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Best of Times, Worst of Times

You know, sometimes we political junkie types get so wrapped up in politics and current events we forget there is other news and other things taking place in the world.

The great English writer Charles Dickens opens his magnificent novel A Tale of Two Cities, a love story set against the backdrop of the French Revolution, with the following sentence:

“It was the best of times; it was the worst of times…….”

So it is now.

We often forget that even in the worst of times during war, famine, recession, depression, meltdowns, etc., that the human spirit is strong and flourishes, survives, and often reaches new heights of kindness, love, and selflessness.

We need to remember that previous generations have faced crisis and have survived. I believe we have to keep that kind of spirit alive in our own minds, hearts, and lives if we are to survive whatever this latest crisis will bring.

So with that in mind, I share two recent news stories with you that I hope lift your spirits and help you remember that human beings can be incredibly loving, thoughtful, kind, and generous even though times are bad.

Story One: Koala Bear Saved In Australian Fire

We all love koala bears. They are so cute and cuddly. However, koalas have very sharp claws they use to climb into the trees. A human could not normally approach them or even touch them in their natural habitat because they are wild. But this koala, like a lot of humans dealing with the massive Australian fires, evidently had just had too much trauma. She needed comfort.

The Volunteer firefighter saw her and said she just sat there as if to say “I’m beat!” He gave her water……….. She drank three bottles!! During the encounter the koala bear reached out her paw to the firefighter first and kept it there as she drank water from a plastic bottle.

He had to leave her, because the firefighters were called out to defend another property, but she was picked up a few minutes later by Wildlife rescue workers.

She is doing very well, all bandaged for her burns and on pain killers, and she has caught the eye of a male koala at the same place where she is recuperating.

Story Two: 40 Years Worth of Thanks

From the Boston Globe: “The firefighter crawled on his stomach through the pitch-black apartment, the smoke so thick he couldn’t see his hand in front of his face. Somewhere inside was a baby and he had to find her.

“A window broke, light filled the room, and he saw her lying in her crib, dressed only in a diaper, unconscious. Soot covered her tiny nose. She wasn’t breathing and had no pulse.

“He grabbed her and breathed life into her as he ran from the apartment.

“A newspaper photograph captured their image – a white firefighter from South Boston with his lips pressed to the mouth of a black baby from the Roxbury public housing development – at a time when riots sparked by racial tensions were burning down American cities.”

He saved her life. But the firefighter never saw the child again. That is untill now, 40 years later in a reunion that will surely touch your heart.

You can read the entire story here with video of their reunion.

As I said, it is the best of times; it is the worst of times. We will survive.

  • Texas Playwright

    Amen, bert, amen.

  • Seattle Moss

    Thanks for the nice piece.
    I will try not think about the other millions of animals that have died.
    Like the fires in California humans have settled the wilderness and as a result our structures we build become fuel sources when brush fires come through.
    All the oil based products within the house just explode into inferno spreading the fires.
    The future looks bleak for those that have decided to encroach on nature. Rising prices plus reduced availability of jobs means that the new slums or abandonment will be these outlying suburbs. People will have to move back to the cities to survive.

  • http://firefox AnnieCollier

    Not sure I agree with that Moss. I think you’ll find that more and more people who live outside the cities are building “green”. My kids will be off the grid on their land, have their own well water, sod roofs and concrete floors with radiant heating (from the solar panels), adobe walls make for cool summers and warm winters. I have been preaching sustainable living to them for the past 10 years or so. Fortunately, it took. As for myself, I developed adaptability and flexibility during my Big Sur years. I can make almost any place into a home…once lived in a cabin that had originally been a chicken coop…albeit a very charming one with an ocean view and concrete/mosiac counters long before they were fashionable!

    I ran into two of my old pals from those days yesterday at the Farmers Market and as we remembered old times, we marveled at how it had prepared us for what’s coming. One has just been laid off his job and the other has moved her two daughters and little grandson back to her and her partner’s house. We are doing the same…2 grannies holding down the rental house in town (because of health conditions of the 91 y/o)and the kids in the place they’ve built over the past five years. We pared down to combining 2 houses from 4. Luxury is having a place of your own to do as you wish but we’ve got our priorities straight, I think.

    These times will call for originality, creativity and grit. But living in the big city during these times? Can’t even imagine it.

