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Hatred Rears Its Ugly Head

You may have seen this report of Gay youth who were murdered in Tel Aviv:

The spontaneous march in response, the solidarity evident, brought tears to my eyes.

While we are on the subject of the GLBT community, as of this writing, according to the Servicemembers Legal Defense Network, 332 service members have been dismissed under DADT under Obama and this Congress.

As for Obama and Same Sex Marriage, anyone holding their breath that Obama will do anything FOR it should breathe now. I’ve been saying this for a while, and James Kirchick writing for the Washington Post had this to say in his editorial, “Obama Said ‘I Don’t. He May Just Mean It” (h/t to American Girl in Italy):

~snip ~ When it comes to same-sex marriage, the movement can’t count on support from the current president either. When White House press secretary Robert Gibbs was asked about Clinton’s comments, he told reporters that his boss “does not support” same-sex marriage. “He supports civil unions,” Gibbs assured. And despite President Obama’s statement that he opposes the ban on gays serving openly in the military, Democratic Rep. Alcee Hastings (Fla.) last week said that the White House pressured him to withdraw an amendment that would have prohibited funds from being spent on investigating “don’t ask, don’t tell” violations.

Even if Obama does in fact believe in marriage equality, he hasn’t done — and is unlikely to do — much to forward the cause. And apart from some toothless sniping from a handful of gay activists and donors, he seems to be getting away with it. In this way, the presumed (yet secret) good intentions of Democrats can wind up doing more harm than good: They tell the gay community that Democrats are at least better than the GOP, thus providing an excuse that can be employed endlessly while they stall.

This trust in covert backing from liberal elected officials is an article of faith among most supporters of same-sex marriage. In a recent interview with Newsweek, gay playwright Tony Kushner spoke of Obama’s secret belief in the righteousness of same-sex marriage as if it were painfully obvious. “Pbbbht! Of course he’s in favor of gay marriage!” Kushner exclaimed. His views were echoed by Steve Hildebrand, a gay political consultant who served as Obama’s deputy national campaign director. “I do believe that in his heart he will fight his tail off until we’ve achieved full equality in the gay community,” he told journalist Rex Wockner. I’ve lost track of the number of liberal friends and acquaintances, gay and straight alike, who assure me that Obama “really” supports same-sex marriage and, furthermore, that this point is obvious.

How can they be so sure? People want to like political leaders, and when someone as charismatic as Clinton or Obama comes along, it’s easy to ignore the facts that get in the way of an idealized image. That liberal politicians are indifferent — if not outright opposed — to same-sex marriage stands at utter odds with liberals’ notion of an enlightened community of like-minded progressives. “Does anybody actually believe that Barack Obama and Michelle Obama think that we shouldn’t have — that this man who is a constitutional-law scholar — is it a complicated issue?” Kushner sputtered, as if anyone who disagreed were an imbecile.

Ah yes, why actually believe Obama’s own WORDS on this issue, is the question I would have for Kushner. Obama, and Biden, have been VERY clear that their position on same sex marriage is EXACTLY THE SAME as Sarah Palin’s. Exactly the same. Identical. No difference. But please, keep lying to yourselves so you can continue to glorify The One. And go have some more Kool Aide while you’re at it. Kirchick continues:

Because people such as Kushner view political liberalism as a positive personality trait and not just a worldview, they assume that someone who opposed the Iraq war and sees himself as a “citizen of the world” would also believe in the right of gays to marry. People cannot conceive that such a cosmopolitan and eloquent man as Obama would disagree with them on an issue that they consider a no-brainer.

This is convenient for liberals because it allows them to deflect blame from politicians they like onto those they don’t, namely conservatives, the sincerity of whose opposition to same-sex marriage they never challenge. If only Republicans desisted in their homophobia, this narrative goes, justifiably timid liberals would come out of their closets of prevarication, so to speak, and support gay marriage unambiguously.

Framing gay rights as a strictly partisan issue also allows liberals to obscure the awkward fact that while they are more likely than conservatives to support same-sex marriage, a key Democratic constituency, African Americans, overwhelmingly opposes it.

Obama’s history on the issue does have a complicating twist. On a 1996 Illinois Senate race questionnaire, Obama (or more likely a staffer) wrote, “I favor legalizing same-sex marriages, and would fight efforts to prohibit such marriages.” Liberals take from this revelation the assumption that Obama’s apparent flip was insincere.

