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		<title>By: socalannie</title>
		<link>http://www.noquarterusa.net/blog/2009/05/05/empty-nest-syndrome-open-thread/#comment-1201178</link>
		<dc:creator>socalannie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 06 May 2009 06:51:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>No more puppy videos???  Bummer!   (Boy, looking at this last one...I really wish I could&#039;ve gotten Lucky.)  I&#039;m glad for you  that they all went to other good homes, though.  Thank you for sharing your puppy journey with all of us, Rev Amy.  It made for a nice, peaceful break with all the news about the economy, torture, etc.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>No more puppy videos???  Bummer!   (Boy, looking at this last one&#8230;I really wish I could&#8217;ve gotten Lucky.)  I&#8217;m glad for you  that they all went to other good homes, though.  Thank you for sharing your puppy journey with all of us, Rev Amy.  It made for a nice, peaceful break with all the news about the economy, torture, etc.</p>
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		<title>By: stodgie</title>
		<link>http://www.noquarterusa.net/blog/2009/05/05/empty-nest-syndrome-open-thread/#comment-1201139</link>
		<dc:creator>stodgie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 06 May 2009 02:17:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>a puppy is a gift and what a shame some people can&#039;t see it or know what a wonderful thing our pets or companions are to us. i tried to take a nap awhile ago and two of my kitties joined me. of course they were concerned about dinner, but they are great!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>a puppy is a gift and what a shame some people can&#8217;t see it or know what a wonderful thing our pets or companions are to us. i tried to take a nap awhile ago and two of my kitties joined me. of course they were concerned about dinner, but they are great!</p>
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		<title>By: elise</title>
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		<dc:creator>elise</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 05 May 2009 23:16:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Giving love and shelter to homeless pets is a measure of your wonderful character RRRA. Even otherwise decent people don&#039;t always see how heartbreaking it is when pets become throwaways or how, like bread cast on water, the love comes back to you many times over when you give them love. Thank you so much.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Giving love and shelter to homeless pets is a measure of your wonderful character RRRA. Even otherwise decent people don&#8217;t always see how heartbreaking it is when pets become throwaways or how, like bread cast on water, the love comes back to you many times over when you give them love. Thank you so much.</p>
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		<title>By: Sonic Ninja Kitty</title>
		<link>http://www.noquarterusa.net/blog/2009/05/05/empty-nest-syndrome-open-thread/#comment-1200956</link>
		<dc:creator>Sonic Ninja Kitty</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 05 May 2009 15:53:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Nip it (pun intended) in the bud--it will only get worse.  I would try leaving a gentle leader (buy one at any large pet supply retailer--it goes snugly around the muzzle and top of head) and a leash on him around the house.  Any infractions get a small tug on the leash/leader with a firm &#039;No&#039; or sound of your choice.  It will probably take a day or two, then you can reduce the number of hours he has it on gradually.

This is a dominance issue.  You must establish that he is the &#039;low dog&#039; on the totem pole.  The dog should follow commands from even the youngest child in your family.  (Don&#039;t feel bad about it--dogs don&#039;t have self esteem issues like people do!)  Taking him for daily walks also helps establish you as his leader.  There are plenty of great articles about proper dog-walking techniques that you can read up on.  Also, daily 10 minute training sessions in sit/stay/come/down commands (with treats for incremental achievements) helps cement your leader-follower relationship (maybe 3 per day).  A trained dog is much happier than an untrained one because he has a place in the system and knows what to expect.

You have to decide what works best in your house and for your dog--all situations/dogs are different so what works for one family may not work for yours.  Our dog never gets to go on the beds, which are the thrones of the hierarchy, but he gets to go on the couches since it is social time with his pack (us) there.

Best of luck!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Nip it (pun intended) in the bud&#8211;it will only get worse.  I would try leaving a gentle leader (buy one at any large pet supply retailer&#8211;it goes snugly around the muzzle and top of head) and a leash on him around the house.  Any infractions get a small tug on the leash/leader with a firm &#8216;No&#8217; or sound of your choice.  It will probably take a day or two, then you can reduce the number of hours he has it on gradually.</p>
<p>This is a dominance issue.  You must establish that he is the &#8216;low dog&#8217; on the totem pole.  The dog should follow commands from even the youngest child in your family.  (Don&#8217;t feel bad about it&#8211;dogs don&#8217;t have self esteem issues like people do!)  Taking him for daily walks also helps establish you as his leader.  There are plenty of great articles about proper dog-walking techniques that you can read up on.  Also, daily 10 minute training sessions in sit/stay/come/down commands (with treats for incremental achievements) helps cement your leader-follower relationship (maybe 3 per day).  A trained dog is much happier than an untrained one because he has a place in the system and knows what to expect.</p>
<p>You have to decide what works best in your house and for your dog&#8211;all situations/dogs are different so what works for one family may not work for yours.  Our dog never gets to go on the beds, which are the thrones of the hierarchy, but he gets to go on the couches since it is social time with his pack (us) there.</p>
<p>Best of luck!!</p>
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		<title>By: arran</title>
		<link>http://www.noquarterusa.net/blog/2009/05/05/empty-nest-syndrome-open-thread/#comment-1200935</link>
		<dc:creator>arran</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 05 May 2009 14:51:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Possibly this person of note with a few bits from his biography will be over-looked here, but I am captivated by his post at truthdig, where he posts every Monday, if you&#039;re interested.