  • Old Grumpy Guy

    The main difference between the current generation and the ones who faced the hardships of the past is the fact that the majority of the electorate of today have never been tempered by upbringing, cultural values and general experience in the way that previous generations were, with the young of today rooted in a cultural milieu that celebrates superficiality and aggression. A brush with reality might do them good, but the first reaction from them will probably be truculence over circumstances spoiling their fun (like the mother of Caylee Anthony). But of course the people who most need a sharp dose of reality – the likes of Paris Hilton and Madonna, and most celebutantes – are cocooned by the wealth they have accumulated through the celebration of superficial values.

  • Seattle Moss

    Anne,
    I can appreciate your answer and do agree with you about self reliance and building green.
    However,what I’m talking about primarily are the McMansion’s that were built with substandard materials that are already falling apart that were sold at the height of the boom to those financing with sub prime loans
    The following article explains where I’m coming from.

    http://www.theatlantic.com/doc/200803/subprime

  • Tricia Spiegel

    Beautiful, bert.
    AND I agree with Old GG!

  • http://firefox AnnieCollier

    Good article. Thanks. Yes, they are two different situations. And, a lot of those McMansions were built as speculative ventures with the plan to flip them in a year or two. I detest what they have thrown together in those monstrosities. It would be great if they could be leveled and turned in to sustainable communities.

    My kids built a one room comfortable studio for the oldest boy (a sustainable landscape designer) and a two bedroom house with a shared shower room for themselves with the plan that it would not be sold in their life time but passed on to their sons. I guess you can’t tell that I’m proud of them.

  • http://firefox AnnieCollier

    the likes of Paris Hilton and Madonna, and most celebutantes

    While I don’t usually wish ill, even on celebratards, I couldn’t help but wonder whether either of those empty shams would turn up on the Madoff list.

  • Ferd Berfle

    are the McMansion’s that were built with substandard materials that are already falling apart that were sold at the height of the boom to those financing with sub prime loans

    I wouldn’t have a house built after 1980. Last year I bought a 109-year old house in a historic district. It has done all the settling it is ever going to do, is as solid as a rock, and, with maintenance, it will should last another hundred years.

  • Seattle Moss

    You should be very proud!
    I learned a valuable lesson in the 80′s when the bottom fell out of the oil industry ending my Dad’s career..I had tough times similar today, but unlike now I learned to live within my means. Instead of having a huge house we have a nice craftsman that’s big enough and cozy for us and energy efficient.

  • Prem

    Thanks, Bert, for sharing these two heart-warming (associated with the thymus gland—helping to keep the immune response system vital, located behind the sternum just to the right of the physical heart) stories. I’ve been consciously trying to balance my reading, exposure to the “bad news”, with reading about and making sure I have plenty of exposure to “good news”—inspiring stories that will literally uplift the spirit. I want to stay informed (one reason I come here daily). And,it’s equally important to take care of oneself by watching comedy, laughing (helps to energize immune system) and reading articles like you have posted. We get some great laughs here–especially from the very clever commentaries.

    Also, I try to remember that other generations have gone through perhaps even rougher times and have survived. WWII, that my parents went through, as well as the Great Depression, are touchstones and help me realize that folks have come through those challenges in tact and probably even stronger.

    Norman Counsins wrote a book called “Anatomy of an Illness as Perceived by the Patient,” one of the first major contributions on the mind/body relationship, still has relevance today. For those of you not familiar with this highly recommended book, Cousins, who was diagnosed with a terminal disease, figured out that he had acquired the disease after several years of experiencing much negativity and that to counter that he needed to experience positivity, so he began watching comedy movies, among some other tools he utilized. He did cure himself of that disease.

    It’s important during these days filled with so much negative information (BHO is not helping—”crisis into catastrophe”—ugh!) to consciously be proactive and make sure you are creating a lot of positive experiences in your life and for your families.

  • Seattle Moss

    Ferd,
    Our house was built in 1918 and is solid with so much character..I wouldn’t want anything else!

  • wodiej

    bert, what an excellent post…thank you so much. And what great stories to use as examples.

    I agree w you wholeheartedly about the politics not being the only thing going on. I personally have been through alot worse than what is going on now. I think those who have not lived through it before, it’s difficult if not impossible to understand. Personally speaking, every tough time I went through taught me something very valuable. We can take the hard times and let them add to the mold of our character in a positive way. Or we can be bitter and angry and let it be a negative force in our lives.

    EVeryone has a hard luck story-that’s life. Why do some use hard times and become a better person, and others use it as an excuse and stay stuck…who’s to say. All I know is, it’s a choice. I pick the positive.

    I am not rich financially but I am rich in spirit and wouldn’t trade it for anything.

    Happy Valentines Day everyone….

