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You Got That Right, Dee Dee

Yes, this is dated insofar as the election had not yet happened when this speech was given, but much of what Dee Dee Myers has to say is quite relevant today. As Senator Clinton is “vetted” (just spare me already about the whole vetting thing. I have one word to say about this: Daschle), she continues to be held to a different standard than men are. If we learned anything this year (and we should have, because it was blatantly obvious), misogyny was simmering just below the surface. It is not simmering any longer. It has boiled over. And continues to do so.

Here’s what Dee Dee Myers had to say about the primary season and expectations for men v. women:



As Bud White had in his excellent piece, “The Sexism Continues,” when a sitting US Senator is dismissed by major cable networks by headlines like, “(Persident) Clinton To Help Wife Get Job” as MSNBC had, there is no longer even an attempt to disguise it. This woman has more accomplishments in a year than many people do their entire lives, and certainly has more than the President (S)Elect, but her husband is going to help her get a job? She already HAS one, you misogynistic MSNBC *&@#$#! You can just bite me. This woman was a star even before she met Bill Clinton, thank you so much, or did you forget she was the first student EVER to give the address at Wellesley for her graduating class?? (Oh - and here’s a little heads up - you actually KNOW something about what SHE did in college. How about your man crush, Obama? What the hell do you know about his time at Occidental or Columbia, huh??? Tools.) Her husband is going to help her get a job? Please.

Just as a little reminder of the esteem with which GROWN UPS are capable of holding Senator Clinton, here she is as the Guest of Honor at the Marine Corps Sunset Parade:

Do you think she was the guest of honor because of her husband, or because as a US Senator, she has worked tirelessly for our men and women in uniform, especially veterans? Yeah. Her work, not who her husband is. Jagoffs.

Well, I was wrong. I guess Obama did unite some people after all. Men against women. Again. Out in the open, with no remorse. From our “news” channels. Great. What a uniter.

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Comment by sowsear | 2008-11-20 18:44:40

Sadly, I don’t think anyone is going to listen now or in the near furture. They’re all in a messianic
trance.

Comment by Maestro Biatch | 2008-11-21 00:14:32

Dee Dee Myers hasn’t one ounce of credibility with me anymore. She was the person who the Clinton people went to with their petty criticisms against Bill during the primary, and SHE is the one who gave her husband the dirt to publish that false and pathetic Vanity Fair article claiming the staff traveling with Bill were worried he was having affairs while on the road.

She’s got nothing left to say that I care to listen to.

 
 

Comment by cathnealon | 2008-11-20 18:44:59

Amy
The picture of Hillary makes me very sad that she is not our President. My God, she has all of the qualities of a great leader. I just want to flash forward to 2012 and see her as President of the United States. I don’t know if the msm has a conscience about what they have done to Clinton (and Palin) but I hope they live to regret every bit of misogynistic smears they threw at these wonderful, accomplished leaders.

Comment by bob | 2008-11-20 19:02:40

I don’t think chauvanistic and sexist men will vote for a 64 year old woman. Even Sarah Palin will be 48 then. It’s like women actresses. Around 40 they stop getting the callbacks. I wish society would get over it’s ageism and sexism.

Comment by NoBamaNoWay | 2008-11-21 03:54:52

i really don’t think it’s men against women, per se; it’s dumb-asses against intelligent, principled people. look how many women joined in the free-for-all against hillary and palin, and OTOH look how many men supported them. i will say that this sexist shit needs to be called out, every time it is done; there must be consequences, or they will keep doing it.

 
 

Comment by nancysabet | 2008-11-20 19:50:30

some how I think a miracle will bring her into the WH, because she is just so perfect for the job, She will be the best president we can ever have. And Hussien Obama will step down and spend his life in federal prison for all the lies he told to American people.

 
 

Comment by Louie | 2008-11-20 18:49:09

Bush, and Obama, even Cheney, had their way greased, right, but the truth still comes out against them, no one respects them as intelligent leaders.

Clinton, OTOH, despite the noise, is seen as a player, both Clintons.

 

Comment by lightacandle | 2008-11-20 18:55:20

Tom Daschle was a disaster as Senate Majority Leader and as Senate Minority Leader.