Chris Hedges&#039; post, &quot;Buying Brand Obama&quot;, has much of what I&#039;ve been thinking, not in the sense of &quot;great&quot; minds thinking alike, but of minds &quot;thinking, period&quot; variety.  He has a BA in English Literature (Colgate University), and a master&#039;s of Divinity (Harvard Divinity School).

Before March, 2003, I was against attacking Iraq, but quietly so as not to be trampled as the administration beat the warring drums and the masses rushed to embrace each other over our &quot;getting this bastard.&quot;  Hedges was not quiet:

May 17, 2003, 2 weeks after Bush&#039;s &quot;Mission Accomplished&quot; speech, Hedges delivered the Rockford College (Rockford, Illinois) commencement speech where he denounced the path Bush was leading us down.  The reaction of the audience was so threatening that Hedges had to cut his address short and was escorted by security officials off the campus.

His employers, the New York Times,criticized his statements and reprimanded him.

Hedges left the Times to become a senior fellow at The Nation Institute, write books, and teach.  His book, &quot;Empire of Illusion: The End of Literacy and the Triumph of Spectacle&quot; is due out in July.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Possibly this person of note with a few bits from his biography will be over-looked here, but I am captivated by his post at truthdig, where he posts every Monday, if you&#8217;re interested.</p>
<p>Chris Hedges&#8217; post, &#8220;Buying Brand Obama&#8221;, has much of what I&#8217;ve been thinking, not in the sense of &#8220;great&#8221; minds thinking alike, but of minds &#8220;thinking, period&#8221; variety.  He has a BA in English Literature (Colgate University), and a master&#8217;s of Divinity (Harvard Divinity School).</p>
<p>Before March, 2003, I was against attacking Iraq, but quietly so as not to be trampled as the administration beat the warring drums and the masses rushed to embrace each other over our &#8220;getting this bastard.&#8221;  Hedges was not quiet:</p>
<p>May 17, 2003, 2 weeks after Bush&#8217;s &#8220;Mission Accomplished&#8221; speech, Hedges delivered the Rockford College (Rockford, Illinois) commencement speech where he denounced the path Bush was leading us down.  The reaction of the audience was so threatening that Hedges had to cut his address short and was escorted by security officials off the campus.</p>
<p>His employers, the New York Times,criticized his statements and reprimanded him.</p>
<p>Hedges left the Times to become a senior fellow at The Nation Institute, write books, and teach.  His book, &#8220;Empire of Illusion: The End of Literacy and the Triumph of Spectacle&#8221; is due out in July.</p>
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		<title>By: MrMike</title>
		<link>http://www.noquarterusa.net/blog/2009/05/05/empty-nest-syndrome-open-thread/#comment-1200933</link>
		<dc:creator>MrMike</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 05 May 2009 14:46:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My middle son and his fiancee broke up and we inherited a rather large (107lb) 14 month old puppy. The good news is the youngest son&#039;s fiancee adores it and they will probably take him in when they set up house keeping. 
Meanwhile I get to clean up dog poop. 
I need some opinions. 
The missus and the youngest daughter allow him up on the furniture, a no-no in my book because sometimes he will snap if you sit too close to him. He&#039;s very territorial that way. However this is one of many battles I&#039;m not going to win. So the question is how do you break a dog of the snapping habit?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My middle son and his fiancee broke up and we inherited a rather large (107lb) 14 month old puppy. The good news is the youngest son&#8217;s fiancee adores it and they will probably take him in when they set up house keeping.<br />
Meanwhile I get to clean up dog poop.<br />
I need some opinions.<br />
The missus and the youngest daughter allow him up on the furniture, a no-no in my book because sometimes he will snap if you sit too close to him. He&#8217;s very territorial that way. However this is one of many battles I&#8217;m not going to win. So the question is how do you break a dog of the snapping habit?</p>
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		<title>By: I'm a Linda too</title>
		<link>http://www.noquarterusa.net/blog/2009/05/05/empty-nest-syndrome-open-thread/#comment-1200931</link>
		<dc:creator>I'm a Linda too</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 05 May 2009 14:21:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>:(  Empty nest syndrome indeed.  Oh so cute they are.

