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The Year in Sexism

Editor’s Note: Reprinted from The Daily Beast with the express permission of Amy Siskind, president and co-founder of The New Agenda, an organization dedicated to improving the lives of women and girls.

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Chris Matthews, former poster boy of sexism, was educated. Martha Coakley won a Senate primary because of her gender. And women were mobilized against the new mammography recommendations. Amy Siskind tallies women’s progress this year.

Not so long ago, sexism had been deemed an acceptable norm. MSNBC host Chris Matthews felt at ease, on national television, referring to a woman as “she devil,” “witchy,” and “uppity.” But 2009 marks dramatic progress from such overt sexism. This year, the country finally ended its silent acceptance.

Women stand at a crossroads of possibility. As we progress beyond the blatant sexism of Matthews, we find the roots of sexism deeply entangled throughout our culture.

One example: This year’s mammogram battle, which brings with it a new awareness of what is at stake, after decades of complacency. If women can harness our progress this year—encapsulated by the three Ms: Matthews, Martha, and Mammography—2009 could presage the biggest boon to women’s advocacy since the 1970s. If we falter, some of the basic privileges and liberties that young women have taken for granted for decades could well be fleeting. The situation is that dire.


As we stand at the crossroads of possibility, women’s advocacy must adapt. We can no longer afford to remain one-party dimensional. It’s a losing proposition.

Let’s begin with progress—the education of Chris Matthews, former poster boy of sexism. After Hillary Clinton dropped her presidential bid, women were out for blood over the Hardball anchor’s sexist comments. So we organized and pressured Jeffrey Zucker, CEO of NBC Universal, for a powwow. Within six months, Matthews dropped his flirtation with a Senate run, and in early 2009, he relaunched his image. The new kinder, gentler, educated Matthews emerged by defending Joan Walsh when Dick Armey told her on Hardball, “I’m so glad you can never be my wife.” Matthews even apologized on behalf of Armey.

And so 2009 became the year of the apology for overt sexism. Rep. Alan Grayson apologized for calling Federal Reserve senior adviser Linda Robertson a “K Street whore.” Letterman apologized, twice, for his “jokes” about Sarah Palin’s teenage daughter. Pepsi apologized for its sexist iPhone app. Heck, even Chris Brown apologized for beating Rihanna.

And as the country started to dial down the overt sexism, women scored a major victory in Massachusetts. Martha Coakley won a landslide victory in the state’s primary for Ted Kennedy’s open Senate seat. Yes, Coakley is poised to become Massachusetts’ first female senator. Yes, Coakley would be the 18th female U.S. senator, a record. But the most compelling takeaway is this: She won because of, not despite, her gender.

Hillary Clinton could not harness this power in 2008. Many women who voted for her did so while apologizing for the fact that she was a woman. There’s been a shift. Coakley’s campaign was successfully able to harness the support of women and women’s organizations from around the country.

Thrilling? Yes. And as we stand at the crossroads of possibility, women’s advocacy must adapt. We can no longer afford to remain one-party dimensional. It’s a losing proposition. We cannot control the political climate around us. Four of the 10 most vulnerable Senate seats in 2010 are held by Democratic women—Lincoln-AR, Landrieu-LA, Gillibrand-NY, and Boxer-CA. And so the political headwinds of 2010 could well blow our progress backward to 14 women senators.

We need to employ the lessons learned from Coakley’s groundbreaking victory as a guide to supporting women of both parties. As the mammogram issue reveals, representation is no longer a game of percentages. Representation is tantamount to women’s well-being.

The mammogram recommendations—delaying screenings until after age 50 and scaling them back to every other year thereafter—are hardly just about the procedure itself. The advice came from a government agency in a Democratic administration. (Health and Human Services Secretary Tommy Thompson had rebuked a similar recommendation in 2002.) That the recommendations were even made public is emblematic of the weakened state of women’s bargaining power. Who could have imagined that the first target of health-care rationing would be women in their 40s?

