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Did This Senator Beat Up His Girlfriend?

Reprinted from The Daily Beast and The New Agenda.

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New York State Senator Hiram Monserrate

New York State Senator Hiram Monserrate

A New York state senator faces felony charges for allegedly slashing up his girlfriend’s face—and some of the assault was caught on camera. So why is he still welcome in the Senate—and why are Democrats still holding fundraisers for him?

Which is worse: political leaders remaining silent about a colleague who slashes his girlfriend’s face, or political leaders actively funding and supporting the criminal slasher? Well, in the Empire State, we have both!

In the past few months, our country has witnessed two high-profile cases of violence against women—Chris Brown’s alleged assault of Rihanna and the beheading of Aasiya Hassan. In the aftermath, advocates for reducing domestic violence saw a ray of hope: Could our country finally start a much-needed dialogue about violence against women, bring it into the light of day, and work toward solutions? When New York State Senator Hiram Monserrate (D-Queens) was indicted and arraigned last week on six counts of assault for allegedly beating up his girlfriend, we stepped back into the darkness.

At least four security cameras in the Jackson Heights apartment where the incident allegedly occurred caught parts of the attack on tape.

Members of the Democratic Party should have demanded that Monserrate step down immediately. Instead, not only have the Democrats in the New York State Senate stayed silent, they are also working to establish a legal defense fund for Monserrate.

Violence against women is wrong. It’s a despicable crime. Criminals who cut and hurt women should be punished. So why is New York, purported state of enlightenment and sophistication, being so cowardly? Where is the national outrage?

As with many perpetrators of violence, Hiram Monserrate’s indictment did not come without warning. Monserrate has a history of mental health problems. In 1999, he claimed to be suffering psychological problems as a New York City Police Department officer, writing: “I suffer with adjustment disorder with mixed anxiety and depression, and posttraumatic stress disorder.” After an assessment by the NYPD’s psychological services unit, Monserrate was forced to relinquish his gun. In 2001, trouble continued when Monserrate was arrested after allegedly using his car to run over the leg of a tow-truck operator who was attempting to tow away his car; the charges were later dropped.

Hiram Monserrate’s alleged assault of his girlfriend in December 2008 is a familiar tune. Man beats up woman in a jealous rage. Woman goes to hospital. Woman tells police that her intimate partner did this to her. Man is arrested. Woman recants statement, says it was an accident. Woman tries to drop charges.

But there was a difference this time: At least four security cameras in the Jackson Heights apartment where the incident allegedly occurred caught parts of the attack on tape. The cameras recorded Monserrate in the second floor hallway outside his apartment, allegedly yelling at his girlfriend, Karla Giraldo, about having another man’s police card, then throwing the card and his girlfriend’s handbag down the trash chute. Cameras then show Monserrate pulling his girlfriend down the stairs. Another camera recorded the girlfriend frantically knocking on her neighbor’s door. Finally, a camera recorded Monserrate grabbing his girlfriend’s arm and dragging her out of the apartment building as she tries to hold on to the door. At the hospital, Monserrate’s girlfriend was given 20 to 25 stitches above the eye for a slash made by broken glass. (Giraldo first told police Monserrate stabbed her in the face with the glass during an argument; later, both she and Monserrate called the incident an accident.)

  • veritas

    You just can’t make this stuff up- it’s outrageous- where’s the outcry from our liberal, progressive Democrats? This is precisely why I’m now registered as an Independent or officially in Massachusetts- unenrolled – The parties are filled with the stink of corruption that needs to be fumigated- Organizations like The New Agenda and brave websites like NoQuarter need support-some of the few out there in the wilderness of sameness and status quo. We all need to take action and enlist our friends- nothing will change if we depend on politicians and the present system- Start by making a phone call-it only takes a minute-
    (If links to contacts don’t work go to website)
    http://thenewagenda.net/2009/04/05/what-you-can-do-about-senator-slasher-hiram-monserrate/
    WHAT YOU CAN DO:
    If you live in New York State, call or write your legislators at one of the links below and ask them to insist that Monserrate step down until his case is resolved.
    Click this link for a list of all NY State senators, including contact information
    Click this link for a quick list of NY State senators’ email addresses
    If you live in or outside of NY, write letters to the editor to Albany, Troy, Queens, and other NYC, NY papers. You can also identify reporters and ask them why this isn’t a bigger story. Call or write television networks and ask why the story hasn’t received more national coverage.
    Click this link to find contact info for newspapers in NYC
    Contact CNN
    Contact FOX
    Contact NBC/MSNBC
    Contact ABC

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yhXA3fXpCFk Woman Voter

      P. Diddy ‘Sean Combs’ continues to call Domestic Violence ‘A Situation’ and no one is calling him on it. Women are people too, women have human rights and civil rights.

