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What Say You, Elizabeth Edwards?

(bumped up from Wednesday morning)

As much as I hate to admit it, Maureen Dowd hits the nail on the proverbial head in her column today, “A Complicated Question“:

“He should not have run,” Elizabeth Edwards writes in her new book, “Resilience.”

John told her a little about Rielle a few days after he announced in 2006, and she told him to drop out to “protect our family from this woman, from his act,” she writes.

She said she cried, screamed and threw up when she found out. But she ended up going along, helping sell the voters on her husband’s character as a truth teller and charm as a loving husband and father. She had put so many quarters in the shiny slot machine of their mutual ambition. It was hard to walk away.

Can you imagine how differently the 2007-2008 primaries would have gone had he not been a candidate, with millions of supporters?

And I keep thinking about the “little people” who sacrificed to find a few dollars to send to his campaign because, of course, they were constantly begging for money.

This entire affair (pun intended) infuriates me. And I hold Elizabeth Edwards culpable as well as her husband.

I am INTENSELY CURIOUS TO FIND OUT how YOU think the primary races would have gone minus John Edwards.

  • tek

    OMG! Maureen Dowd writing real journalism! Too bad she wasn’t so critical during the campaigns and election. The pot calling the kettle black.

    That said, it was a set-up for John Edwards to enter the race and then turn his delegates over to Obama. Another stinky move by the DNC and the old Dem Dinosaurs. He should have stayed out of it and Hillary would have won the required number of delegates. Although, the DNC gave Obie double delegates for every AA district he won and even for any district Donna Brazile and Howard Dean declared as “particularly loyal to the Democratic Party.”

    I believe that the corrupt Dems would have forced Obama on the ticket if they had to commit murder to do it. I just cannot stand the sight of their “boy.”

    I do not understand Americans who don’t take offense at having a handful of men decide who will be in the WH and shove their decision down our throats.

    Ironic, it’s like that house slave in Roots who had become so anesthetized by slavery he didn’t get upset when the owner of his fiancee raped her the night before the wedding.

    • http://noquarterusa.net/ SusanUnPC

      I wonder if anyone in Hillary’s campaign knew about the affair. If so, it must have driven them crazy that he was running.

      As much as I empathize with Elizabeth Edwards’ difficulties, I am furious with her for not forcing him to step down. She must have been in on the “deal” with the DNC, as you point out so well.

      Excellent comment, btw.

      • aeguy

        Absolutely the HRC campaign knew. The Obama campaign knew too and blackmailed him to attack Hillary Clinton and endorse him later in the race.

        • Ladydawnelle

          *#&^@^#*$THE BABYFACED BRECK BOY@(@&@^^

          His name will be forever marked as “SPOILER” imo

          he ALONE in MICHIGAN could have changed E V E R Y T H I N G FOR HILLARY

          Elizabeth should change her name and dye her hair.
          She’s EQUALLY to blame.

          OBAMA WAS NOT ELECTED HE WAS SELECTED!

          Everyone who’s paid ANY attention to this KNOWS IT!! And those of us who lived through every sordid MOMENT of it are STILL IN SHOCK and BEYOND ANGRY at that PUNK in an EMPTY SUIT and all HIS ACORNS

          sigh

          my first rant in weeks
          and this was a good place to start ;-)

          • Hilary4HRC

            I agree with everything Dawnelle has written — you have echoed my thoughts on this post and the Mo Dowd one farther down the page…

        • tek

          ae: don’t you wonder sometimes what Hillary was referring to when someone asked her about Obama’s house deal and she said, “There’s a lot more to that than has been published.” RezkoGate, I bet if we knew everything it would end his presidency.

          This news should at least show how corrupt the Dem party was during the primaries and election.

          • TeakWoodKite

            RezkoGate, I bet if we knew everything it would end his presidency.

            Tek,Hold that thought, it is coming.

            • MrMike

              This is why I always thought that birth certificate flap was a red herring. Keep the bloggers from digging too deeply into Obama’s Rezko/Blagojevich problems.

      • pm317

        If she cared about her family and not the prospect of a presidency, she would have forced him to not run. I am outraged at her writing that book now. Hope nobody will buy it.

        If he was not in the picture, Iowa would not have been a three way and 0bama would not have won it.

        • FranSC

          If he was not in the picture, Iowa would not have been a three way and 0bama would not have won it

          I don’t know about that, pm317. You are not taking into account MoveOn.org organizing the caucuses online, busing people in from other states, and instructing their people to take over the meetings.

          All facets of his campaigns within campaigns, including the dem leadership thugs were turning heaven and earth over to make sure HE won Iowa. Remember, Edwards supporters tended to go to 0′s side if he didn’t have enough on the first and subsequent ballots at caucus meetings.
          Any caucus was a mountain to climb for Hillary because of the planned fraud. Without the fraud, Hillary would have been the sure winner. They all knew that and this was their justification of the fraud.

          • pm317

            I know. I thought about caucus fraud as I wrote it but still Edwards got about a third of the vote. NV didn’t go 0bama’s way.

            • FranSC

              True, Hillary won the NV caucuses thanks to Bill walking the halls of the casinos getting people to vote for her. However, not to be outdone, the 0zero team organized the state conventions as well and managed to get many delegates won by Hillary to change their vote. He won the majority of the delegates for NV at that state convention and therefore NV went into HIS column.

              Sickening, just sickening. The state conventions were as fraudulently run as the caucuses.

              • FranSC

                One other thing about the state conventions – I have a video where 0 stops his speech to ask everyone if they knew “what Saturday is?” He said ,”it’s your state convention.” He continued, “I can’t emphasize enough how vitally important it is that you attend your state convention.”

                MoveOn.org would text their people to remind them of these and every other important thing they needed them to do.

        • elise

          pm317, I also hope no one will buy her book. We will never know for sure if her silence cost Hillary the election, but her pious condemnation of another woman was part of the whole tapestry of the war against SoS Clinton. That’s hard to forgive.

      • Lyn

        I agree and not only did she go along with him running even knowing he shouldn’t, she was the main attack dog against Hillary while JE hid behind her skirts. The entire campaing was based on what a great family guy he was and how much he cared about the little people,
        I always thought it was blackmail to that got Edwards to support Barky right after Hillary kicked his butt in was it Kentucky? The entire weekend before the endorsement JE was on almost every weekend show saying he would NOT endorse then 3 days later there he was at a rally (that just happend to be at the same time Hillary was supposed to be on most of the nightly news shows for her big win the night before. Then there is the fact Elizabeth thought Hillary’s healthcare plan was MUCH better and she stayed home and didn’t not go to the Rally OR endorse Barky makes me believe even more that the Bo camp threatened to leak the news about his affair (and baby?)

        • leslie

          I don’t remember Elizabeth Edwards being an attack dog against Hillary. I do remember Me-chelle being quite the dog on the attack, though.

          I will say that “going along” with the candidacy of JRE was inauthentic, but then so did Eleanor Roosevelt. The difference is that FDR was the man this nation needed. JRE proved to be otherwise.

          BTW, I recall those of us who supported Hillary often mentioned that EE seemed to support HRC even more than her husband.

          • ginaswo/mim

            then you must have missed this:where the lying evil witch said she is more JOYFUL than Hillary and Hillary didnt STAND UP FOR WOMEN
            what a JOKE
            Frakkin disgrace
            Elizabeth deserves a cold loonely end in her 24000 sf mansion,HILALRY WOULDVE WON IOWA it would have ENDED IN NH before the RACE CARD OF SC
            http://thecaucus.blogs.nytimes.com/2007/07/17/elizabeth-edwards/
            Elizabeth Edwards is once again making sharper comments on the campaign trail than any of the candidates, particularly about her husband’s rivals for the Democratic presidential nomination. This time, Mrs. Edwards is giving a pointed critique of Senator Hillary Clinton.

            In an interview published today with Salon, Mrs. Edwards says Mrs. Clinton is not as vocal an advocate for women’s issues as she wishes she were and lances the Clinton campaign’s suggestion that people should vote for Mrs. Clinton because she is a woman. Mrs. Edwards also says Mrs. Clinton “needs a rationale greater for her campaign” than that she is in the race to win, which is what Mrs. Clinton said when she announced her candidacy in January.

            Mrs. Edwards, wife of John, who is the candidate, has been over some of this terrain regarding Mrs. Clinton before. Last fall, she told a forum sponsored by Ladies Home Journal that she had some things in common with Mrs. Clinton — they both went to law school and both married lawyers — but that they then made different choices.

            “I think my choices have made me happier,” Mrs. Edwards was quoted as saying. “I think I’m more joyful than she is.”

            Mrs. Edwards subsequently said that the magazine had misrepresented her comments, blending answers to two questions into one quote. (The magazine stood by its transcript.) But she also called Mrs. Clinton to apologize.