Our saving grace would be our women leaders—of both parties. Senator Barbara Mikulski (D-MD) and Senator Olympia Snowe (R-ME) have co-sponsored an amendment to the Senate’s health-care bill. Meanwhile, other women leaders, including Senate candidate Carly Fiorina and Rep. Debbie Wasserman Schultz (D-FL), have spoken out based on their personal experiences. The male politicians were strangely absent from the early outcry—until a Gallup poll revealed that a backlash by women was turning the mammogram issue into a political weapon.

If not for our women leaders, mammograms could have become a template for further assaults on women’s issues. Battle lines are already being drawn around Pap smears, and, of course, the Stupak amendment and its cousin in the Senate.

This week, a friend described her 26-year-old daughter as being quite surprised by all the melee. Before, this young woman had taken health-care issues for granted. It’s startling to realize how close we are to the precipice. This is precisely why women must unite and work together to continue our progress. As we finally complete the education of Matthews, new fights are brewing. We need women in leadership positions to argue for us and protect our well-being. While we celebrate our progress in 2009, we must toughen our resolve not to back off one iota. Our eyes now wide open, we embark on the next stage of our long climb.

Amy Siskind is president and co-founder of The New Agenda, an organization dedicated to improving the lives of women and girls. Ms. Siskind has appeared on CNN, Fox, and PBS. Ms. Siskind also writes for HuffPo and MORE.

  • arabella trefoil

    2010 is our year. No backing down,

  • trist

    Forgive me if this was addressed within the post, I started reading it, but then I stopped. I just don’t see how you can look to Matthews and Coakley as examples of things improving. I don’t watch Chris anymore, so he may have tamped down on his attacks towards women in general and Hillary in particular, however I have turned past his show several times this year, and I HAVE seen numerous topics featuring Sarah Palin, just form the quick moments I saw, he wasn’t too kind in how he refered to her.
    I also am not too sure about holding up Martha Coakley, I was all for her and was glad she won the Primary, but I now read that during the campaign she was against the senate health bill, but now that she’s secured the nom, she says she’d support it. It STILL contains the limiting Stupak language regarding abortion rights. So how should we feel about her now? She won because she’s a woman, and yet is willing to sell them out for DNC support in order to win.

    All I can say about this year is 1 step forward 10 steps back

  • SHV

    but I now read that during the campaign she was against the senate health bill, but now that she’s secured the nom, she says she’d support it.
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    That is disappointing…I live >1500 miles for her State bust sent $$$ to her campaign;  primarly becasue she opposed Health Insurance Company welfare.

  • Tex-Mex Soup

    I have to admit, even though I knew sexism was alive and well, I basically just turned a blind eye or simply accepted part of it.  After the treatment of Hillary Clinton, the sleeper in me had awakened.  I realized how horrible sexism was/is, and how I was one of millions of women who really did not recognize the damage sexism truly caused.  I will never be the same.  Especially for myself being a Hispanic woman, its been a little tougher.  I’ve had to fight a little harder but ya know, what doesn’t kill me only makes me stronger…..

      I am proud to say I am now a business owner.  I just inked a deal for a real estate franchise here in Las Vegas and one of my main priorities is to be a role model for ALL women.  I aim to be a strong voice in the community.  I will not tolerate sexism ever again!!

    And it deeply saddens me more than anything to hear women worship obama like he is some kind of god and forget about the equality issues that still affect women today.  Like  the NOW organization, they simply excuse this assholes treatment of women.  They may be ok with being ass slapped but I most certainly am not!!  And god bless  my gorgeous husband who is a feminist in his own right and supports me in all I do and bonus, he’s ten years younger than me, LOL.

    We’ve got work to do!!

  • Jazzman

    Martha Coakley won a Senate primary because of her gender.”