      The Democrats need to set an example and not become the supporters of Domestic Violence by their continued support of this abuser.

      • mary

        Woman voter

        After what the so-called Democratic Party did to Hillary Clinton during the campaign, you expect them to make this their cause….gimme a break!

        This Monsseratte creep should be given some Muslim Justice and beheading would be just fine. Dispense with niceties for domestic violence abusers. Why call it euphemistally “DOMESTIC”? violence it is WOMAN-HATRED VIOLENCE. Less than 1% of perpetrators are women!

        The Democratic Party creeps who are supporting this neanderthal maladjusted Senator should be hounded out!

        SHAME ON THE SO-CALLED DEMOCRATIC PARTY!

        INDPENEDENT

  • http://noquarterusa No-nonsense-Nancy

    This just shows how very corrupt our justice system is, even on a state level. I used to work for the state in PA and if an employee was arrested they were fired immediaely and if they were proven innocent then they had to fight to get their job back. Of course that was with the minions. When it is a state legislator I guess it’s different. By the way, what has happened to the Buffalo guy who beheaded his wife? Is he even in jail? Are people from those cultures going to be able come to our country, comitt their terrible crimes which are accepted in their own countries and get away with it here? Our laws are different and they should have to abide by our laws if they are to live here.

    • Dawnelle

      I TOTALLY agree!

    • elise

      This man should at the very least be put on leave until this is settled legally. A few years ago, a football player for Seattle (I think) beat up his wife and she got a restraining order against him, but the play offs were coming up and the team needed this player so nothing was done. These things happen time after time and women’s complaints are ignored. If the police receive a 911 call, show up at a house to find a woman beaten and bruised and she says her husband/boyfriend did it to her, why would the charges be dropped even if she refuses to testify? I’d like to know why newspapers and media ignore these stories even discard letters to the editor protesting. Please everyone, write to the NY DNC even if you don’t live in that state. This man cannot be allowed to represent the decent people in his district.

  • Phishmelt

    I thought once that the democrats had a good chance to capture all the power and rule with a sense of decency.

    I have since changed my perception. I think the repubs (blah) are just going to sit back for a while and let the democrats implode.

    I wouldn’t want to be the politician in the next round of adds as the one plastered on the screen setting up a defense fund for him. with pictures from the video camera of him dragging that girl.

    • I’mFedUp

      “the repubs are just going to sit back for a while and let the democrats implode?”

      You bet we are. And it’s like Kabuki theater watching an entire party destroy itself. I would laugh a lot, but they are taking America with them as they swirl down the crapper. I can’t wait to get rid of these freaks in 2010 and 2012. What a bunch of losers.

      • Dawnelle

        lol ok smart arse, move over, I’m mesmerized by the show myself although ROME is burning all around us!

        • I’mFedUp

          If we didn’t laugh once in a while we would all go mad, I am sure. I mean, it’s gotten beyond ridiculous what’s been done to us. Pass the popcorn and get ready to storm the Bastille.

      • mary

        i’M fED up

        How do you feel about the Bushian Jerk a.k.a. “Dubya”. Hope you don’t think he was a Knight in Shining Armor for Women’s Causes!

        Obama is a jerk
        Dubya Bushie was a jerk
        Sexist Democrats who are Sexists are jerks
        Republican Democrats who are sexists are Jerks

        MISOGYNY has no Party Affiliation!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

        Wake up!

  • UKforDems

    State Senator Hiram Monserrate and his supporters went on the offensive in and out of court on Friday as he pleaded not guilty to charges of slashing his companion’s facewith a broken glass.

    Supporters wearing purple ribbons — including a Democratic district leader who runs an organization for preventing domestic violence — declared that the charges were politically motivated and waved signs reading, “Monserrate is pro-choice and pro-woman.”