            Either way, it seems that there’s something about Mrs. Clinton that is clearly frustrating to Mrs. Edwards. Her latest comments seem aimed at puncturing a hole in the Clinton campaign’s lead among Democratic women. Polls suggest that Mrs. Clinton holds sway over blue-collar women — the same unionized, downscale voters to whom Mr. Edwards is trying to appeal.

            Mrs. Edwards hinted at her frustration a few weeks ago in an interview with The New York Times, when she noted that Mrs. Clinton was using the televised debates to make her views sound similar to those of the other Democrats.

            Early in that debate Mrs. Clinton said something about, ‘Basically we’re all the same about this,’ and that wasn’t actually accurate,” Mrs. Edwards said, referring to a discussion about Iraq. “They weren’t all the same, and if everything all looks like it’s packaged like butter but some of it’s oleo, you know, or margarine, you’ve got to — voters need to know what it is they’re buying.”

            In the Salon interview, Mrs. Edwards seemed to be suggesting that Mrs. Clinton was getting a free pass on health care because she had championed it as First Lady, while Mr. Edwards was the one who had put forth a comprehensive plan.

            She said that Mrs. Clinton had discussed some cost-saving measures on health care, “but she acts like that’s going to make health care affordable to everyone,” she said. “And she knows it won’t.” She also criticized her for “not really talking about poverty, when the face of poverty is a woman’s face, often a single mother.And she said Mrs. Clinton had created some “wiggle room” on her position on abortion.
            (At a Planned Parenthood forum today , Mrs. Edwards said that her husband “would never, and I mean never, equivocate on his support for a woman’s right to choose, to gain a few votes or to position himself.”)

            The Edwards campaign may find that such pointed remarks help Mr. Edwards raise money, as Mrs. Edwards’s confrontation with Ann Coulter did a few weeks ago. But it may also find that they overshadow her husband and his message.

      • Jean

        I too am furious with John and Elizabeth Edwards. But I think it is unfair to blame Elizabeth for him running in spite of his affair. John Edwards was/is obviously sooooooo selfish and self-absorbed that he ignored the interests of his wife and family for his own political ambitions. I doubt anything she could have said or done would have curbed his despicable choice to run. Its a damn shame, because Hillary would probably be our president right now had he chosen to do the right thing.

        I hope people opt not to buy her book, as surely some of the proceeds will go towards John Edwards’ imminent legal battles surrounding his mistress.

    • Stacy

      Your comments are very offensive. Whether or not you thought that President Obama was pre-determined to be the winner by the democratic party to label him a “boy” when you know how racially charged that term is shows that you are really just a bitter person.

      • http://sarainitalyblog.blogspot.com/ American Girl in Italy

        Ladydawnelle called Edwards a “baby faced breck boy”, not obama.

        what do you think now?

        • Ladydawnelle

          cha cha cha! ;-)

          • TeakWoodKite

            Oh Boy!

      • FranSC

        About Stacy saying the “boy” comment is offensive to her.

        Who cares. I’m confident that everyone who comments on this blog has always supported Civil Rights and continues to just as I have my entire life. But someone who supports what happened in 2007 & 2008 deserves anything that is said about him.

        Whether or not any term is offensive to him or his supporters pales in comparison to any one dispicable aspect of the 2008 election season. I found it highly offensive that 0′s campaign had a race team that convinced Black America that the first “black president” and his candidate for president wife were racists.

        Stacy, girl, you’ve come to the wrong place for sympathy.

        • imustprotest

          ohh….SLAM! And I completely agree with you!!!

      • Jean

        OMG. Stacy, please calm the hell down.

      • memi

        Stacy

        Sweetie, Obama’s still a “boy”–clueless, immature and absolutely lacking toilet manners…so let’s not PLAY THE RACE CARD everywhere, dahrling!….ENOUGH…and you don’t know who you’re talking to, you fool!

      • http://! stodgie

        tell us stacey, were you as angry and insulted when the obama campaign attacked hillary with the help of the media lap dogs? come on! fess up!

  • Diana L. C.

    Well….

    His healthcare plan was more like Hillary’s than O’s (of course it was hard to say what O’s was). And I believe that a large percentage of the people who supported him would have been more likely to support Hillary than O.

    I was angry at Edwards during the campaign, especially during that debate in which he an O acted so smarmy against Hillary. It was like two middle school boys ganging up on the smart girl.

    Then when the news about the affair broke, I lost all respect for him. I didn’t realize until just now that Elizabeth knew this BEFORE the primary. I think only an idiot would have gone forward with this after hearing that news from her husband. She HAD to know the news would come out–it does for all politicians expect our amazing POTUS. (Pat Schroeder called Reagan the teflon president–Reagan’s non-sticky surface is nothing compared to O’s.)

    But I digress–she put herself forward and became just as much a hypocrite as her husband. I am sorry for her illness, but in those circumstances, I would have opted for privacy. She helped steal the nomination from HIllary; that is unforgiveable as far as I am concerned.

    • Ani

      Agreed.

    • trixta

      “(Pat Schroeder called Reagan the teflon president–Reagan’s non-sticky surface is nothing compared to O’s.)”

      I hear slime is more slippery than teflon.

      • oowawa

        LOL, trixta. More slippery than a squid in a bucket of snot . . .

        • trixta

          Ooooo, really good one, oowawa! But have we exhausted this trope yet? To wit, I add:

          … more slippery than a two-bit mud wrestler in Vegas.

          … more slippery than a sex toy — toy boy? — in an orgy.

          … more slippery than the runs caused by stomach flu.

          … more slippery than a Larry-Sinclair BJ.

          • TeakWoodKite

            ..more slippery than a Larry-Sinclair BJ. ewwwww! That ain’t right! :)

            • trixta

              I know, I know, TeakWoodkite, but I just couldn’t help myself! Bo brings out the worst in me.

    • http://noquarter foxyladi14

      right on.Hillary was robbed.she should be potus now.

  • Johnny Smithfield

    Hard to say, but my guess is it probably would have helped Obama, especially after he won Iowa. When Edwards supporters were polled, they supported BO almost 2-to-1 over Hillary. BO may have even squeaked out New Hampshire, effectively ending the campaign.

    Edwards affair does not change the fact Hillary would have still had the incompetent Mark Penn as her campaign mgr.

    • FLDemFem

      It also doesn’t change the fact that Hillary got more votes than anyone in the history of primaries. She got over 18 million, Obummer managed a bit over 17 million. She beat him where it is supposed to count. Unfortunately, she was cheated out of her delegates by the DNC. With the help of John Edwards. Elizabeth should not get a pass on this, she enabled the DNC in stealing the nomination from the rightful candidate. She should be ashamed.

      • tek

        FLDem: Right you are! And, let us not ever forget that Obama NEVER won enough elected delegates to cinch the nomination. NEVER, not even after the DNC gave him DOUBLE delegates for a bunch of districts. How lame is that?

    • elise

      Johnny how do you know the outcome of the Iowa caucus would not have been different if John Edwards wasn’t a candidate? The information about his affair was available in December, 2007, but was ignored by the press and the campaign video his lover made was scrubbed before it could damage him, The press was well aware of that video and how damming it was. Obama was given the undeclared votes in MI even though Edwards, Dodd and Biden campaigned for their supporters to vote “Undecided”. Mark Penn was not responsible for Hillary’s loss of support. He was still her manager when she won NH, Ohio, Texas, RI and several other states.

  • http://helpmejoseph.typepad.com/puma_for_life/ Puma for Life

    I am one of those idiots who contributed to his campaign…what a sucker. I feel no sympathy for Elizabeth and the story that somehow this woman just chased after him and what could he do is laughable coming from someone who is supposed to have a brain. Why she remains married to this slime ball is beyond me. By the way, here in NC, we have a local talk show called Take a Stand. http://takeastandshow.com/main.html

    The guy on there has been talking about Edwards since he ran for Senator and apparently way back then he was using his campaign money for questionable things. There is a reason the guy could not even carry NC; he is a known slimeball here.

    I see a typical relationship with the attractive John and the smart woman who has low self-esteem because she doesn’t think she is attractive hanging on to him; like this is the first time he has cheated on her; give me a break. But to have a baby with this woman is despicable…how can Elizabeth live with herself?

    Well, thanks for the opportunity to rant.

    • FLDemFem

      this woman just chased after him and what could he do

      He could have said, “Thanks for the compliment, hon, but I am a married man.” That is all that is needed. He apparently forgot he was married. Which is something that should trouble his wife, although it apparently doesn’t.

  • EWard

    John Edwards is an adult. In no way is Elizabeth responsible for this. Obama the serial liar could have been found in bed with a man or woman and the braindead media would have ignored it.

    However, now we Obama and his thugs threatening businesses and private citizens to go along with his economic plans. The rest of the country is beginning to see the corrupt BO.

    To me, the John Edwards story is old news. The real story is we have a dictator as President fleecing America.