But there is nothing in his record since he became a national political figure that should give them any reason to think he will revert to his supposedly pro-gay-marriage position. And if Obama actually does believe in same-sex marriage, that makes his public opposition to it worse than it would be if he were genuinely opposed. How is it in any way reassuring to liberals to suppose that a politician agrees with them while selling them down the river? Even if Obama’s apparent flip isn’t genuine, he nonetheless acts as if it were, rendering his supposedly silent support worthless in tangible political terms. Whatever he “really” thinks, Obama’s stance on gay marriage is virtually indistinguishable from that of John McCain.

For some time, liberal politicians have taken a largely wink-and-nod approach to gay issues. They’ve done so with the excuse that the culture must catch up before any progress can be made (an excuse that conveniently doesn’t apply to other liberal interest groups, such as unions and trial lawyers, that do very well when Democrats are in power). Obama paid tribute to this timeworn tactic recently when he told gay activists at the White House: “I want you to know that I expect and hope to be judged not by words, but by the promises my administration keeps. By the time this administration is over, I think you guys will have pretty good feelings about the Obama administration.”

Talking about “feelings” is a cuddly liberal pastime, and Obama’s promise conjures up the phrase that Clinton famously entered into our political lexicon when he told an angry AIDS activist, “I feel your pain.” Maybe now, when it comes to same-sex marriage, he finally does. But it would be nice to have a sitting president whose feelings translate into action. (jkirchick@tnr.com James Kirchick is an assistant editor of the New Republic and a contributing writer to the Advocate.)

Good for Mr. Kirchick to actually point this out. I seriously doubt that the people who refuse to believe it will see the light, but at least he tried, right? And I appreciate the effort on his part.

Speaking of the Washington Post, we had this this, from July 31st. It is a shift from homophobia to sexism. You will most likely recognize the two “players” in this video:

I said all along that Obama, the DNC, and the MSM declared open season on women. There was little or no comeuppance for ANYONE who made disparaging, sexist, or misogynistic comments about Hillary Clinton or Sarah Palin. I knew it was going to continue, and possibly get worse. Here we are. With these two sexist pigs suggesting Clinton, who can run RINGS around these two intellectually, politically, and HUMANELY, drinks “Mad Bitch beer.” What a couple of _______ - you fill in the blank.

Oh, and one last thing. Vanity Fair has an article about Sarah Palin entitled, “It Came From Wasilla.” Yes, the author is a man. They are calling the former Governor, a woman, “It”?? Like when Glenn Beck said of Hillary Clinton, “It cries”??? Sheesh, the author isn’t even original. And naturally, the article is another hatchet job of this woman who dared to work her way up, buck her own party, and do right by her state. Naturally. Not for nothing, but I would have more rights in Alaska because of Sarah Palin than in most states in the Union. Just sayin’.

Back to Millbank and Cilliza: WHY DO THEY STILL HAVE THEIR JOBS???? I guess the same reason people like David Shuster does - he can call Hillary Clinton a pimp, and her daughter a whore, and keep his job with just a little slap on the wrist. So I guess what Millbank and Cillizza did was mild by comparison? Their comeuppance cannot come too soon, and it SHOULD come for this blatantly sexist attack on Secretary of State Clinton. Now. They should be fired.

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Comment by DCMediagirl | 2009-08-04 09:56:41

I congratulate you on finding this YouTube “Mouthpiece Theater” clip. Reacting to a tsunami of criticism, the Washington Post tried pulling this video down and using the “move on people, nothing to see here” approach. Whoops!

In the grander scheme of things, what frosts me is that WaPo is in serious financial trouble yet seems able to dig up the money to fund these crashingly unfunny and occasionally offensive features hosted by two annoying nerds.

Comment by Rabble Rouser Reverend Amy | 2009-08-04 10:14:03

Thanks, DCMediagirl - I knew that WaPo had taken it down, but one of our fellow intrepid writers found the YouTube video.

Great point abt the money! It’s amazing, isn’t it? Talk abt your priorities…

 
 

Comment by dm | 2009-08-04 10:52:51

Well, since BO is famous for saying one thing and doing another…maybe that will actually work in the gay community’s favor. As a white, hetero female, this is a non-issue to me and should be resolved immediately. However, color me NOT optimistic that BO will do anything other than continue holding the carrot on the stick out for his gay supporters. I’m sure they feel as if they have no real choice or representation…sad, very sad.

