Ponies in the Poop Pile: Ten Potential Positive Outcomes of the Economic Meltdown

An optimist has been defined as one who would, should a ton of crap be dumped on his doorstep, jump right in and rummage through it, convinced that there must be a pony in there somewhere. I tend towards optimism.

So, while not for one second denying that millions of citizens have been significantly harmed by the economic decline, disaster often has a way of encouraging the the best in human nature to come forward. As our society appears to increasingly embrace a narcissistic, materialistic morality, bearing witness to what this has wrought may shake us all up in a good way.

Here’s my list as to how that could happen.

1. Valuing experiences over accumulating tangible things. The research substantiates that happier people are less interested in stuff and mostly find their joy in experiences. And maybe the best things in life are not free, but some come close. To wit: a picnic in the park, walks through the closest pretty place, potluck dinners with a few friends, bird and other small critter watching (scrub jays are a hoot, especially if you have peanuts–shells and all–to offer them), and checking the paper for free events. (Many communities have slews of them every week.) It kind of takes getting used to after spending $10 for a movie and $20 for a dinner out, but it grows on you. “What is the most fun thing we can do that doesn’t cost anything (or very little)?” A great game for tough times.

2. Finding and exercising your creative self. You may have received a handmade card from a child. That beats Hallmark every time, yes? And with cards now costing as much as a gift did a few years ago, it’s time to get back to the joy of making things from scratch. Cards, wrapping paper (recycle those grocery bags and magazines with a great collage), clothing, beaded jewelry, playing with a food recipe, whatever. I have always taught my students that what is truly special about being human is our capacity to create something from nothing, to transform an idea or raw stuff into something that arose from inside our own selves. Pure joy awaits.

3. Valuing used goods. Just because it is new and no one else has touched it doesn’t mean it’s better. Increasing numbers of my friends are unabashedly buying clothing from thrift and second hand stores, not because they are absolutely forced to, but because it is fun. The bargains and “the look” can be stunning. They also like the idea of giving items another round of wear. Other friends are finding that some old things can be fixed, and sometimes they can even do it them themselves (from which they get the joy as described in #2). Money is saved in the process and for the environment, well that’s #4.

4. Helping Mother Nature. When errand times and routes are planned to conserve gasoline, and when stuff is reused or recycled, we help protect the environment. Bad economic times may help instill some good habits.

5. Learning what you don’t really need. A friend said recently, “You know, I have had to spend wisely because my job was furloughed, but I don’t miss a lot of stuff I thought I absolutely had to have. And I found some good less expensive replacements for things I needed. I’m feeling kind of proud of myself.” I think most people would be able to save money if they realized that some of what they want to replace is quite good enough as it is.

6. The joy of helping others. Another solid finding from the happiness research is that accumulating wealth and material things is not a marker of a satisfying life. One of the primary sources of life satisfaction is quite the opposite—giving of oneself to others. This current economic situation means for most of us that the need is no longer just about writing a check to some charity and sticking it in the mailbox. Rather, the needs are much closer to home now. The local school is short on basic supplies, the food bank is desperate for donations, a niece lost her home and needs a refrigerator for an apartment, a neighbor’s home was stripped bare by burglars when they were away for the day and they need a lot of things that the rest of us can spare. Giving is getting up close and personal—and doing it nourishes our souls.

7. A good time to drop bad habits. For those who eat or drink way too much, smoke, are dependent on unnecessary chemicals, to work on cutting them out not only saves cash but will help out with health costs–if not now, down the line. Indeed, taking care of ourselves in every way not only will cost less but maximizes the chances of a more vibrant life (while saving the rest of us money as well).

8. Grow some food. Even those with small places, so long as you have some sun and a place to put a pot or two, you can know the real taste of a tomato. I only recently started “farming” my yard. I made some mistakes (trying veggies that really don’t like my climate) but the successes are glorious. Besides tomatoes there are herbs, zucchini, oranges, peaches, pomegranates, guavas, and carrots. They don’t taste anything like what you buy in the store. They taste like…heaven. Maybe you don’t save a ton of money, and it does take some time to watch over them as they grow, but there is something deeply satisfying to be found here. Back to the land, I guess. (Oh, and help our landfill crisis by putting veggie, fruit scraps, and coffee grounds in a big container that you turn from time to time, and after some weeks you will have the greatest soil ever. You don’t absolutely have to add worms. The right bugs will find it on their own.)

9. Remembering how to save. I was so good as a kid. I would save up those pennies until I could buy something really cool. Then adulthood hits—earn a dollar and quickly spend it on something that beckons from TV. After all, we had to have “one of those” to be perceived is as successful human beings, right? Americans are not saving, and the ramifications are destructive for us all as the bankruptcy rate skyrockets and many people cannot even buy what they really need. Maybe after things settle down (fingers crossing here) savings accounts will become popular, and having one a source of family pride.

10. Lessons passed on to the children. If we do come to value each other more, conserve better, appreciate what we do have more, and place an emphasis on meaningful experiences and maintaining good health, our kids will pick up on it. Now, that would be priceless!

What do you think? Any ideas to add or expand upon?