    • http://noquarterusa.net/ SusanUnPC

      Truer words!

      Thank god we’ve got Larry Doyle hot on the trail of what BO is doing to corporations and funding institutions.

      • J.J. (The P.U.M.A.)

        I agree. Larry Doyle has really done a great job with explaining economic and financial information. Hope he keeps it up.

    • Ani

      The rest of the country is beginning to see the corrupt BO.

      Do you really believe this to be the case? Would that it were true, but I am wondering how much of “the rest of the country” is paying attention or is still in denial.

      The press is still making nicey-nice with him and for him. I don’t know how many rank and file Americans are really getting the picture that he is threatening businesses and private citizens. Please, I would be more than happy to have my goggles adjusted if I am incorrect.

      Certainly people listening to FOX news get it, but there’s still ABC, CBS, NBC/MSNBC and CNN and who knows how many newspapers and newsmagaiznes that still act like he is the greatest thing since sliced bread. Are you getting the sense from people on the ground (who are left leaning) that they are seeing through it, too?

      • beebop

        Ani … I begin to see the truth is coming to light. The comments at liberalis voices like the Wapo when their columnists try to sing 0′s praises begin to reflect that people are either not clueless or not willing to be silenced. Either way I see the trend as important.

        I am trying to balance in my mind the amount of abuse that HRC took from other women and organizations when she stood shoulder to shoulder with a President under attack and the near silence that is “greeting” EE’s confession that she knew and still stood by a Presidential candidate lying about their marriage. Are we that changed or is it (as I suspect) that HRC is just held to a set of standards so high that even if she were Mother Teresa’s reincarnation, she could not manage to live up to it?

        • Ani

          Thanks for your response, beebop.

      • FranSC

        Ani, I’m with you. I don’t see any appreciable evidence that anything is changing. If anything, it has gotten worse since he is now the actual president. With all the pomp and circumstance, with more press coverage than Clinton and Bush combined, all the ranting and raving “for” him and Michelle is mind-blowing. Those who saw Larry King Sunday night will attest to that. It was about Michelle. I finally had to turn it with them comparing her to Jackie O and how beautiful, brilliant, wonderful mother, wife, on and on and on. I finally sent an email about their over the top show and waded through a hundred emails from nothing but the most ardent admirers. I don’t see anything slowing down.

        • FLDemFem

          comparing her to Jackie O

          In the entire time she was in the White House, I do not recall seeing Jacqueline Kennedy in a cardigan for a public appearance. She was always appropriately and beautifully dressed. Meechelle, not so much. Someone should explain to her that when she is representing the country, whether abroad or at home, she shouldn’t dress like she is on a grocery run. It is not appropriate to the occasion or her current station in life. In fact, it is an insult to those she is claiming to represent. She doesn’t have the perception to understand that. Neither does her husband. The First Lady is supposed to represent the best we can produce, not the lowest common denominator.

          • http://! stodgie

            michelle has no taste. they can put lipstick on the XXXXX all they like. it doesn’t change anything.

      • elise

        Too sad ani, but I agree with you. We can “hope” he will be so overexposed by his constant Town Hall Meetings and non press conferences, the adulation will fade in spite of the media’s hard work.

  • Diana L. C.

    That Maureen Dowd might consider doing journalism now is too little too late for me, so she gets no credit for this.

    I am not sure that I agree with tek that Edwards’ campaign was a set up all along. I do believe that he was serious–he also struck me as a real egotist.

    As for Elizabeth, I truly felt sorry for her after the news broke and caused Edwards to leave the race. Now that I know she knew before starting out, I do not believe I can forgive her for agreeing to go ahead.

    Edwards’ healthcare plan and voter base was more similar to Hillary’s. I guess I keep holding on to my belief that American democracy would have played out better and Hillary would have had enough to overcome all of O’s machinations and cheating without Edwards in the race.

    When Edwards and O ganged up on Hillary in one of the debates, I was just plain sick. I wanted to send them both to time out. It was like two rowdy middle school boys ganging up on the good, smart girl.

    • PamFlorida

      Don’t know if Ewards campaign was a plan to split the vote and give the early primaries to BO. However, there is no question that he was part of the boys’ club that manipulated the Michigan primary in favor of BO-remember he left his name off of the ballot, too.

      • tek

        Pam: Oh, yah, I forgot about that. Good point.

      • FranSC

        I have a hard time with the idea Edwards was used by the DNC to split the votes three ways instead of just two ways.

        Edwards ‘lived’ in Iowa from 2004 to 2008. The polls looked good for him in Iowa. That was his ace in the hole. I think it worked in 0zero’s favor like everything else dove tailed for him.

        Whether the Obama campaign threatened Edwards with spilling some beans about his affair is beyond me. It was reported that the media knew a lot about his affair, but out of respect for Elizabeth did not report it. Sounds like the Kennedy days.

    • Ladydawnelle

      I agree Maureen gets NADA

      deserves even LESS

      she’s become quite the “HACK”

  • Diana L. C.

    Test–my posts don’t go through.

    • http://noquarterusa.net/ SusanUnPC

      I rescued your comment, Diana.

      • Diana L. C.

        Thanks!

  • LDW

    I think the affair was no one’s business but the Edwards’. There is, of course, the problem that Americans want a president’s family to represent them on the world stage, and the First Lady plays an important role. So, when the affair became public and the Edwards announced they were standing by each other, this should have ceased to be an issue. Elizabeth Edwards’ health was the more serious problem here, and the distraction it would have caused her husband could have hurt both of them, and with the double whammie of both the affair and the cancer, I think he was wrong to run with so much of his personal life in disarray.

    I don’t think that making stellar personal life decisions is the main criteria one should look for in a president. The candidate should be judged on the integrity they display with public monies and policies, and the intelligence and talent they show to take the country in the direction they campaigned for. It seems to me that many leaders who consider their private lives to be righteous also think that they are operating on the side of the angels, and they believe that any action they take can be justified because of the purity of their purpose.

    If a candidate made his/her private life into a campaign issue, and promised to legislate morality, then it would behoove the media to discover how said candidate and supporters were proposing legislation they themselves wouldn’t live up to.

    The most unfortunate thing about John Edwards’ candidacy, in my opinion, is that his supporters loved him because of his ‘boyish charm’ and his dragon-slayer speeches where he promised to do battle with big business. But the charm faded fast, and his political plans were, well, naive to the point of stupidity.

    Both Edwards and Obama together could never measure up to Hillary Clinton. But American’s chose fluff and glitz over hard work and knowledge. They chose hope over experience. They chose pie in the sky over clear direction.

    The Obama ‘gang’ is still busy campaigning and Obama is posing as the Great Leader of a transparent and progressive government. Meanwhile he and his gang have reinforced every secrecy provision and skulduggery of the Bush administration; the only ‘secrets’ they have released are those they think will hurt their political enemies; and they have shovelled billions of dollars to their political supporters in the name of fiscal stimulus and bailouts.

    • Ani

      The affair is their business. Having said that, he never should have run in the first place. It was grossly irresponsible, simply because he is smart enough to know that whether it should be a primary consideration for someone’s candidacy or not, an affair (while your wife has cancer, to boot) and a possible love child would have derailed his candidacy anyway.

      There was an old anti-Bush joke making the rounds on the internet for a while — a billboard read: “Would someone please give Bush a blow job so we can impeach him already.”

      You get the drift. All the other lies in the world get a pass — but sex? Well — that better be prosecuted.

      There was no way Edwards could think this wouldn’t be revealed. And it was doubly irresponsible and selfish to put his sick wife through the strain of both a presidential campaign and the simultaneous affair coverup. To what end? His whole run never passed the smell test for me and now that these facts (of her prior knowledge) have come out, it is even worse. Well, he called himself a “narcissist.” Truer words…

    • Tom Cat “wodie j” Jefferson Esq

      I don’t think that making stellar personal life decisions is the main criteria one should look for in a president

      .

      everyone make mistakes but until someone can prove they have character, integrity and honesty in both all aspects of their life, they have no business being the leader of anything.

    • Animal Control

      When one runs for public office there is no private life.

      • Ladydawnelle

        unless your name is barack hussein oblahblah

        then you can keep all your records private

        (still would LOVE to see his papers from the college daze)

        snort snort

        pfffffffffft

    • benny

      I disagree. Do you remember Edwards touting “family values”? they don’t have to legislate on morality, but when edwards promoted his “family values”, they’re fair game.

      And its now known that Elizabeth had known about the affair much earlier. And they harped on family values. Gimme a break, they are both hypoccites. For me, its like a repub who speaks against gays, and then we find out that hes done it himself. Same story, different parties.

      Elizabeth is a scheming hypocrite. Hard to accept that, but nonetheless, its true.

    • I’m a Linda too

      They made it a public affair when they were running for Public office.