    A political consultant hired by Mr. Monserrate, a Democrat, passed news clips around the courtroom, detailing a 2007 dispute in which Mr. Monserrate, then a Queens city councilman, criticized Queens prosecutors’ handling of a 14-year-old murder case; in the articles, the Queens district attorney, Richard A. Brown, retorted that Mr. Monserrate was “irresponsible” and “ought to be ashamed.”

    Karla Giraldo, the woman prosecutors say Mr. Monserrate attacked, stood on the courthouse steps, in a long fur-trimmed cardigan, spike heels, large sunglasses and long bangs that covered the area around her left eye, where she required 20 stitches after the injury. She called a judge’s protection order barring Mr. Monserrate from contacting her — renewed on Friday over her objections — “an injustice.”

    “I want to be with my boyfriend,” she declared. “I love him a lot.”

    http://www.nytimes.com/2009/03/28/nyregion/28monserrate.html

    Innocent before guilty? Stay classy Rev Amy.

    • http://sarainitalyblog.blogspot.com/ American Girl in Italy

      stay classy? (BTW, this is not Rev Amy’s post)

      sounds to me like a classic case of an abused woman changing her tune, and denying the attacks. They have video of the attack.

      Why do you think the law now allows for the state to prosecute without the woman pressing charges? Because they almost ALWAYS change their minds. Just ask Rihanna.

      • http://sarainitalyblog.blogspot.com/ sarainitaly
      • http://www.rabblerouserruminations.blogspot.com/ Rabble Rouser Reverend Amy

        Thanks for the clarification, AGII!

        And yes, just like Hunter Tylo (soap opera star – no, don’t watch the show, but saw the news-blurb) getting ready to marry her abuser because she is SO sure he won’t actually KILL her if they are married.

        I WISH I was making this up…

        And thanks for the post, Amy!

  • Diana

    He’ll kill her eventually and it will just be an accident, because he’s gotten away with all this accidental behavior time and time again. This angers me, so I’ll just shut up.

    • Dawnelle

      that’s the problem

      don’t EVER SHUT UP!!!

      • Diana

        I meant on here. I’ll just shut up so I don’t go off on a rampage. American Girl is correct.

        When my first husband kicked my face in, I forgave him. I couldn’t put up much of a fight he was twice my size. But, I thought/tried to rationalize in my own mind that it was only going to happen that one time. He was a good man and brought me everything my heart desired. There are millions of women on their 10th/100th time of saying it won’t happen again. He doesn’t mean to loose his temper with me like that.

        Where will I go? What will I do? They don’t want to walk away from the security, the money. Into the unknown where they might find a man to beat them even worse.

        When he tried it on me a second time I took a 45 and pointed it at his face and told him I’m leaving. Try and stop me and I will unload this weapon on you, and before they get here I will reload and unload it again. I would have too. Yes. I walked away with a fat lip, but I realized this wasn’t a one time thing and the longer I stuck around and made excuses the more he would do it. The more I would become property and not a human. I wasn’t willing to make myself a punching bag for any man. Once he punched me in the face and I started hitting back I knew where it was going, and what I was going to allow myself to become…

        She was banging on neighbors doors for help. He was caught on video dragging her out of the door with a bloody towel across her face. She needed 20 stitches. How blind can people get? She didn’t fall on glass, he smashed it upside of her face.

        • http://sarainitalyblog.blogspot.com/ sarainitaly

          You are one tough cookie! good for you for taking your life in your own hands. You are stronger than most.

  • Elle

    Establishing a legal defense fund for him !The democrats have no shame nor a backbone left of any moral decency.

  • Eilene

    Thank you No Quarter for putting this on your blog. I’ve been following this disgsuting NYS Worm of a Senator’s story on the New Agenda for a couple of months and this is a story that needs to go viral. This parasite needs to be removed from office! BTW, NQ is my favorite informational/commentary blog and I read it daily. Larry it’s great to have you and your blogmates persepctives – helps keep me sane.

  • WMCB

    I cannot believe the Democratic party is defending this slime. Is it open season on women in this country now?

    • I’mFedUp

      The so called “Democratic Party” does not believe the laws, Constitution, morals, values, etc. of America apply to them. I’m not surprised they would support this azzhole. Hell, if OJ could get them an extra seat in Congress they would support him too.

  • Linda Jones

    After Obama and the Democrats beat Hillary I am not surprised a Democratic state Senator beats his wife with broken glass. Beating women is popular with Democrats these days.