Comment by Rabble Rouser Reverend Amy | 2009-08-04 11:44:08

Ah, yes - the stick. That’s what the Dem. Party has used with us for years now, including this past election with GLBT rights, Roe v. Wade, the Supreme Court, etc., etc. Just look how well that has turned out?

I would respectfully submit that what happens with DADT, for instance, does affect EVERYONE, because YOUR tax paying dollars are going to train these soldiers, sailors, and aviators. Like the case of Lt. Col. Fehrenbach, a decorated war hero, on whom the US Air Force spent $25 MILLION dollars to train (http://www.sldn.org/page/s/fehrenbach). Not only is it the right thing to do, it is also the most cost effective thing to do.

Ellen D., I hear ya…

 
 

Comment by Ellen D | 2009-08-04 11:22:46

As a gay rights supporter I wish ballot choices included “None of the above”.

 

Comment by Screw-the-DNC | 2009-08-04 11:50:15

I, for one, hope these two ____ (fill in the blank - I know the spam filter would delete my personal choice) find out exactly what the mad bitches of the world have in store for them.

I long and pray for the day when women will truly stand united against them and all the other _____ who think this type of behavior is acceptable, much less funny. Frankly, I hope their mothers/wives/sisters/daughters smack them upside their heads, put a big bar of soap in their mouths and tape them shut.

On a more global level, I long and pray for the day when women will truly stand united and revolt against our media, our politicians, and anything else that makes them feel less than equal, less than capable, less than fully human and worthy of respect.

On that note, my heart goes out to Tel Aviv - to those touched personally by the violence, and for the community as a whole.

Misogyny and homophobia are two sides of the same coin. A coin than makes the holder feel superior in some way. We will not be truly free until we are ALL truloy equal.

 

Comment by Tricia Spiegel | 2009-08-04 12:08:55

Still a lot of hate (homophobia, sexism) going around. Excellent post Rev. Amy.

Comment by Rabble Rouser Reverend Amy | 2009-08-04 14:09:51

Thanks, Tricia - I appreciate that, and your comment.

Screw-the-DNC, well said. As we have noted before, women can be our own worst enemies. When we laugh at the sexist/misogynistic “jokes” men make so we can be “one of the guys,” or for fear that we’ll be called”humorless,” we devalue ourselves.

For Dana and Chris to have ever thought that was funny was pretty telling, though. Again, I think it goes back to the Primaries in which men saw clearly that they could say whatever the hell they wanted to say ant women with no fear of reprisal. Rather, too often, their sexist, misogynistic comments were laughed at, indulged, and encouraged. And here we are…

Comment by NoBamaNoWay | 2009-08-04 17:02:41

Ozero’s election made misogyny “cool.” ain’t it great?

Comment by Julia | 2009-08-05 10:32:51

Misogyny was already cool, that’s the true problem. Ozero just helped

 
 
 
 

Comment by dm | 2009-08-04 14:14:21

Rev. Amy,

Thank you for bringing up the point about DADT…I was merely speaking to gay marriage when I said it was a non-issue for me, personally.

I think most people object to marriage on religious grounds (or at least that’s what they say). There are many religious beliefs and principles that don’t necessarily translate to the law. People go against their religion all the time for love…I don’t see the difference here. I suspect, that people who are against gay marriage are in reality just icked out about homosexuality; still believing it’s a lifestyle choice and refusing to accept that’s just who people are…not what they choose.

Comment by Rabble Rouser Reverend Amy | 2009-08-04 14:39:04

Hey, dm - no, I got that - I was just adding in some more. :-)

And you are absolutely right abt your take on this. Kathy Griffin did her show, “My Life on the D List” last week on Prop 8. She went around and talked to people abt it before the case was decided by the CA Supreme Court, and religion was the one thing people mentioned most often. It was really interesting to see how they responded when Kathy would ask them more questions abt it.

Anyway - thanks for the comment - I appreciate it!

Comment by NoBamaNoWay | 2009-08-04 17:04:40

i think that people think that religion is the most acceptable excuse for nastiness and bigotry.

 
 
 

Comment by CG | 2009-08-04 17:34:29

Thanks RRRAmy for covering these topics, and for your insight. Sad that in 2009 there is little progress. By the way, I read this article directed to the Washington Post yesterday, and I think it is brilliant… http://www.cjr.org/campaign_desk/post_pulls_milbanks_mad_bitch.php

 

Comment by CG | 2009-08-04 22:57:26

here is a spoof of the Washington Post video
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QJEPDwGVirQ

 

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