      And one thing you cannot get around is his selling the reason for running and his made up life.

      And, how irresponsible to think that he could have won the Democratic Primary to go on to run against an opposing party, with out this coming up.

      THEN WHAT?

    • FLDemFem

      I don’t think that making stellar personal life decisions is the main criteria one should look for in a president.

      Actually, it speaks to the character of the candidate. If a man cannot keep his marriage vows, then it is unlikely he will keep any other promises. It also speaks to his thinking with his penis rather than his brain, which is not a good thing for a leader, in my opinion. If he can so easily break a promise given before God, how can we trust him to keep promises made to us? And don’t bring up Bill Clinton, I do not consider his lapse in judgment with a stalker/slut to be on a par with fathering an illegitimate child on a campaign worker and coercing the wife into going along with it for political purposes.

  • Tom Cat “wodie j” Jefferson Esq

    Elizabeth Edwards is an accessory. She could have got him to immediately drop out by threatening to reveal his affair which would have tanked his candidacy anyway. That being said, I wonder if they were both threatened by BO and Dem’s to keep their mouth shut and go along. With all the corrupt shit done, giving AA districts extra delegates etc, it wouldn’t suprise me.

    However, all of this is going to come out in the open and be aired like the dirty laundry that it is sooner or later. They can’t shut everyone up.

    • Animal Control

      I wonder if they were both threatened by BO and Dem’s to keep their mouth shut and go along.

      No doubt in my mind!

      • Boxer Mum 06

        Maybe they weren’t threatened but PAID! Follow the money! How big is their house 28k sq feet?

    • lorac

      But wodie, could she have really followed through on that threat, knowing what it would have done to her children?

      I see people saying she should have done this or that – I guess I’m feeling more that she was probably in a terrible situation. I believe she said that she asked him not to run, but he did anyway. At that point, what can she do, truly? I guess she could have stayed home and not perpetuated the myth – but who knows what went through her head – she was dying – she was only in remission a short time – maybe she acted from her heart and her personal fear and wanted to be with the man she loved and their children, as much as she could.

      And as for the certainty that all this would come out – that may be true, but if he’s a narcissist as BO is, he may not have believed it would come out. And look how much BO has either kept covered up, or has had exposed, and no one reports on it or cares (caucus fraud, anyone? online fraud, anyone?) So apparently sometimes it doesn’t come out (unfortunately).

      I guess I feel I would have to know a lot more about Elizabeth before being able to pass harsh judgment on her. I just think it’s hard to even guess at what’s happening, in such a complicated situation – the illness, the coming death, the children who would soon have only one parent, the cheating, the lies. Maybe fighting for his candidacy made her feel strong again, through the weakness of her illness. Maybe it was poor judgment, but not villianous manipulation.

      Maybe I’ll read her book someday and get a firmer opinion of who she is and what her motivations are. Right now, I’m just focused on him as a cad.

    • lorac

      But wodie, I’m wondering, could she have really followed through on that threat, knowing what it would have done to her children?

      I see people saying she should have done this or that – I guess I’m feeling more that she was probably in a terrible situation. I believe she said that she asked him not to run, but he did anyway. At that point, what can she do, truly? I guess she could have stayed home and not perpetuated the myth – but who knows what went through her head – she was dying – she was only in remission a short time – maybe she acted from her heart and wanted to be with the man she loved and their children, as much as she could.

      And as for the certainty that all this would come out – that may be true, but if he’s a narcissist as BO is, he may not have believed it would come out. And look how much BO has either kept covered up, or has had exposed, and no one reports on it or cares (caucus fraud, anyone? online fraud, anyone?) So apparently sometimes it doesn’t come out (unfortunately).

      I guess I feel I would have to know a lot more about Elizabeth before being able to pass harsh judgment on her. I just think it’s hard to even guess at what’s happening, in such a complicated situation – the illness, the coming death, the children who would soon have only one parent, the cheating, the lies. Maybe fighting for his candidacy made her feel strong again, through the weakness of her illness. Maybe it was poor judgment, but not villianous manipulation.

      Maybe I’ll read her book someday and get a firmer opinion of who she is and what her motivations are. Right now, I’m just focused on him as a cad.

  • OxyCon

    Can’t wait till Down writes about Vera Baker.

    • pm317

      Where is she? A young dynamic woman with good political career/future is now nowhere to be seen or heard. If that sounds odd, we have to wonder why that is.

  • I’m a Linda too

    Absolutely correct. And she is still covering. Giving some truth, not all.

    And, why is she so gullable to continue to belive John, especially in regards to his affair? I mean really, she sights John’s reasonings and his claims, as if they will be accurate “she used an old line ‘you’re hot’” EXCUSE ME WHILE I LOOK FOR THE BARF BAG…and it’s NOT because Reille may or may not have used it. It’s because Elizabeth is using it in an effort to wipe clean the dirt around her and her husband.

    And…she’s writing a book to set the record straight? Uh huh.

    My heart forever is with her children and Elizabeth, personally, for her health condition, but this is all going a bit too far.

    Actually, I’m happy the Obama folks outted John’s affair. And I’m quite sure they did. Because John started talking being VP…so, someone shared the info that he was going to meet with his lover AND BABY-oh COME ON…to finish his ambitions off. He thought he was in the clear when he was threatened to endorse Obama, or the story would be leaked. That is why he miraculously endorsed Weary Barry no sooner than claiming the night before that he wasn’t endorsing anyone. They had the goods on him…and again, he felt if he sold out his country…yet again…and endorsed Weary Barry….he would be ok.

    Then…they got to Elizabeth too. That is why she back tracked from endorsing Hillary … or her health care plan. They kept selling out for their own well being.

    So, I’m happy Wear Barry has brought this affair to the spot light…he too is deserving to have a light shined on their fake, slimy, lying ways. Claiming such noble cause and character and yet, doing anything for themself, power and living a lie.

  • Lisabona

    I’m sorry for Elizabeth, I try to give her the benefit of doubt. But,as a mother, she first, should have be thinking about her adult daughter. The twins, vere to young to understand,yet,the situation. Why, she embarrassed her daughter, I just can’t understand. For her, the children should be the most important, not the cheating husband.I really feel sorry for the daughter and his parents. He betray everybody who trusted him.

  • NomNomNom

    Edwards was my do-nothing senator. I figured he would also be a do-nothing pres, which at least was a big step up from Bush: I probably would have voted for him.
    At the start of the election, my main problem with Edwards I had also with Clinton & BHO: their lousy stance on MTR and illegal immigration (all were for both), and Edwards at least seemed to be wavering on MTR.
    But when Edwards removed his name from the MI primary along with BHO, Biden, Richardson, and Kucinich attempting, he and they lost any chance I’d ever support their candidacies for dogcatcher. This was the moment where they all proved unequivocally that they were slime. (It took Dodd a little longer).

    In a more or less fair contest, if Edwards had never run, I think the initial benefit might have gone to BHO as the other (supposed) outsider or been spread out amongst all the other candidates (I could well imagine a smaller field of candidates encouraging a little better coverage of them); but I think that as the primaries went on, the benefit would have accrued more to Clinton, whose campaign became much more populist centered.
    Release of the information by the msm, I think would have followed the same pattern: released early, points to BHO, released late, points to Clinton.
    That being said, the primaries were anything but fair, and I agree with tek completely that the DNC would have committed murder to put BHO on the ticket.

    I wonder what would have happened if the day after Edwards went to WV to support BHO the information had come out. Everyone would have known that the BHO campaign had blackmailed him for the endorsement. I really wonder what would have happened if Edwards had pretended to go along with the blackmail, taken the stage with BHO and fessed up to the affairs and the blackmail.

    Elizabeth Edwards should not have compromised her own personal integrity by assisting in the false portrayal of her husband as a loyal family man. I lost all respect for her for doing so.

    • Mar

      I agree that Elizabeth lost her integrity by going along once John told her. She could have decided not to campaign for him and stayed home.

      Having the affair is a choice he made. There are many ways he could have avoided contact with Rielle, but he wanted both Elizabeth and Rielle.

  • Peggy Sue

    I feel a certain sympathy for Elizabeth Edwards. Yes, she knew and went along to get along. Yes, it may have radically changed the outcome of the primary/election. But John Edwards deserves our true scorn. It was “his” infidelity, his lie and I have no doubt that the DNC knew the particulars and played the chess board.

    Underhanded and corrupt. And that’s why I’ve lost respect for my own party. The Democratic Party is no better than the “evil” Republicans. Depressing.

    • trixta

      But Elizabeth campaigning against HRC was pretty harsh at times. She tried to make HRC Edward’s foil early on — and I never really heard her campaign against Obama in the same way (as she did against HRC).

      • http://noquarter foxyladi14

        so true,

    • AX10

      Elizabeth Edwards is every bit as smarmy and deceptive as her husband. She went along with the charade.