But that’s not my only point; my main point is that while Daschle had that high office, his wife was a CORPORATE LOBBYIST.

Mrs. Daschle is STILL a CORPORATE LOBBYIST.

How much vetting is SHE getting — or doesn’t her LOBBYING matter to Obama since Daschle supported Obama early on in the primaries?

“Daschle’s wife, Linda, is a registered lobbyist with a long list of corporate clients that may present potential conflicts of interest.”
– from The Chicago Tribune
http://tinyurl.com/6ldntf

Is this more of Obama’s version of “change” in Washington?

Just asking.

Comment by Rabble Rouser Reverend Amy | 2008-11-20 19:02:45

Precisely!! And Daschle was Bush’s lapdog, until his constituents threw him out. No doubt it is that kind of spinelessness Obama is rewarding to a man who has WHAT experience for HHS???

And yes, that photo of Hillary makes clear who SHOULD have had, who EARNED, the chance to run against McCain for C-in-C…

Comment by elise | 2008-11-21 02:09:41

Rev Amy, almost nothing was said on msn about Daschle’s failure to deliver SD for Obama even though, according to them, he was sure to win because of Daschle’s support. I think they may not like him too much in his home state.

Comment by NoBamaNoWay | 2008-11-21 04:00:43

by the time the primaries got here to SD people had wised-up to barky’s snake oil sales job; plus, the primary here was a CLOSED primary; it was dems only, so there was no possibility of shennanigens being carried out by repugs/indies. unfortunately, the catastrophe of the last 8 years was too much for mccain/palin to overcome.

 
 
 

Comment by bob | 2008-11-20 19:05:27

Daschle’s going to give more money to the HMO’s and pharmaceutical companies. Trips to the doctor are going to go from $20 to $40. Costs of medicince will go from $100 per month to $300 per month.

Comment by somerset | 2008-11-20 19:12:16

The doctors aren’t going to see any of it. All my fees from managed care and Medicare have declined year after year, as my costs have risen.

 
 
 

Comment by Alwaysthinking | 2008-11-20 19:07:39

I think the blatant, biased sexism demonstrated by our major media and as fostered by the Obama campaign is more than just a reflection of attitudes among the population. It has become so absurd that I am now convinced there is a concerted effort by the big corporate owners to deliberately belittle and oppress women. I noted one AP article today that described Tom Daschle as a “former Senate leader” and Hillary Clinton as “a well-known Washington personality,” as though she were a social hostess. How obnoxious! AP once was known for its fact-checking and fair reporting. In recent months, it has truly lost all credibility. Everything I learned about ethics and bias in a top-notch journalism program has been utterly destroyed this year. Perhaps these people truly are trying to get women to riot. What despicable perpetrators they are!

Comment by somerset | 2008-11-20 19:15:31

This is precisely why I know Senator Clinton should turn down the SOS appointment: do not reward sexist hatred. She should not enable him. She should stay in the Senate and write great legislation with her name on it.

 
 

Comment by yttik | 2008-11-20 19:15:06

Nice article, Rev Amy.

Arrggg, if you all will excuse me, I have to go break something now.

Comment by nancysabet | 2008-11-20 19:54:11

me too…ammmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

 
 

Comment by mountainaires | 2008-11-20 19:21:58

Oh, it’s just so infuriating. But, I changed my mind from my original optimism and hopey/changey good vibe about her becoming Sec/State.

I don’t think she should do it. I think she should say…while scratching her cheek with her middle finger…

You know, Barack, I think I’ll just hang out in the Senate and see what I can do for my constituency for the next four years.

It’s pretty pathetic watching Bill Clinton be danced around on puppet strings by the Obamabots. I hope Sen. Clinton decides to remain independent of Barry.

 

Comment by drmilak | 2008-11-20 19:26:58

thank you yet again RRRA! Yet again a beautifully written and poignant piece!

My heart belongs to Hillary! What a lady! Every time I go to MSNBC or CNN or even Fox which I tentatively went to a few times this past week since I cant imagine not watching TV for the next 4 years, every single time it took no more than a minute until there was some snide remark or and condecension against Hillary and I had to switch the channel before I threw up in my mouth. CAN.NOT.STAND.MSM.