But you were great for and with them.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p> <img src='http://www.noquarterusa.net/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_sad.gif' alt=':(' class='wp-smiley' />   Empty nest syndrome indeed.  Oh so cute they are.</p>
<p>But you were great for and with them.</p>
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		<title>By: Katmoon</title>
		<link>http://www.noquarterusa.net/blog/2009/05/05/empty-nest-syndrome-open-thread/#comment-1200927</link>
		<dc:creator>Katmoon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 05 May 2009 14:06:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>RRRA, you are a good one, you know? So happy for you and yours and those puppies. It is always a bittersweet cry that feels the best; in those tears, we know, we love.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>RRRA, you are a good one, you know? So happy for you and yours and those puppies. It is always a bittersweet cry that feels the best; in those tears, we know, we love.</p>
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		<title>By: Sonic Ninja Kitty</title>
		<link>http://www.noquarterusa.net/blog/2009/05/05/empty-nest-syndrome-open-thread/#comment-1200923</link>
		<dc:creator>Sonic Ninja Kitty</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 05 May 2009 14:00:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Those pups got SO BIG!  It&#039;s nice to know they all went to loving homes--it&#039;s everything one can ask for in the end.  Is the mom (Lucy?) going to stay with you or go to your Mom?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Those pups got SO BIG!  It&#8217;s nice to know they all went to loving homes&#8211;it&#8217;s everything one can ask for in the end.  Is the mom (Lucy?) going to stay with you or go to your Mom?</p>
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		<title>By: Rabble Rouser Reverend Amy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Rabble Rouser Reverend Amy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 05 May 2009 13:24:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Are you kidding me??  Hell yes!  When the vet tech took them before our trip, I couldn&#039;t even talk abt them without crying!  And Sun. night, I&#039;d hear a noise and think it was them...

But thy have all gone to good, loving homes - oh - I saw Leo, the light brown with white at the vet yesterday when I was dropping off my chow/lab mix, Sweetie for more x-rays (they think she has problems with her cervical vertebrae).  He remembered me!  And he is SOOOOO cute.  His owners said it&#039;s hard to take him walking because everyone stops them to see him!  :-D

And Lucas&#039; people send us photos, too, so there will probably be more of the pups!

New Jordan pics soon, I promises!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Are you kidding me??  Hell yes!  When the vet tech took them before our trip, I couldn&#8217;t even talk abt them without crying!  And Sun. night, I&#8217;d hear a noise and think it was them&#8230;</p>
<p>But thy have all gone to good, loving homes &#8211; oh &#8211; I saw Leo, the light brown with white at the vet yesterday when I was dropping off my chow/lab mix, Sweetie for more x-rays (they think she has problems with her cervical vertebrae).  He remembered me!  And he is SOOOOO cute.  His owners said it&#8217;s hard to take him walking because everyone stops them to see him!  <img src='http://www.noquarterusa.net/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':-D' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>And Lucas&#8217; people send us photos, too, so there will probably be more of the pups!</p>
<p>New Jordan pics soon, I promises!</p>
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		<title>By: arran</title>
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		<dc:creator>arran</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 05 May 2009 13:13:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Weren&#039;t there some tears shed at their departing?  I know I&#039;m sad to see them leave. 

No more pictures -- sniff.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Weren&#8217;t there some tears shed at their departing?  I know I&#8217;m sad to see them leave. </p>
<p>No more pictures &#8212; sniff.</p>
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		<title>By: mountainaires</title>
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		<dc:creator>mountainaires</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 05 May 2009 12:49:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh, I&#039;m so happy for all of you, RRRAmy. Congratulations on a job well done. The pups will go on to have very happy, loving lives. Nothing better. ;-) Can&#039;t wait to see a pic of Jordan, I love horses, too.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh, I&#8217;m so happy for all of you, RRRAmy. Congratulations on a job well done. The pups will go on to have very happy, loving lives. Nothing better. <img src='http://www.noquarterusa.net/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' />  Can&#8217;t wait to see a pic of Jordan, I love horses, too.</p>
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		<title>By: Rabble Rouser Reverend Amy</title>
		<link>http://www.noquarterusa.net/blog/2009/05/05/empty-nest-syndrome-open-thread/#comment-1200906</link>
		<dc:creator>Rabble Rouser Reverend Amy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 05 May 2009 12:32:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh, Stray - oh, dear...They are mighty cute, those little piglets...

And Stray, you know you have a home here with us, right?  :-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh, Stray &#8211; oh, dear&#8230;They are mighty cute, those little piglets&#8230;</p>
<p>And Stray, you know you have a home here with us, right?  <img src='http://www.noquarterusa.net/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Rabble Rouser Reverend Amy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Rabble Rouser Reverend Amy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 05 May 2009 12:28:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>LOL - Jordan is our 16.2hh, 1,200 lb retired hunter/jumper standardbred, rescued by an area vet from a crazy lady threatening to shoot him in the head because he was having some lameness issues.  I&#039;ll do a new photo of him soon - he&#039;s GORGEOUS.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>LOL &#8211; Jordan is our 16.2hh, 1,200 lb retired hunter/jumper standardbred, rescued by an area vet from a crazy lady threatening to shoot him in the head because he was having some lameness issues.  I&#8217;ll do a new photo of him soon &#8211; he&#8217;s GORGEOUS.</p>
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		<title>By: Stray Yellar Dawg</title>
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		<dc:creator>Stray Yellar Dawg</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 05 May 2009 10:21:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Good job on the pups! Hooray for you!!

I was just thinking yesterday... good thing I don&#039;t rescue piglets. I&#039;d have to quarantine them! YIKES!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good job on the pups! Hooray for you!!</p>
<p>I was just thinking yesterday&#8230; good thing I don&#8217;t rescue piglets. I&#8217;d have to quarantine them! YIKES!</p>
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