  • Carol HAKA

    Elizabeth Edwards knew and was as dishonest then as she is now – going on Oprah and pretending she doesn’t know if that is his baby or not!

    She should have stayed quiet or told the truth. One person’s lie isn’t outweighed by another person’s lie.

    They both stink and we have to live with their bad behavior with a**hole as Prez!

    Slink back into your holes and go away!

    CAROL HAKA :evil:

    • Mary

      Agree.

      And why in the world she’d write a book about it all…..to profit off the embarassment bringing it all up again will cause her own children….. is truly appalling.

      Uh, no , Elizabeth Edwards. Your husband’s career is OVER, and writing a public book about it all is not flattering.

      • rw

        More unflattering is that from the excerpts I’ve read, she seems to be blaming the “other woman”….nah, nah, nah….put the focus square on you lovey honey. Other than that, she’s not a victim and should just shut the hell up….it’s no one’s business.

  • Tuppence411

    I do not hold Elizabeth responsible for the actions or behavior of her husband. He’s a full grown man. Nor am I going to judge her for staying in her marriage. I am not in her shoes. She has incurable cancer AND children still at home.

    Now John Edwards -POS- that’s a different story. Look how many victims are in his wake- Elizabeth, his children (all of them including the new baby), his financial donors, his supporters, the entire Democratic primary process, and his issues of universal healthcare and poverty prevention. He is now USELESS on those two important causes. Way to go John, all because you couldn’t keep your di@k in your pants.

  • califlefty

    Elizabeth Edwards is writing a book for what…. money? ….catharsis? Well she’s stinking rich and can afford a therapist if she really needs to spill her guts. I have no sympathy for those who demand we respect their private family matters and then become publicity whores when it suits their purpose. Someone save those children.

  • bart

    FWIW, any discussion of the context of Elizabeth’s decision to support her husband’s bid for office should take into account both her health (not good) and her small children.

    Sure, she could have forced him out. But between her health and probable worry for the future of her younger children, I’m guessing she decided not to pull the trigger but thought it would come about anyway. I don’t see how JE thought he’d keep this quiet.

    Really, the stuff about John E was going to come out, whether or not Elizabeth was the one to tell. I just think, outcomes notwithstanding, telling a terminally ill woman concerned with her elementary children and end-of-life issues that she should also have taken responsibility for exposing her husband’s lies is just a little much.

    Especially from someone as character challenged as MoDo.

    • trixta

      I just think, outcomes notwithstanding, telling a terminally ill woman concerned with her elementary children and end-of-life issues that she should also have taken responsibility for exposing her husband’s lies is just a little much.

      I think you make a good point. On the other hand, I hear EE is blaming the other woman, etc., which is also a cop out and self-serving. It appears that the guy in this love triangle is blameless, while the women are the ones to carry the blame and the responsibility for cleaning things up.

      • Ani

        Right, Trixta. Moreover, she had to go hide in silence with her husband. Why? She did nothing wrong — her speaking engagement at the Convention last August was likewise cancelled. Why should she hide out?

        She is just perpetuating sexist attitudes towards women by painting this other woman as a homewrecker. RH is single. John Edwards is married with kids. It was HIS responsibility to say no. He is not some poor blameless sap in this equation.

        • sandi78

          Yes, JE should have said “no”. He is most definitely at fault.

          Why do so many single women think that married men are fair game? Just get them to say “yes” and the single woman initiating the whole thing is blamefree? I don’t think so. And I am a single woman. When single, or married, women target men they know to be married, they are, IMO, homewreckers. Yes, it takes two, but would JE have approached her? I suppose we’ll never know, but I would doubt it.

          • trixta

            Sandi, it’s not that the other woman is “innocent;” its’ that the man bears the responsibility of living up to his marriage vows and of protecting his family. (If Elizabeth had the affair, I would say she is just as responsible.)

            Also, blaming the other woman exclusively is sexist because it plays into a patriarchal mindset that excuses bad behavior by men toward women (i.e. toward their wives). Comments, such as “she can’t control her man” or “she couldn’t keep her man” is a reflection of such sexism. Moreover, it IS a patriarchal ploy to pit women against women when it comes to men. This way men can cheat on their wives with impunity.

            • sandi78

              Trixta, I don’t believe that EE is relieving her husband of any blame, and nobody is blaming Rielle exclusively, but we can’t in the name of feminism ignore that Rielle was the instigator. Just because she’s a woman does not make her slutty behavior acceptable. Her action has resulted in pain for many, many people.

              • trixta

                [B]ut we can’t in the name of feminism ignore that Rielle was the instigator.

                I’m not excusing Riel’s role in all this in the name of feminism. But
                do we know for certain that she instigated the affair? Perhaps John pursued her. In any case, it really doesn’t matter who pursued whom. The fact is that as adults they made the choice to have the affair. Both are responsible; however, John, as a public figure, defrauded not only his family but his constituents. He also made the choice to break his wedding vows.

          • elise

            sandi as much as I admire and respect Bill Clinton, I never blamed the intern. It is really despicable for Edwards to use his wife illness as a justification for his infidelity or to claim the woman pursued him. We all make our choices.

            • FLDemFem

              I do blame the intern. She told friends in CA before she came to DC and met Bill Clinton that she had her “presidential knee-pads” packed. She stalked him, and being the man that he is, Bill Clinton fell for it. What man wouldn’t? I am not saying that he is innocent in that situation, he could have said no. But she was the instigator, and worked to get herself into that position. Just like the woman who went after Edwards.

              • carr50

                Agree totally. That’s why I get so mad when media, politicians and others try and say that Clinton took “advantage” of the situation. Quite the opposite. Sure, what he did was wrong, but there is a HUGE difference between accepting what someone else is offering and forcing him/herself on another.

              • Lyn

                She could have stayed home and not gone all over campaigning for him and attacking people like Hillary, (or even Ann Coulter) especially after her cancer came back, she would have had the perfect excuse to stay home.. But she went all over the country saying what a great man JE is and how their family was the ones that cared about the little people (while someone was paying Hunter thousands of dollars a month to keep quiet)

                While I think Bill also should have said NO, beside the kneepads am I remeberring right that they were inb his office and she lifted the back of her dress and showed him her thong?

        • NomNomNom

          Being single hardly means one has a right to interfere in the relationships of those who are not, though. I do hold Edwards to blame, but Hunter is also a POS and also partly to blame for the affair.
          I certainly don’t see how someone who f#cks around with a married person can be said to be any better than said married cheater.

  • standard

    Edwards had me fooled for a while.
    I first realized screws were missing when he attacked HRC in that very first debate.
    It was creepy to see Edwards, Brian Williams, and Chris Matthews all ganging up together.
    I realized he was a fraud after checking up on his “great liberal” senate record, and saw he was more conservative than Clinton. And his “great liberal” posturing was calculated to pick up the Howard Dean faction.
    After that, absolutely nothing about the man surprised me.
    His wife is far ahead of him. Early in the primary, didn’t we all wished that she could run?
    I feel deeply sorry for Elizabeth. She deserves a decent husband.
    I very much hope that her cancer goes into remission, and she enjoys a long, productive life.

  • oowawa

    I hate to see a woman used misused like this. She was, after all, his biggest asset on the campaign trail–poor brave Elizabeth, poor courageous John. And all the time he was two-timing her, and she knew? How really sad for her. How sad for all of us. How despicable! It’s going to take some time to digest all of this information.

  • rose

    I don’t believe we should judge a woman’s reaction to a husbands affair ,especially in the begining,BUT this involved avery important primary and as it turns out Edwards and OB and the MSM did all gang up on HRC so, I find anything was possible from the Corrupted DNC to keep Hillary out.If she wasn’t so strong of a candidate they wouldn’t have bothered. !18 million with little support from your party says it all. BUT when you all mention murder,what ever happened about the Party Dem . leader from Ark. that was murdered and the little bit of coverage and questions answered,I found the Steffanie Tubbs death questionable because those two things happened in a close period of time and both strong hillary people resisting persuasion? We heard of other AA’s threatened to support OB,so what’s the deal? Then there’s the Larry sinclair issue and the deaths of church members{gay} associated with Ob. none of these things were covered by MSM because they were’nt allowed . Look what the press did to HRC and now Edwards but no OB questioning So what’s wrong with this picture ,lies ,intimidation,fraud,and HRC still got the most votes,real ones!Even now they downplay her work,I noticed MSNBC say as little as possible about her work .
    One more thing did you see on the crawl on tv news, that the administration say the photos of that fly over NY are Classified!!! why would that be ,I wonder? More transparency?

    • trixta

      Rose, I think your POV on the matter is quite astute and could have very well played out the way you say — i.e. that the BO campaign would have used the Edwards’ affair to hurt HRC in the primary.

      • trixta

        That is, my comment above was meant for politicalidentitycrisis.