 

Comment by bob | 2008-11-20 19:28:02

I think Hillary should do SOS for two years and then become a SCOTUS. She’ll go down in history as the only woman to be First Lady, a Senator, SOS and SCOTUS. No one could ever top that.

 

Comment by wodiej | 2008-11-20 19:29:22

thank you for the post and quite a nice picture of Hillary there looking on at some of our military.

As for the sexism, I knew it had never died, it’s just been simmering beneath the surface. I have always been resentful towards most men because of their arrogance and demeanor of superiority, the way they eyeball us, flirt with us….but let us say something serious at work, have an idea about something and we’re brushed off, told to go back to our desk and keep quiet and quit raising a fuss. I’m there with ya Hillary. But for the life of me I can’t imagine being SOS for that SOB after the way they treated her. It is not pouting to say “kiss my ass, I can do better.” If more women would say that to the men who treat them so awful and with such disrespect, they would straighten up. Here we go again with the lack of accountability.

Ever notice, men can wear sloppy clothes, have a big, fat gut, stink,be losing their hair, missing some teeth and be 150 years old but by God us women better not look like that or we’re just scum??

I guess I am still hoping that Hillary will say “thanks, but no thanks.” In other words, kiss my ass, I can do better.

Comment by Rabble Rouser Reverend Amy | 2008-11-20 19:44:49

Yes to the sexism - it was clear that things were backtracking, but it was the explosion of full-fledged misogyny, especially by so-called JOURNALISTS, that was shocking - and which moved me to be less than polite in this post…

It is clear we have so, so much more work to do…

 
 

Comment by bob | 2008-11-20 19:45:29

Hillary has to become something bad to do something good. If she brings peace to the middle east and human rights to women across the world, then giving in to Obama might not be so bad.

Comment by WildChild | 2008-11-20 19:48:57

If she can bring peace to the middle east and human rights to women across the world, then what was the point of BOBO? We didn’t need him at all.

Comment by bob | 2008-11-20 19:54:48

I don’t care about him. I care about her doing the world some good. Hillary’s main issues are children, women and human rights.

 
 
 

Comment by Texas Playwright | 2008-11-20 19:47:01

Neanderhal America has a long way to go in treating women with respect. Stay in the Senate, Hillary, and keep and eye on the American crooks. Let BHO make a fool of himself internatiohally while YOU, our AMERICAN hero, save the US right here at home.

Comment by bob | 2008-11-20 19:50:48

That might backfire though. If Obama succeeds without her, then everyone will point at Hillary and say, see he didn’t need you. Which means: men don’t need women. The sexism will just continue. She has to take the job and do better than everyone thinks. Then she can point the finger and say see: without women, men can’t do well. We gotta do it together.

Comment by WildChild | 2008-11-20 19:57:39

the whole point of feminism was that women be judged on their individual merits. It was never a you can’t live without us movement. So no, Hillary won’t accept the job for your reasoning, work to excellence for your reasoning,or sum up a successful tour of duty with your reasoning.

 

Comment by somerset | 2008-11-20 20:47:33

I’ll chance it. He will never give her credit if she succeeds. He will blame her if he fails. You can put that in the bank.

 

Comment by bert | 2008-11-20 21:16:43

Don’t wory, Bob. Obama will not succeed. The economy will make sure of that. And he will make it worse with his policies.

 
 
 

Comment by New Party | 2008-11-20 19:50:35

Jagoffs.

THAT’S the word I’ve been trying to think of this year for most of the talking heads and pols. Thanks, Amy. Haven’t heard that one in a while.

The misogyny certainly has boiled over. What to do now? Too bad most women just accept it, and men count on that.

Comment by Rabble Rouser Reverend Amy | 2008-11-20 20:11:00

LOL - happy to help! :-D

 
 

Comment by bob | 2008-11-20 19:56:39

Albright was a joke and so is/was Rice. Hillary can show the world how it’s done.