    These people make me sick. And they tell me a party of men who beat their wives will protect my rights? What a joke.

  • mountainaires

    This man is a ticking time bomb. He should be kicked out of the NY Senate immediately. NY Democrats are contemptible for defending this violent nutcase. He’ll kill at some point. It’s despicable that they are supporting him.

  • MissTickly

    Ugh, I feel sick reading this!

  • Sabina

    what can we do, in terms of who can we write to, to express our rage and inform them that we will not tolerate this senator still sitting in senate. Does someone have any email contacts of those in the democratic party.

  • Peggy Sue

    I guess the NY Dems won’t get it until this man kills his girlfriend. Then we’ll have people feigning shock and deep grief. How could this have happened? What a tragedy, how horrible.

    Makes me ill. The fact that there is video of the attack makes it more outrageous. Just more of: don’t believe your lying eyes.

    So glad my party has taken power. What a difference! What a disgrace.

  • jackie

    I stated this during the election campaign. I am not a Republican I have always been an independent. But I said that it concerned me that the DNC had become a party of no morals, no standards, and they openly encouraged violence aginst women in the body of Hillary Clinton and then the god-awful attacks on Sarah Palin and her daughter.

    The so callen enlightened progressive groups have condemned women to be raped and abused for the entertainment of men and I am ashamed to say other women.

    And the media is silent and fully complicite. THey fein outrage at laws in Afghanistan but are mute on the outrages in our own nation.

    My disgust is full.

    Nations fail when morality and rules protecting women and children are not observed.

    We are in trouble!

    • Dawnelle

      Jackie, I am NOW an Independent (again) was fooled for a while being a D.

      I agree with you about this HUGE out of NO WHERE awakening of WOMAN HATE! It’s like OBAMA gave them PERMISSION to ACT LIKE THEY RRRRRREALLY ARE!!!

      THE PUNKS POPPED OUT OF THE OBOTPODS! Now what? We’re stuck with them? HELL NO!

      The NEW DEVIL behind the curtain is the OLD leaf eating buzzard with an earring eating fish eggs and picking his gold tooth with his long pinkie nail??

      how did we miss that?

      • Kathy

        I agree that Obama implicitly gave people permission to let loose ok women. The new post here about obamas idiotic bantering has a video of him ridiculing a female reporter. Truly disgusting

  • Where’s The Line?

    Hmmm, If you’re discovered to be secretly gay, you’re pressured to step down, but if you’re charged with slashing your girlfriend, we’ll set up a legal defense fund for you. Our sense of right and wrong has become twisted. Let’s straighten it out!

  • http://www.sonicninjakitty.wordpress.com Sonic Ninja Kitty

    I wonder what he pleaded when he was arraigned, and when the trial will take place.

  • brodie

    I have grown to despise these “new” democrats and everything they DON’T stand for. There will be nothing but misery for this nation until it deals with real equality for all citizens. We are very far from that and getting worse all the time. A bright spot for me was the court decision in Iowa, though.

  • Little Star

    Check out the Warren Buffet Bamboozle at the new puma blog:

    http://thewiddershins.wordpress.com

    It is truly one huge scheme of corrupt power players.

  • PennelopePennebaker

    I did more, apparently, than most commenters, I actually clicked through to the link about the legal defense fund. The NYT article does not state that a fund has been set up, nor that it has received any monies; it reports that the majority leader would not stand in the way of any senator donating to such a fund.

    This Monserrate dude is a despicable piece of crap, and should be prosecuted to the fullest. But to demand that he resign on the mere filing of charges would be to grant any prosecutor the power to determine the makeup of the legislature.

    • I’mFedUp

      You’ve got to be kidding, right? And you’re a woman? ROFLMAO. That moronic Congress already looks like Clown College and they need to start earning some respect from the American people. He should step down in shame. Period.

      • PennelopePennebaker

        He should step down? And why would that be? Has he been convicted? NO, he has merely been indicted. People get indicted all the time, impeachment is a form of indictment, should Clinton have ‘stepped down’? That would have granted the house an unheard of power.

        I stand by my earlier claim – to expect all politicians charged with any offense to step down is to grant prosecutors the ability to determine the makeup of our government.