    Coakley won because she had the backing of the democratic amd Kenndy machine……

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  • hot Librarian

    If these are your parameters Amy , your organisation is piss poor . All these fluffy womens orgs are docile , timid & rather pathetic.

    I read Betty friedan & you are no Betty.

  • Glennmcgahee

    Revisionist much? When actually, Hillary was denied a roll call vote at The Democratic National Convention. Yea, you women have come a long way baby. I’m watching the Democrats gut women’s reproductive rights forever in a back door scheme as you are telling us how much things are improving for women?
    Is this a Christmas feel good story or what? I’d say women are going back to the stone age thanks to The Democrats. You really set the bar very low here.

  • Yttik

    Great post, Amy Siskand. Thanks for all you do, all year along. Thanks for standing up and taking all those hits that I sometimes read in comment sections. Thanks for staying positive and trying to unite the left and the right against sexism.

  • Animal Control

    This is not progress.  Crumbs that fell off the table is more like it!

  • Anonymous

    No chance – you have no clue what you are talking about.
    She was one of our super dekagtes, one of the few who backed Hillary Clinton.  Our three most prominent super d’s, ted kennedy, John Kerry, and Gov. Deval Patrick all back and campaigned for Obama even before the democratic primary, Despit state polls showing Hillary was favored by 25 points or so. Coak;ey cast her super’d vote for Hillary, evn after she released he delagtes.

    Non of the Knnedies endorsed her in this race. The party will do her no favors.

  • CentralMass

    Sorry, I’m new to the new format. That “Guest” reply was me..
    The 3 super d’s I mention camapigned for O in the weeks befors our primary in Ma…

  • CentralMass

    Matthews is a massive horses @$$.

  • beachnan

    I think that Martha Coakley and every other female who has run for office after Hillary’s historic run, has benefited from her efforts and the 18,000,000 cracks she made in the glass ceiling. 

  • Five Thirty

    Cool,ain’t it…..

  • Five Thirty

    Cool was a reply to Guest re: how the Dems are mad at Coakley, yet she won.  Cool………..

  • wbboei

    I traveled all over the count as a campaign volunteer for Hillary Clinton.  As I went from state to state, I found many women who were either ambivalent or even hostile toward Hillary’s candidacy–a sentiment I could not understand.  Then one morning I happened to be standing at a street corner in Charlestown West Virginia in the rain.  I was holding up a three tiered Hillary for President sign waiving to passersby.  Beside me was an attractive middle aged lady who was running for pubilic office holding up her own sign.  I asked her why women in general were not fully supportive of Hillary given her historic candidacy.  She told me that the reason was too many of them had not left high school and were jealous.  I thought about that answer and decided there was some truth to it.  How else can you explain the petty vindictive attitude of a malignant dwarf like Andrea Mitchell, or the complete phoniness of Campbell Brown.  I have one other recollection of that stop on the campaign trail and that was a private discussion I had with a Boston attorney who was there to advise on legal issues which came up in the course of the campaign.  He was deeply concerned as I was about the uncivilized way Hillary was treated and the rampant sexism in the media. He told me that democratic women in Massachusetts were livid about this and he feared a backlash at the Convention.  Hillary did not take it to the mat at the Convention and it therefore that backlash did not occur at least then.  But I expect the author is right that Coakley received strong support from women in Massachusetts.  If she runs for President I will support her as I did Hillary, even though I am a Republican.  But as to the proposition in general that women will support women candidates I am skeptical for the reasons the lady in West Virginia told me.  And look at how quickly the womens organizations sold their principles down the river to achieve power, and how little they have received in return.  But os all the things that remain a mystery to me, the decision by Jim Webb to support this health care monster which turns American citizens into vassals unless they are minorities that is the most imponderable thing of all.  I do not question his patriotism as I do with so many others.  I do however question his judgment. 

  • wbboei

    There will be a day of reckoning for Matthews.  How do I know?   It is the law of attraction.   I suspect he knows this and it is why he decided not to run for public office.  The man has no decency.

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