  • politicalidentitycrisis

    I think Edwards is disgusting, and Elizabeth, too, for knowing before he announced and then supporting his candidacy. Too bad she didn’t tell him, “You run and it is 100% without my support because I will not support a liar and cheat and advocate that type of person be elected to the top job. That is not the kind of President I would support.”

    That said, I think if this story had been made public and the reason that Edwards hadn’t run, it would have hurt Hillary. It would have reminded/connected people of the Lewinsky scandal and many would have been turned off by women standing by their man. Why do I think this? I am taking college classes and early in the primary I was in a communications class where we had to write papers in a topp 100 speech. Several of us chose HRC’s “Women’s rights are Human Rights” speech in Bejing. People commented afterward and I heard many a young woman add to their critique that they would not support Clinton because she did not divorce Bill. I was flabbergasted and of course basically told them they were idiots, but still that is the line of thinking of some (dumb) women in this country and they do not like HRC for that single reason. I heard it commented many times during 2008 in different classes from different young women. Older women, like me, in my 40s, had many debates with people over that issue and yet, many blame Hillary for the Lewinsky mess. It is wrong, but that is the stupidity of people and I think it would have reminded voters of the scandal and Hillary would have lost big. We all know BHO’s camp would have repestedly made the connection as well.

    • Lyn

      BUT do you think IF he didn’t run there would even BE a story? I don’t,IF he just did whatever he did before he ran, no one would have cared about and Ex Senator having and affair, the only reason it was big news, was because he had just been running for POTUS and the fact he ran and hid crying in the bathroom.

      • politicalidentitycrisis

        I think the O camp would have gotten the story out there because yes, it would have helped BHO. They’ll use anything. Never waste a good crisis, right?

        • politicalidentitycrisis

          Well, and Edwards does remain the former Vice Presidential candidate so they could have made it newsworthy and probably would have. BHO is the Potstirrer Supreme.

        • Lyn

          NO I meant IF Elizabeth had talked sense to JE and he didn’t run NO one would have cared who he slept with or what babies were or weren’t his. The ONLY reason it was big news (when someone besides the NE actually reported it) was because he had just been running for POTUS and was being talked about for VP or AG.
          IF he didn’t run and just kept doing whatever it was he did after the 04 election, most likely no one would have cared or reported it and he wouldn’t have done that creepy interview about what a narcissist he is.And millions of supporters wouldn’t have felt he wasted their time and money. He just would have been another EX Senator that had an affair.

  • politicalidentitycrisis

    My comment must have gone into the spam filter!!!

    :-(

  • PJ

    I am so sick of these people airing their dirty laundry in public every chance they get. Spitzer and Blago running to every tv outlet to explain their behavior. Bristol Palin and Levi hamming it up for public consumption. Elizabeth Edwards writing about her private woes.

    These people need a true confessional to get it out of their systems, not public airways. Don’t anyone of them consider that there are children involved here who must live with this stuff day after day? They all need to get off the stage and give the public a rest.

    Their children will not thank them in the future for dragging out personal tragedies for all the world to gnaw on just because they all have a hankering to be seen and heard. Shut up already!

    • rw

      Totally agree. But, I must admit, I find following Blago and his doings funny…

  • http://trackacrat.com/ Track-A-’Crat

    Is there anything more despicable than cheating on your terminally ill wife?

    • Ladydawnelle

      cheating is cheating

      edwards
      newt

      they’re all alike

      you’d THINK a man would not cheat while running for PRESIDENT (while also being married with ONE dead child and 3 others on the campaign with you all the time)

      how friggen SELFISH is a man that will do that (or woman)

      blech

  • Mandelay

    Good question, Susan. Hard to say how it would have gone with Edwards out the picture. My gut tells me that Edwards himself did not impact the outcome of the primary. I thought he was the lightest of lightweights, a pretty boy with an intelligent spouse who was going to be fodder for the tabloids, no matter what.
    Edwards’ trying to position himself as the champion of the poor was a joke. Remember his announcing in New Orleans? I still believe it was always between Hillary and BO and that the biggest impact in the primary was the press.
    I was (and still am) a Hillary fan and I still believe she would have made a better POTUS than anyone else out there (and anyone in the WH at this time). But Hillary was not allowed to either make a mistake or “go over the top.”
    • The Bosnia sniper fire story is a good “over the top” example (Joe Biden gets away with this stuff all the time and was rewarded with the VP spot).
    • And the amazing reaction to Hillary’s interview with the Argus Leader — the so-called reference to “assassination” — is an example of the mistake Hillary could not make (the Kennedy’s went berserk and the Obots nearly choked to death demanding apologies.
    Those are just two slip-ups that hurt her because the press would not let go of it and the press was in the tank.
    Also, the way money was spent in Hillary’s campaign revealed that, even with the Clinton contacts, they had no idea they were up against a guerilla war. (It is fitting and just that Mark Penn remains the only unpaid creditor of Hill’s campaign.)
    As for Ms. Dowd (I like to call her Pan Dowdy), I see a pattern in that she needs to attack the women who do not divorce/shoot their “bad boy” husbands. I don’t like that pattern. To me, it’s another example of how some powerful women seek to derail other women. I’ve seen this a lot in corporate environments and it always amazes me that there are a lot of powerful women who go out of their way to score points with powerful men … at the expense of other women. Both parties capitalize on this (manipulating with the abortion issue is one example) but the Dems are very guilty indeed, selling themselves as the champions of women’s rights as they continue to “divide and conquer” the political power of female leadership.
    Maureen Dowd invested an awful lot of ink savaging Hillary Clinton during that primary season and I always had the impression it was because Hillary always stood with Bill “no matter what.” For Maureen Dowd, it was always more important to “get Hillary.” The notion of having the first woman as POTUS never figured into Maureen’s equation. The notion of having the most qualified, experienced candidate who happened to be woman as POTUS didn’t figure in either.
    What is astonishing is that Hillary Clinton showed such power as a vote-getter, despite a primary system that had been long ago stacked to award delegates with proportional representation rules and the winning through intimidation caucus process (kinda like the “card check” movement which George McGovern hates so much).
    One of these days, people interested in seeing, in their lifetimes, a woman POTUS, might consider voting for a third party candidate, a woman who can bring together the divided female leadership in this country so that the US can benefit from the Sarah Palins and Hillary Clintons of this world.
    Sorry this is all over the place, Susan. Your very provocative post has made my mind jump all over the place. But that’s a good thing!

    • Mandelay

      Susan, here’s something related to the women helping or savaging other women issue — an article from another “journalist.”

      http://www.politicsdaily.com/2009/05/06/hillary-bawls-nobody-cares/?icid=main|main|dl5|link5|http%3A%2F%2Fwww.politicsdaily.com%2F2009%2F05%2F06%2Fhillary-bawls-nobody-cares%2F

    • Stacy

      You know what is very interesting about most of these posts? You don’t discuss the very real issue that a bright woman like Hillary didn’t hire a competent campaign manager. Everyone makes mistakes but, it should have been extremely apparent to her from the beginning that she needed to make some drastic changes sooner versus later. Even John McCain figured that out. Attacking John Edwards, his wife or President Obama really don’t have anything to do with the real issue. Hillary ran a bad campaign. Period. I just hope that the next qualified woman learns from her mistakes.

      • rose

        If she ran such a bad campaign with the MSM propagandizing for Ob, The top DNC making a deal with OB in 2000, the Chicago machine after her and what you say a bad campaign and she got 18 million votes,more than OB and more delegates than OB until they were stolen by the DNC ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,Gee she got 18 million ,so in spite of what you say,thats a fact.

      • Lyn

        That’s probably because THIS article is about Elizabeth Edwards, her book and going on Oprah ect. and the fact she knew from the beginning of the campaign JE had an affair that most likely would come out but still went along with his campaign and his family valvues ect.

      • NomNomNom

        not hiring a better campaign manager doesn’t equate with having a complete lack of morals but having some pretty outstanding hypocrisy, bot.

    • allimom99

      I did – Cynthia McKinney!

  • Judy L. NC

    I’m with you, Susan. She is as guilty as he. And now she’s selling the story. You know what that makes her. She better hope to hell I don’t run into her at the mall.

  • benny

    I have no sympathy at all for elizabeth. Shes a liar, just like her husband. Yeah, he did it, but she aided and abetted him in promoting a lie. Nope, no sympathy for her at all.

    And they used to promote family values. Hypocrites, both of them.

  • Portia Elizabeth

    May I play devil’s advocate for a moment?

    I tried to imagine what motivated Elizabeth Edwards to support a cheating husband. First I took into account their long marriage which was a true partnership. Then I thought about how I would proceed if I knew I had a terminal illness. Would I want my last gift to my children to be irreparably harming the family unit?Would I want my children to remember me as a bitter person who damaged the children’s relationship with their surviving parent? Would I want my leagacy to be the destruction of the candidacy of my children’s father?