        • I’mFedUp

          Uhhhh they have him doing it on camera. He’s shitstain on America, a woman beater, and there’s no way to defend it. Our representatives are just that. They represent us. He clearly broke the law ON CAMERA. He should go.

          • UKforDems

            Only after a trial.

            But then this Republican should also be tried and TNA should also be calling for him to quit.

            http://www.kfyrtv.com/News_Stories.asp?news=28567

          • rw

            -Uhhhh they have him doing it on camera.-

            ON CAMERA, FILMED…but for the obotcrats, that’s nothing more than a little technicality, they’ll just get off focus and talk about Newt G., Bill C. etc., about how the victim LUVS him – after all she probably “just” lost some hair and got a little cut up, that’s all.
            Montserrate is a nice guy that most likely had a bad steroids day, really, after all, Montserrate is pro choice – remember that you ungrateful women.

        • candymarl

          Eliot Spitzer, former Governor of NY, was forced to step down and he hadn’t been convicted of anything yet the Democratic Party wanted him gone.

          Funny how that works.

    • http://deleted Buzz Latte

      Law must prevail as we are a nation of laws.

  • Ceela

    I can’t believe his fellow Senators are backing him up. Getting rid of woman beating scum should not be a partisan issue. We can’t even get politics out of violence against women? The people raising money for him are just as bad as he is. IMHO

    • http://deleted Buzz Latte

      Isn’t anyone going to speak about the girlfriend recanting her story? While this is in no way intended to minimize the state senator’s complicity, here again is another example of the perfect storm and why violence against women continues. Another woman fails to stand strong in an abuse situation.

      Change the behavior (in women) change the outcome.

      When women get all wrapped up in “shoulds” and the off with their heads rhetoric, we diminish the true power of intent.

      Wouldn’t the intent be to recognize that women must stand strong and be willing to be their own truth-teller in violence against them?

      • beebop

        Buzz. This is so unlike you. Two days in a row …

        Sure. Let’s just blaim the victim. No one is responsible for the assault, the victim was in the wrong place, had the audacity to have money in their wallet, own a car, a watch, etc. Unless and until women aren’t subjected to the type of scrutiny and cross examination that they currently have to endure just to be deemed CREDIBLE, most stay silent. I guess you have to be on the receiving end to understand.

        • http://deleted Buzz Latte

          Law background kicking in. My statement was only meant as a “cooler heads will prevail” counterpoint.

          Women need to function smart and function without wielding the stiletto heels at every corner. We see what 30 years of us vs them rhetoric has garnered American women. Misogyny is rampant!

          I do not support what this man did, but let’s not devolve the conversation into a mob mentality meme. That’s proven time and again to be counterproductive.

          If you took my comment as “blame the victim” you need to rethink what was being said.

          Wouldn’t it be more supportive of women to encourage and support the victims to stand firm in their accounts and give the law a leg to stand on in these abuse situations?

          • WMCB

            Wouldn’t it be more supportive of women to encourage and support the victims to stand firm in their accounts and give the law a leg to stand on in these abuse situations?

            Do you assume that anyone here is saying that we should not do that? The two approaches are not mutually exclusive – hold the bastards accountable, and also encourage women to stand up.

            But there is a REASON why the laws in many states do not require that the victim press charges or testify. The state does that. Because women who, either from fear or from their own psychological warping, later recant and say “it was an accident” are all too common.

            Yes, we need to encourage women to stick up for themselves. But submitting and covering for the abuser are a big part of the awful cycle of violence, and often those telling a woman to “stand up” are not going to be around when SHE has to deal with the fallout from that “standing up”.

            Our culture is immersed in the idea that low-level violence against women is okay. And that complaining about it is very unhip, uncool, lacking in “humor” and unfeminine. Is it any wonder that women who find themselves in a truly violent relationship are hesitant to complain? Heck they have been conditioned all their lives that it is perfectly okay for men to treat them like crap.

            • http://deleted Buzz Latte

              Great! That’s a reasonable way to look at a very serious situation.

              My intent was to get the thinking to go a little deeper on this thread then the usual “off with their heads” faux outrage.

              • WMCB

                A big help would be to start young. Young girls need to be TAUGHT that aggression, ridicule, bullying, etc from guys is not cool, is not macho. And young men need to be taught as well.

