Leave it to a Male Obama Supporter …
By SusanUnPC on July 13, 2008 at 9:29 AM in Barack Obama, Bernie Mac Scandal, Misogyny, Sexism
… to mock my piece late last night on FireDogLake‘s story on Obama’s wholly inadequate response to “comedian” Bernie Mac’s misogynistic remarks.
John Cole of Balloon Juice gleefully reports that FireDogLake’s story was a spoof, and “I can report that they are stupid enough that they took this spoof at FDL seriously.” Here’s my first-ever “Dear John” letter. Dear readers, feel free to write your own.
Dear John,
Spoofs only work (i.e., are funny) when the material itself is humorous. There’s nothing humorous about Bernie Mac denigrating women as “hos” and complaining his wife is frigid since she experienced menopause. I rarely read your blog, so didn’t realize that you are as immature and sexist as your candidate and his supporters.
Unlike you and, sadly, your female counterparts at FireDogLake, the mature Shakesville bloggers get it. Melissa McEwan, in “Unbelievable,” doesn’t think it’s funny, just one more cruel example of sexism and (her term) misogyny: “Obama chided him for it, only to immediately assure Mac he was just kidding.” Melissa adds:
[I]t really makes me wonder even more WTF Obama was thinking letting off Mac so easy, especially given that he’s “deeply disappointed that John McCain has not spoken out against the attacks leveled against his wife.” (Unless he thinks his wife is magically untouched by misogyny, which I sincerely doubt.)
To response to John Cole’s “How Stupid Is NoQuarter?,” I ask:
Where is the humor in mocking an A.P. report on a comedian’s sexist and crude jokes?
Where is there any acknowledgement by you of the sexism in Bernie Mac’s “jokes”? (I have the answer already: Nowhere.)
Where is there any proof that your candidate — without a teleprompter in front of him — has ever STOOD UP for women?
John, you typify a certain group of young-thug supporters of Obama who cannot see any faults in “The One” and who derisively, unthinkingly mock anyone who does.
Thankfully, there are other blogs for grown-ups. Such as Shakesville, which also has a great piece up on domestic violence, “Looking Over My Shoulder.”
John, you need counseling. Sadly, that is not a spoof remark. I’m serious.
Of course, you’ll first have to recognize that you have a problem. That’s doubtful, but it is critical that impressionable young men and women who read your blog get the message that you too do not tolerate sexism and misogyny.
Read this before your first session: “Feminism 101” at Shakesville. From the section titled On Off-Limits Humor:
On Off-Limits Humor: Here’s the main reason I object to the use of “politically incorrect” humor at this blog: There’s a whole fucking world out there where women and gay men and trannies and racial minorities and the disabled and the overweight and people who are intrinsically and inescapably “different” for any reason are made fun of, marginalized, turned into punchlines. There’s a whole fucking world out there which expects us all to be perfect according to some arbitrary definition and seeks to punish us if we’re not. There’s a whole fucking world out there where people who don’t conform to that standard are not only ridiculed and made to feel not good enough, but can also find themselves at real risk of physical harm. Where they’re denied rights, job opportunities, friendships, votes, equality. If you want to use “politically incorrect” humor that targets those people, you have the entire rest of the bloody world to do it, but you can’t do it here. This is a safe space.
P.S. John, grow up. Calling people “stupid” because they fail to see the humor in degrading jokes about women is a sad sign of immaturity.
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UPDATE FROM LARRY JOHNSON: It is good to know that we cannot take FireDogLake seriously. It is astonishing that a blog managed by Jane Hamsher and Christy Hardin Smith would tolerate this kind of sexism. If Michael Richards does an intro for John McCain and does another “nigger” rant, would that be “okay?” Hell no.


















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