  • wodiej

    well said. when you haven’t faced and endured tough times it’s easy to spout “hope and change” without realizing what that really means. But I firmly believe those who have endured the tough times, as difficult as they are to get through, reap the best rewards.

  • http://firefox AnnieCollier

    I remember seeing Norman Cousins when he began to notice how laughing began his cure. He inspired me too. Didn’t he start watching movie comedies while in the hospital?

    Whenever I want to laugh away some of the mundane frustrations of life, I like to watch “It’s a Mad, Mad, Mad, Mad World. Never fails to put me in stitches and set me right.

  • http://firefox AnnieCollier

    One thing I notice about older solid houses is they usually were built with family life in mind rather than glorification of ego. I have to say that turn of the century houses are my favorite.

  • Seattle Moss

    Anne,
    I like fitting in nicely with the rest of the neighborhood instead of having a huge egotistical monstrosity.

  • Seattle Moss

    Happy Valentines day to you Wodiej

    You have a wonderful heart!

  • Ferd Berfle

    For sure, Seattle and Annie. Solid, having character, and designed for family. This house still has the lath and mortar walls and enormous timbers forming the substructure between the cellar and the first floor. These types of houses were built to last.

  • Ferd Berfle

    And just where were (or are) the parents in this? I once grounded my daughter for violating family rules and actually had a teacher call me asking why I was being so hard on the child. I told her to attend to her own children and that I would raise mine as I saw fit. That was several years ago, so I imagine it may be even worse, now. Many of the parents I have contact with neglect their duty to actually raise their children, preferring to beat their gums on cell phones or go off shopping while their little monsters raise enough of a din to piss off the dead.

  • Prem

    Yes, Annie—I think he watched the Three Stooges continuously, sometimes up til 12 hours a day—those movies were a little “mean”—poking fingers in eyes, etc.—but whatever worked to get him laughing. I try to go to bed either watching a bit of late night comedy or some of the Comedy Central presentations! For some reason (I guess my love/understanding of Hindu culture, religion. . ), “The Love Guru” always cracks me up. Other good ones, IMO, “The Wedding Crashers,” “Borat,” —keep their DVD’s close by. Also, “40-Year Old Virgin,” a little corny, but funny, “Superbad.”

  • http://sonicninjakitty.wordpress.com Sonic Ninja Kitty

    Bert–thanks for the reminder. I found it particularly touching that the woman who was the baby, Anderson, tried to find the firefighter, Carroll, three times. She was probably constantly thinking of him. And the first thing he said to her was “Thanks for remembering me.” There are good hearted people in the world!

  • http://firefox AnnieCollier

    Same here. Sometimes “3rd Rock From the Sun” is just silly enough to send me off with a smile.

    I’ll have to get “The Love Guru”…it’s been on my Netflix list for awhile.

  • http://firefox AnnieCollier

    Seattle: I’m watching CNBS…a program called “House of Cards” that takes on the whole sub-prime fiasco, starting with 9/11 then the “accounting” problems at Freddie and Fannie, leading to the marriage of mortgage companies in Orange County (where apparently it all started) with Wall Street.

    We know about the players in this fiasco but this documentary puts in all in order. Somehow it’s even more shocking. I immediately thought of your earlier comment when they started showing the suburban neighborhoods with massive foreclosures, covered in gang slogans, algae filled swimming pools, etc. So sad.

  • http://firefox AnnieCollier

    Sorry, CNBC.

  • TexasMirth

    These are heartwarming stories and wonderful reminders of what really matters. Thank you for posting them.

  • bert

    Yes, Seattle Moss, I think suburbs will become increasling obsolete as the recession deepens.

  • bert

    Well said, OGG.

  • bert

    Prem, thank you for the physiolgy lesson and the reminder of Coisin’s, Anatomy of an Illness. Great book. And you have just given me an idea for another post. The brain research these days is so fascinating. As for O’s negativity, I read an article just today on that very topic. Not FDR at all, is it? It makes matter worse. What happened to hope? Sacrificed on the altar of pork looks like to me.

  • bert

    Yes, wodije, Happy Valentimnes day to you as well. I agree with Seattle – you have a good heart.

  • bert

    Thanks to all of you who commented here. This was a wonderful discussion.

  • Seattle Moss

    Anne,
    Here is the latest article out of the twin cities proclaiming that the McMansion is dead

    http://www.twincities.com/ci_11705017

  • mountainaires

    Anne, I bow down in utter admiration to you. We’re now living rural, and have more options to do more–we pragmatically planned for the current situation–but are nowhere near your level of inspiring living. I’m now reading to try to catch up! :-)

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