                I have 2 girls, 27 and 18. Of course I taught them from early on to feel free to tell some guy to eat shit and die if he dared disrespect them. :)

                I think there needs to be gender violence education in the same way there is drug awareness education.

                • http://deleted Buzz Latte

                  I blame the so called “thug life” mentality that has become popular among young kids. Gang life emulation is glorified in many instances as a way to appear cool. Little thought is given to the actual message by-product.

                  I don’t know exactly when the change in tolerance took place but I see young girls with less power now than even 10 years ago.

              • http://www.sonicninjakitty.wordpress.com Sonic Ninja Kitty

                Like PenelopePennebaker above, I read the link. It seems that the fund was suggested by the majority leader and implies he would be contributing money, but only him, not all the Democrats. That to me does not constitute “actively fundraising” at this point.

                I would like to know what Monserrate pleaded at his arraignment and how this case is to progress. This post has a lot of innuendo. Of course beating someone is horrendous but the time for prevention has obviously passed in this case. We need to make sure the justice system tries him properly and gives him his due.

                I totally get what you are saying, Buzz. Real working solutions would serve victims better than reactionary outrage. But a lot of the time commenters don’t want discussion, they only want others who identify with their feelings.

        • Diana

          Exactly, how many rape kits go untested? Obama and all his minions made all these claims about Sarah. Yet, neglected to tell the world he had in his district over 100,000 rape kits that hadn’t even been tested. That women’s groups had just been protesting over that very thing. That Illinois also charges the rape victims insurance company. How many here in CA are now in the news? Once again over 100,000. How many women that are raped are still made to be the one’s put on trail. Their lives. Not the perpetrator.

  • rw

    Didn’t Howard Dean call the Repubs. the party of white men, or something like that.

    With the pattern of tolerated and encouraged verbal and physical abuse toward women, what should Steele call the Democratic Party on national TV, the “bros before hos” party.

    • mary

      RW

      Yes!

      The “Democratic” Party should be christened and referred to from now on as:

      the “BRO’S BEFORE ‘HOS PARTY”!!!!

      Monserotte joins Eliot Spritzer altho Monserotte is a bigger jerk…

      Bush Dubya started the deterioration of women’s rights with his faith-based, no right to choose and other neanderthal policies. Now, Obama’s own minions promise to make these “rights” disappear!

      Obama = Bush (the other side of the Sexist

      Incompetence Coin)….Zeus help us!

  • tek

    Amy: don’t you know that the dominant mentality in the U. S. today is to aid and abet law-breakers? If they manage to get ahead by breaking the law, they are rewarded.

  • JozefAL

    Before everyone gets all worked up, I would take a minute to remind you all of how Newt Gingrich treated his first wife. He was such a loving husband that he waited to discuss divorce terms until she was in the hospital, recuperating from cancer surgery. Then, while he’s busy leading the charge against Bill Clinton, he’s having an affair with a woman who’s not his wife (the wife, in this instance, was his second wife).
    If you all will take a minute and remember that domestic violence is NOT limited to physical actions, but also verbal and psychological, and the GOP is rife with THAT type of behavior. Rush and his “feminazis” and his calling the then-teenaged Chelsea Clinton a dog; Bill O’Reilly and his “falafels”; David Vitter and his DC trysts; Larry Craig and his men’s room “wide stance”; Arnold Schwarzenegger and his groping hands. All of those are deplorable actions by GOPers (or GOP sympathizers) and all have been excused by GOP types and sympathizers (in Rush’s case, it’s usually excused as “entertainment”).
    This is, by no means, an effort to make an apology for Monserrate, but don’t try to make GOP politicians as somehow better for women (because, by and large, they’re not). Democrats in NY should publicly rebuke this guy, but their actions are no worse than the way GOPers would behave if one of their guys faced the same accusations.

    • I’mFedUp

      Why can’t you ever get off the GOP bashing? Newt didn’t beat the crap out of anyone, and not on camera. This is about a woman being brutalized. Please keep your partisan hate out of it.

