about how we need to make sexism as bad as racism.

    If the answer is yes then I’ll shut up.

    If the answer is no, then I wonder -is feminism making a mistake by being so polite towards their new leader through fear or seeming un-American or hateful? Surely, to remain opposed to this man and all that he stood for, is the best way to show people how important issues such as eliminating voter fraud and misogony really are. (Saying that, is it too simplistic to compare issues of race and gender in this manner?)

  • lynn

    Gosh I’m always responding a day late to these posts, but I had to write & agree with you Moss. We watched 2 movies this week, then a TV show. Synopsis of each seemed benign, but each had young, sexy, women portrayed as victims. By the time we got to the TV show, I turned it off, saying I am so f’ing sick of watching women be victims (and in the case of the tv drama, sexualized violence). Has anyone noticed that? Every crime drama the victim is a woman- serial killers never take men? And the woman is always young, hot & barely clothed. And although she has been held in a basement for 5 days with no shower, she still looks hot. Then there is the inevitable scene where the man gets in her face, maybe touching some part of her, and the sense of sexual harm is there.

    Between the combo of women as props & hos in the rap world and women as victims in the movie world, what kind of signals are these? And watching the young woman victim, who was of course rescued by a man, I could not help but think of Sarah Palin, packing heat. Sarah Palin does not act like a victim and the left hates her.

  • Coupe de Groucho

    Remember, misogynistic behavior and homophobia are from the same root – they’ve very, very closely related.

  • Kal

    Hey, come on. After millennia of patriarchal and now ‘any male will do better than a woman’ male privilege, HOW can you end up pointing the finger at women as the ‘worst enemy’?

    That’s nuts!!!

    Sure, there’s a profound lack of genuine solidarity among women, but that’s part of the whole men-first pattern.

    I say any man who drops a sock on the floor without even bothering to think about whether that’s the right place for it or how it is going to get moved to a better place is a bigger ‘enemy’ of women’s equality than any woman who has had to live in this system her whole life.

    Stop blaming the victims!!

  • Ferd Berfle

    The young women of today are but a shadow of the women of the 60s and 70s, who threw off the sexist yoke placed there by men. Apparently that yoke is once again in vogue.

    Liberation and equality are not synonymous with exhibitionism, wanton sexuality, or objectification.

  • http://ianwsuz.cn/ Arnie
  • seaseal

    Dear Seattle Moss–your comment about women being the brinks in the wall leaves me cold. Look up “internalized oppression” and study how men in power have co-opted women. Fuzzy thinking–and I know Seattle is full of that–can harm our progress as much as real bricks. UW grad who got out of Seattle fast

  • http://vsbtjbie.cn/ Neo
  • http://rkimyira.cn/ Dominic
  • http://highoufs.info/ Bill
blog comments powered by Disqus