 

Comment by nancysabet | 2008-11-20 20:00:34

Please , we all need to bycote these media outlets and get united behind Hillary and Sara Palin and any other women who try to get into office. There is no other way, except to use our financial and political power to back women who seeks office in our broken govenment. Hussien obama is nothing but the product of a well planned marketing strategy. his presidency is a joke and won’t last long

 

Comment by karen for Clinton for PRESIDENT not SoS | 2008-11-20 20:21:45

I will never learn to trust him. Nothing he could do would reverse the sins of this entire year.

Team O blamed her staff for leaks while praising themselves for running a tight ship. Meanwhile, they have leaked info about EVERY nomination so far.

They are playing games to discredit her once again. It’s just like the “good old days” of the primary.

Fun times ahead and more Hillary bashing from the left and the right and worst of all from HIM - the man who stole her desk chair.

If she does get the job, he will never let her break the glass ceiling. He’ll always keep her down. He takes credit for everything everybody else does, that is something we saw constantly. Everything she does good will be credited to him, everything HE does wrong will be blamed on HER.

That is obama. We all know it very well. We watched him do it to everybody. He is a glory sponge and a blame thrower. He’ll get a sign for the oval office saying “The buck stops on Hillary’s desk.”

 

Comment by oo12oo | 2008-11-20 20:38:42

It’s way past time for women to recieve the proper RESPECT and full HONOR they deserve from all walks of life…

http://ontheseventhday.wordpress.com/

 

Comment by bert | 2008-11-20 21:18:40

Great post, Rabble Rouser Reverand Amy!!!!! And that is the most sense I have heard out of Dee Dee Meyer in a very long time.

 

Comment by hedy | 2008-11-20 22:10:46

Who is Dee Myers talking about she didn’t even support Hillary and her husband made terrible remarks about her so don’t make a lier of yourself Dee.I’ve come to the conclusion that women are there own worse enemies.

 

Comment by IBI | 2008-11-20 22:21:29

Hillary should play hardball with Ted Kennedy until she gets what she needs to direct universal health care through the Senate and then stay there and do that. SOS is not the place for her - for many of the reasons mentioned.

Obama is “entitled” to full “credit” for the mess that the next 4 years will bring, and Hillary’s best sticking with the people of NY — They’re a “boss” who has the good sense to appreciate the good work she can do for them — unlike Obama - the ultimate con artist.

Then, too, if all the lawsuits can somehow prove in the next couple weeks that BO’s ineligible to be POTUS, the DNC will have one more chance to substitute Hillary as the Pres. candidate for the electors to vote for on Dec. 15 and we can all go dance in the streets!! (see you in DC for HER inauguration!!)

GO Hillary!

 

Comment by elise | 2008-11-21 03:09:26

I am so angry. We make comments here about whether or not Hillary should accept the position of Sec of State if offered not trusting her to make a wise decision even though we know she is wise and strong.

The media talking heads spend hours trying to find reasons she should not be offered the position and after years of being under a microscope and having every detail of her life and finances examined in minute and finding her life is an open book, are reduced to offering the most absurd, pathetic , convoluted arguments about her husband’s charity being a problem because he meets with people from other countries to solicit donations.

Or, he receives money for speeches from other countries and then he might cause problems (?) for Barack Obama never realizing they are admitting Obama isn’t strong enough to prevent a coup in his own presidency.

They have all admitted she is qualified and would be wonderful, but they are afraid she would overshadow the incompetent person they helped elect to the most powerful office in the world. Anyone who watched the debates must understand how inarticulate Richardson is and how lacking in charisma John Kerry is.

When Obama walked into the Oval Office for the first time last week, did he feel the weight of history and monstrous responsibility waiting for him in January? Why would he choose Hillary if he had no intention of following her advice? He must be scared or he would never consider a woman, especially Hillary.

Do women believe other women are capable enough to handle important jobs? Do we allow our husbands or boyfriends to undermine our respect for ourselves or convince us with subtle or not subtle words that our gender is somehow inferior? The media is simply reflecting what they know will be accepted when they tear women apart, mock their abilities and intelligence.

Thank you Amy, for continuing to bring this to the light of day. I hope you will never stop. It needs constant vigilance now more than ever. We have seen how easily this bigotry can be unleashed if it is accepted.

 

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