      • Diana

        It never ceases to amaze me when one side will point to the other and say they’re all in this party. I can’t count how many times I’ve heard child molesters are all Republican white men. Try telling that crap to the AA children that have been are molested everyday. The Asian children. Try telling that to the 1,000s of infants that were raped in South Africa because they thought if they raped an infant they would be immune from getting AIDS. 60 infants a day are raped there! Try telling that to the 1,000′s of children a day being raped around the world for the so called Virgin Cure.
        http://tinyurl.com/cjdmy

        These men/women are in both parties, in every religion, every race. All anyone does when they tell themselves to lull themselves into that false sense of security is to allow their own children/families to be endangered. Place themselves right in the path of danger. In their looking for the enemy, they ignore that 9 times out of 10 these type of men/women are right in front of their face. They’re our religious leaders, political leaders, policemen, brothers, sisters, fathers, mothers, neighbors.

        • candymarl

          Thank you.

        • mary

          Diana

          Thank you for a very disturbing and informative link. I had no idea that South Africa (and most other African nations) suffer the highest rates of Infant Rape and that the monster-perpetrators believe it will cure them of AIDS!
          Incest between father and daughter is prevalent in every so-called civilized country but I had no idea that it is so well-documented and occurs for such wildly atavistic reasons…I’ve distributed the article….thx

          • Diana

            You’re both welcome. I’ve been trying to help in the fight on this for over a year. 21,000 child rapes last year alone which doesn’t include the infant rapes. 6 men gang raped one infant and 300 people came out to support the men. Not the infant. 1/3 of the child rapes are being committed by school teachers.

            Lesbians are a continued target for the rapes. They call it corrective rape. It’s heart wrenching, and will leave you feeling helpless. This has been going on since 2001 and it’s now 2009 with it getting worse every year. There are very few organizations you can find that are trying to do anything. Plenty of news articles from around the globe condemning it. None that seem to know what to do to stop it.

            Here is one that is trying to do something:
            http://tinyurl.com/d74ct8

    • Diana

      I don’t think now is the time for either side to be pounding their chest as the moral authority on any topic, or did you forget the great moral authority Democrats showed during the primary towards Hillary and Chelsea first and then Sarah and her daughter. I found the way Democrats acted during the primaries disgusting and that’s putting it midly as to how I really feel about what they did to Hillary. This isn’t a who can outdo who. These are WOMEN’S LIVES.

      • mary

        Diana

        Violence against women has no party affiliation. But I still maintain the so-called Democratic Party should be renamed “BROS BEFORE HOS”

        As for the Repugnant Party….well…how about “Women’s Rights are a Hoax”

    • WMCB

      I’m not quite sure where this rant came from – since I haven’t seen anyone here even imply that the GOP is full of angels and only Democratic men are abusers.

      • Diana

        I wasn’t ranting about the GOP being full of angels and Democrat men being abusers I don’t know where you read that? Did you pull that out of thin air?

        Read JozefAL post to which I replied. Then please tell me where I said that GOP men are angels and Democrat men are abusers. I clearly said neither side should be pounding their chest as the moral authority on any topic. That both sides are just as guilty as the other.

      • Diana

        Oh never mind. I apologize WMCB. I thought you were talking to me.

        • WMCB

          That’s okay. Sometimes the nesting is hard to unravel, but yeah, I was responding to JozefAL, not you.

          • Diana

            After I read your response I went back to read what I wrote that would have given you that impression. That’s when I realized who you were talking too. That’s why I try to avoid emotional threads or threads that draw out things I’m passionate about. I really am very sorry about that, I should have looked closer. Lesson learned.

            • WMCB

              Nah, don’t worry about it. The subject makes a lot of us so mad we can’t think straight.

  • http://deleted Buzz Latte

    I hear what you are saying, Diana.

  • Ceela

    I’m really glad the New Agenda is staying on this guy. He needs to go! I don’t care what party these jerks are in. When we sniff them out they have to go!

  • Ferd Berfle

    At the hospital, Monserrate’s girlfriend was given 20 to 25 stitches above the eye for a slash made by broken glass. (Giraldo first told police Monserrate stabbed her in the face with the glass during an argument; later, both she and Monserrate called the incident an accident.)

    I’m sorry, but the old “accident” excuse doesn’t work for me on this one. 25 stitches? What did she do, accidently ram her forehead against a glass *really* hard or did she miss her mouth while taking a drink? Come on.

  • WMCB

    One of my sister’s boyfriends hit her once. She was just post-divorce, 30-something, and feeling confused. The next day my other sister and myself showed up at his door and told him if he ever touched her again, we’d poison him, blow up his car, break his fucking legs and cut his dick off in his sleep.

    Some may disagree with that approach, but I have always been glad we did that.