    Because we all know that she would be blamed, just as Hillary understood it would fall on her shoulders. I’m not certain I would’ve done any differently than Elizabeth did.

    • oowawa

      Well, you make a compelling “devil’s advocate,” Portia. In the same spirit: if Elizabeth truly believed that John would be the best for the country, or if she could at least convince herself of that, I can see how she could carry on the charade and even manage to feel like a martyr. I wouldn’t want to condemn her, but I’m still not ready to vote “acquit.” I hate this moral ambiguity! Her terminal cancer sure doesn’t make it any easier . . .

    • Lyn

      I’m not saying anything about her choosing to stay with him, My problem is her campaigning for him to be POTUS and basically being his attack dog against Hillary, while going around the Country saying what a wonderful family man he was, when she knew THAT was a lie. Also when he first decided to run and told her about the affair a couple days later,(in December) her cancer was in Remission. Her cancer didn’t come back until March.

  • Lyn

    So she already knew John had and affair when she was attacking Hillary with things like… http://thecaucus.blogs.nytimes.com/2007/07/17/elizabeth-edwards/
    In an interview published today with Salon, Mrs. Edwards says Mrs. Clinton is not as vocal an advocate for women’s issues as she wishes she were and lances the Clinton campaign’s suggestion that people should vote for Mrs. Clinton because she is a woman. Mrs. Edwards also says Mrs. Clinton “needs a rationale greater for her campaign” than that she is in the race to win, which is what Mrs. Clinton said when she announced her candidacy in January.

    Mrs. Edwards, wife of John, who is the candidate, has been over some of this terrain regarding Mrs. Clinton before. Last fall, she told a forum sponsored by Ladies Home Journal that she had some things in common with Mrs. Clinton — they both went to law school and both married lawyers — but that they then made different choices.

    “I think my choices have made me happier,” Mrs. Edwards was quoted as saying. “I think I’m more joyful than she is.”

    • bart

      Yeah, Elizabeth should have said “there, but for the grace of god. . .” with respect to Hillary and her choices.

      However, given her terribly difficult personal life now and that she may be making DVDs for her children to watch later when she’s gone, is it too much for us to say “there but for the grace of god go I?”

      And I really think Elizabeth’s book and publicity still doesn’t hold a candle to being fool enough to cheat when you’re running for president, mean enough to deliberately seduce a public figure with no concern for his family or stupid enough to be that age and not use birth control.

      Blameless? No, but jeeeeezz. Why pile on Elizabeth when either JE or RH would be a far, far better target???????

      After all, Elizabeth knows she’ll be leaving her children with their father.

  • trixta

    Great post, Lyn. This is precisely where I have problems with Elizabeth. She always knocks Hillary down to prop herself or her husband up. In this, she is truly a hypocrite! Why is her choice to stay with her cheating husband better than Hilary’s choice to stay with Bill? Why is Elizabeth’s choice more joyful?

    The Clintons never made themselves out to be the perfect married couple or the morally superior family — or the most joyful, for that matter. The Edwards did — and still do — however.

  • Lyn

    HMMM I guess Hunter thinks IF Elizabath can write a book and go on Oprah (with John,) She doesn’t have to keep quiet either http://www.nationalenquirer.com/john_edwards_mistress_rielle_hunter_dna_test_love_child/celebrity/66637
    John Edwards’ furious mistress is demanding he submit to a DNA test, The ENQUIRER has learned exclusively!

    Rielle Hunter – the longtime secret lover of the disgraced 2-time presidential candidate – wants definitive proof that Edwards is the father of her 14-month-old love child Frances and is working with a lawyer to take legal action, say sources.

    The blonde divorcee – who gave birth in February 2008 – was slammed in the explosive new book Resilience written by the ex-senator’s cancer-stricken wife Elizabeth…….

    ….”Rielle – probably naively – now realizes she had held onto a false promise that if she continued to take part in the cover-up John had engineered, they’d be together in the future,” a close source told The ENQUIRER.

    “She was willing to protect John for the sake of the child. She agreed to allow a crony of his to claim he was the baby’s father, and she even kept the name of the father blank on the birth certificate.

    “But now she can see there’s never going to be a future with John – and she feels he’s lied about his promise to keep Elizabeth from trashing her in the book,” the insider divulged.

    “Rielle is so infuriated by his and Elizabeth’s actions that she’s throwing her loyalty to him out of the window!”…

  • JustMe~~

    agree with u benny
    I have no sympathy at all for Elizabeth. Shes a liar and a con artist just like her husband. Yeah, he did it, but she aided and abetted him in promoting a lie. Nope, no sympathy for her at all.

    and now she wants to make MORE MONEY off some who will be just as gullible to line The Edwards pockets.

    As for that poser

    I hope everytime he combs that hair of his his finger slips and pokes him in the eye!
    In fact I hope one day he wakes up he is bald hes so in love with his hair….

  • bart

    I wouldn’t disagree that Elizabeth’s choice not to “out” her idiot spouse had bad consequences nor that she engaged in some unattractive name calling about HRC.

    But if she HAD ratted out John, we’d have all been talking about how cold it is to do something like that to a spouse (don’t vows mean something?) and how it will ruin the kids’ relationship with their father after she’s gone.

    MooDoo would have claimed she was the cold, vindictive sort more than willing to deliberately shame her entire family in order to get revenge for adultery.

    So, Elizabeth would catch hell, no matter what.

  • Portia Elizabeth

    Let’s think about all our “smart” friends who fell under the spell of BO’s lies. Yes, Elizabeth Edwards is an intelligent person, but she wanted to believe the man she married and loved and shared a life with was telling her the truth. To not believe him would mean the end of everything in life she held dear and right. I just can’t fault her for that.

    Once she knew the truth it was a bit late to play the woman scorned. She had a terrible choice to make and it was really no choice at all. I believe she made her choice based on what would best benefit her children after she is gone.

    As for writing that book, I hope Elizabeth did it to get a certain last laugh. I not only would’ve accused the other woman for her part in the betrayal, I would’ve named my book, “The Scheming Bitch Who Tried to Get My Lying Husband Over My Dead Body”.

    • trixta

      Whether she stayed with John or left him is not so much an issue with me — although she did go along with the fraud during the primaries, which is highly questionable behavior. It’s just that Elizabeth always tries to make herself out to be superior to the Hillary when it comes to their cheating hubbies.

  • mountainaires

    I greatly, greatly admired Elizabeth Edwards, but I think Clinton would have won if they hadn’t been so dishonest. So, the Edwards’ are on my shit list. And, so is Oprah Winfrey. Speaking of Oprah, this is enough to make you vomit:

    Get these people a drool bucket. This slobbering is just out of control.

    Though the room was filled with luminaries from around the world, most were star-struck to be in First Lady’s company – even old friend Oprah Winfrey, her tablemate at the event.

    “Seeing as how Michelle is the greatest First Lady we’ve ever known, not to take anything away from the other First Ladies, but I think its so fantastic that she’s tonight’s guest and leads the pack of influentials,” Winfrey told the Daily News.

    “I think that we see that Michelle is someone of multi-dimensions, and that you don’t have to be just one thing, you can be many things,” said Diane Sawyer. “In many ways were just getting to know all that she can and will do.”

    “She’s very warm. She’s very sane,” said “The View” co-host Joy Behar. “She’s not crazy like some people in politics.”

    “Michelle is incredible, I think she’s amazing,” said designer and Beatles scion Stella McCartney, who also made Time’s list. “The half-American in me wants to dress her.”

    Out of control.

    http://jammiewearingfool.blogspot.com/2009/05/do-these-people-even-listen-to.html

    • Peggy Sue

      Wow, mountainaires. These comments:

      “the greatest First Lady evah, multideminsional, warm and sane and fantastic . . .”

      This indeed gag city. I wonder if you need post-grad work to reach this sycophantic level?

      Oprah’s been off my list for a while. I can now scratch Diane Sawyer.

      What a spew!

      • oowawa

        (As Buddy Holly turns over in his grave)

        Hurray for you,
        Peggy Sue,
        Scratched off Oprah,
        Dianne Sawyer too–
        “What a spew,”
        Peggy Sue,
        Michelle’s sycophants
        Better watch out for you!

        • Peggy Sue

          I like it, oowawa! :0)

    • Mandelay

      “…the greatest First Lady we’ve every known…” ???? What is Oprah smoking? Oprah’s like Obama in so many ways … she really believes she can say stuff like that and that people will take it as a fact.

      Well, Oprah, you mad woman you, please give Eleanor Roosevelt another look. Nobody gave a damn what Eleanor was wearing or if she was going to have her teeth fixed. But she was nicknamed “First Lady of the World” and it was not because she wore $500 sneakers to a food bank during the Great Depression. Oprah has gone to her own head.