    • Ferd Berfle

      Some may disagree with that approach, but I have always been glad we did that.

      Good for you. I think you did the right thing.

    • http://www.sonicninjakitty.wordpress.com Sonic Ninja Kitty

      Would it be OK if it was a girlfriend who hit your son and you went and said something similar to her?

      • WMCB

        Yes. And I do realize that there are women out there who abuse men. But is it a widespread, systemic problem? Nope.

        • http://www.sonicninjakitty.wordpress.com Sonic Ninja Kitty

          OK then.

  • H Towell

    During the presidential campaign I detested the way Hillary and Chelsea were maligned by Keith O,David Schuster,Ed Shultz,and the black and white preachers from Chicago.It did no good——.Same with Sarah Palin and her family.Murderer,pimp,incest——-that is all I heard from these haters—all the time covering up Obamas friends and benefactors.These are the things that brought me to No Quarter and joining the Pumas.No longer a gullible Democratic voter.I have no regrets to this day.

  • cynic

    This sort of thing shouldn’t be used as an occasion to attempt to score political points, in my opinion. It’s far too serious and widespread a societal evil to allow anything to distract us from addressing the evil itself.

  • mary

    The NEW AGENDA and Amy Suskind should be CONGRATULATED…

    We need you there to make a difference!

    Thank you Amy!!!!

  • Patricia K

    Amy,
    Thank you for shining much need light on violence that happens to women. We know this happens. It is time for it to STOP. Shame on politicians for standing by and not saying anything. Thanks for all that you are doing.
    Pat Bakalian
    Campaign for Gender Equality

  • http://thenewagenda.net/ Amy Siskind

    Thank you Pat.

    And thanks Susan and Larry for posting!

  • Babs

    Interesting how the entire Troopergate affair with Sarah Palin began with her fighting the good old boys network within law enforcement who deemed a 5-day suspension with pay apt punishment for a state trooper who had admittedly used a taser gun on his step-son, drove in his police car while drunk, and threatened the life of Sarah’s father. The hatred spilling out from the left over her “abuse of power” was a sight to behold, showing me the true nature of these zealots. Maybe if more families of victims got involved, like the Palins and WMCB, we could at least put a dent in this insidious behavior that women alone, without family support, are much more vulnerable to. That’s what “family values” are, love and support and not always “minding your own business” when the situation warrants it. WMCB, you rock.

  • http://thenewagenda.net/ Amy Siskind

    Our female politicians are held to a different standard than male politicians.

    • I’mFedUp

      Yes but females contributed to it. Sad times for us last year.

      • http://thenewagenda.net/ Amy Siskind

        Yes agree. We need to work together to chance that.

  • I’mFedUp

    I will never, ever forget what was done to HRC and Palin. If we can move forward and quote the Jews from Nazi Germany…NEVER AGAIN.

    • http://thenewagenda.net/ Amy Siskind

      That’s what we are here for. Actually The New Agenda was formed in August after Hillary dropped out and we said never again. Then we ended up being the only women’s rights group to speak out for Sarah. So sad. We need to change our culture!

      • I’mFedUp

        Hillary didn’t “drop out.” She was butchered by a bunch of women and men in the democratic party. I have been ashamed to say I am American ever since.

        • http://thenewagenda.net/ Amy Siskind

          Not sure American. Democrat, yes. It was mostly the Dems that did it to her and then to Sarah.

          • I’mFedUp

            Uhhh I documented it. It was the dems. If your site lies about that, or doesn’t cop to the fact that the dems are the most corrupt piece of shit party in history, you have a problem. A lot of us know the truth.

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  • cynic

    He’s President for the simple reason that a majority of voters thought him to be a better choice than his opponents. Apparently those voters interpreted things quite differently.

  • Concerned Mother

    He is still a sexist, and lots of men and boys will now think sexism is appropriate. That’s why he won. SEXISM. And if you deny it, you’re a sexist too.

  • Ferd Berfle

    The voters thought Bush was a better choice, too. You are truly one abjectly dumb troll. Why don’t you just put a sign on your forehead that says, “I’m Stupid”?

  • BlueTopaz

    These voters thought he was such a “better choice” they voted for him several times and took busrides to vote in other state’s caucuses. Nevermind, “end” meet “means”. Goodbye to America with that kind of thinking.