      Lots of neat stuff posted here today. Looks like the memories of the 2008 primary are still fresh.

    • NomNomNom

      she’s been First Lady for what, all of 4-5 months? And she’s done what exactly besides plant some veggies and wear $540 shoes to a food bank? & Oprah thinks she’s teh best evah, already????
      freaking jeebus, Oprah has lost her mind.
      I hope it translates into viewers.

  • TeakWoodKite

    The Senator Clinton would have won the primaries.

  • TeakWoodKite

    I do not fault Mrs Edwards for “standing by her man”, for Senator Clinton knew first hand from experience of her agony and chose NOT to use it.

    That John is a thoughtless pig, just makes feel bad for Mudcat, having thrown in with his lot.

    Two Americas. Suuurrre thing there Johnny! When Edwards and Clinton were caught on mike, at the end of one of the early debates,making comments about BO not being qualified, thats when the fun began.

    BO got to Edwards but not Hillary, he had to get the DNC to screw her and the 18 million others in the process.

    If you watch Hillary speak, she manages to dance around a full endorsement of BO’s comings and goings. Like Hillary said “there was more to the deal than was published”.

  • Katmoon

    Cancer end of life issues, and affair aside; what reason would compel any woman or man to go along with duping the voters? What was there to be gained by doing so, or avoided by doing so, that is what I am interested in. I wish no further problems for this woman, and yes I am sorry she is very ill, and yes I am sorry her husband is a whore; however, I am also sorry she didn’t consider (regardless of the circumstances)to be honest about the presentation of being a moral family, versus what was going on; it was a campaign issue, being put forth as one of the reasons her husband would make a good president. It affected, people on a voting level, and on the primary candidate level. It was a wrong choice, no matter the reason. To write about it now, is hypocritical IMHO.

    • barry bums a ciggie

      You took the words out of my mouth. She went along with the whole lie. She allowed her husband to scam the “little people” to donate their hard earned dollar to prop his ego and vanity. The whole thing was a sham. Her husband had just cheated on her, and she’s trying to tell me that he wouldn’t step down for her??! What kind of a man does that say about Edwards and his “regret” for what he did to her?

  • Margaret

    It’s horrible that, after betraying his wife, Edwards decided to run. She was struggling with cancer, how could he ask her to make such a choice under those conditions… At that point, he owed her, big time. I don’t consider it my place to judge her choice, made under such duress, when she has likely paid a high personal price for going along. Being a political wife is a hard road.

    On the other hand, I understand the point of view of how dare she be the attack dog against Hillary for such a punk, and how different the race might have been without the Edwards…

  • EWard

    Politicians Cheating on Their Wives

    Folks, it happens all the time. JFK was a notorious womanizer and Jackie knew it. Even in the WH, he was having affairs with women in their social circle. IKE supposedly had a romance with his wartime driver. FDR had a long time affair.

    Stop beating up on Elizabeth and John. This country is heading for disaster under Obama the serial liar. Let’s concentrate on impeachment to boot him out of office.

    • trixta

      Even Bush Sr had an affair.

  • EWard

    Please rescue my comment from the cellar!

    Ditto to the other posters that Oprah’s comments about Michelle are delusional.

  • morris1030

    Try to remember that Elizabeth said unkind things about Hillary whenever possible. Lying and misrepresenting her husband to the public when she knew he was a smarmy rat was pathetic. Edwards attacked Hillary whenever possible, and dear Elizabeth projected the myth of their relationship.

    This sordid and pitiful story is now being shopped by Elizabeth for whatever reasons. What about her kids?

    Hillary was undoutedly prevented from gaining more momentum because of Edward’s campaign. This sham duo had their way with all of us. I’m disgusted.

    • trixta

      Well said, Morris!

  • Dutch

    Et tu Elizabeth. Soon, there will be no one left – if there is anyone left.

  • H Towell

    Ihave always considered Behar crazy and do not watch Ophra,so do not care what they say.As far as Michelle she is just another woman and does not seem to be anything so special.These people are just sucking up in a simpering and look and sound foolish.I agree with all of the above remarks about JE and EE and have not gotten over the corrupt election of BO over Hillary.I am no longer a member of the Democratic party.They are no different than the Republicans.Hard to digest.

  • Southern

    I’m not confusing Elizabeth Edward’s having cancer with my feeling about what she did in the campaign.
    The two things are not related.

    Ms. Edwards is a hypocritical, lying, self serving woman and I have no respect for her in any way.
    She, John, and Reille make a great threesome and deserve each other.

    I feel sorry for the Edwards children although there are many kids who had rotten parents and survived to overcome their childhoods.

    We should never, ever forget what John and ELizabeth Edwards did to our country and our children and perhaps the future of our country. They trashed Hillary and because of them we have THE FRAUD.

    Disgusting people who deserve the scorn of a nation.

  • Cathy in Ks.

    A part of me feels sorry for Elizabeth Edwards. However she obviously is no “tragic heroine” but rather the star of a messy “soap opera”. Who knows for certain if she had told John “no” before he decided to run for president, if it would have helped Hillary? I don’t know. But I think Elizabeth also had a lot of “ego investment” in John running for president. After all there was the possibility of her being a “first lady”.

    But I cannot condemn Elizabeth. Many women have stood by silently and covered up the behavior of their philandering husbands and many times for a lot less than a “possible first lady position”. It seems to me when all is said and done that Elizabeth loves her husband – perhaps “blindly” as the saying goes. John Edwards on the other hand, seems to be like so many celebrities and some of our leaders in our nation’s capitol – a shallow, and self-centered person who puts his impulsive desires and needs first.

  • http://deleted Betsy Buzz Ross Latte

    I hold Elizabeth Edwards responsible. She could have used a page out of the Martha Mitchell playbook.

    Don’t remember Martha Mitchell? She was a true patriot.

  • lauraks

    You know who I feel the greatest compassion for here? Their grown daughter, Cate. She lost her brother tragically and as she finishes Harvard Law what does she have awaiting her? Her mother is terminally ill. Her remaining brother and sister are elementary school aged and her father is utterly destroyed in her eyes. She can have no real respect for him – that he would treat her mother so very dreadfully, it is something I can’t imagine my twenty year old daughter facing as she seeks to find her way in life.

    Yes, I do appreciate the larger implications fully for our country of Edwards’ duplicity. Many people however decided it would be Obama so I’m not sure the Edwards’ actions were determinative. The double weight of all AA delegates was major. So was Bush leaving people to just drown In NO.

    Elizabeth Edwards is merely trying to console herself because really the cards she has been dealt will be very hard for her oldest daughter as well as for the younger kids. Quite sad. John Edwards will probably move on with this woman he obviously felt something for.Regardless, if he is found to be the father of that baby girl he is responsible for her support.

    • rjj

      John Edwards will probably move on with this woman he obviously felt something for.Regardless, if he is found to be the father of that baby girl he is responsible for her support.

      Wishing that on the man is a tad cruel, if what this seems to imply is true. Anybody read the McInerny?

      She inspired the literary character of Alison Poole, “an ostensibly jaded, sexually voracious” New York party girl who had the lead in Jay McInerney’s novel “Story of My Life” and in a short story in his new book, “How It Ended,” as well as a couple of walk-ons in novels by Bret Easton Ellis.

  • lowdowndog

    I was an Iowa precinct captain for Hillary in a small college town. My ward, the largest of 12 wards, included a residential area and a campus that favored Obama. On caucus night there were about 200 registered caucus goers in my ward and about 20 or 30 “observers” seated in a designated area.

    In the caucus process everyone gathers into preference groups, we count noses and apply a formula to determine if the preference group is viable. Just before this process was to start, there was a motion on the floor to allow the “observers” to get out of their chairs and walk around. I objected strongly saying it could confuse the process of getting a accurate count and furthermore, I didn’t know or recognize any of the “observers.” I kept thinking who the hell are these people?

    The motion was defeated, but during the process of forming preference groups, I saw a lot of empty chairs of “observer” who were supposed to stay put but didn’t.

    Caucusing is like herding cats. Everyone drifts in and out of their preference groups visiting friends. So it is easy for “observers” to blend into the groups and influence or intimidate people. If I had my way “observers” would be banned from the caucus. Better yet, we should just get rid of caucuses.

    Obama won 38% Edwards 29.8% and Hillary 29.5% of the Iowa caucus vote. Without a doubt, if not for slime-ball Edwards, Hillary would have won the presidency.

  • http://! stodgie

    let me be honest here. i don’t care what edwards does in his private life. i think the public’s interest in what our public officials do in the bedroom is pathetic. i like the french idea here. let them do as they want, just don’t embarrass us. john showed very poor judgement and a real sense that he is all about john. americans are too concerned with this stuff and not concerned enough about actual positions and policies.

    john’s bad judgment in knowing what the pitfalls were irritates me. i feel sorry for elizabeth however i don’t admire her quite as much as i did.