This is about friendship
By SusanUnPC on August 24, 2008 at 12:15 PM in Hillary Clinton, John McCain
Yesterday I learned that I lost a very dear friend, someone who did so much to help me when I was recovering from all of my surgeries. He was only 43 years old. He has a lovely wife, two beautiful little girls, a thriving business, and the friendship and admiration of all who knew him. He loved politics, and he was an ethical activist.
Thank god for LisaB. I knew I couldn’t concentrate yesterday on administering this busy blog. She stepped up to the plate, and did an exceptional job. THANK YOU, LisaB. And thank you to all of our writers who came through yesterday, and answered LisaB’s call for certain stories. (We have a private list for our writers, and it is the most gregarious, warm-hearted, fun group of people — all of whom are both mature and very sharp. It is a very helpful environment. We can “try out” our stories and our ideas, and get needed feedback and more ideas. It was to that list that I sent a fast note yesterday morning after I got the heart-breaking news and realized I wouldn’t be able to talk about politics.) So, yesterday, I learned that I lost a very dear friend, but I was also reminded that I have many other good, reliable friends. Bless their hearts. Bless his good soul.
It is the context of my current mood about honoring friendships that I write about John McCain’s newest ad. It is well-known to all of you that John McCain both likes and admires Hillary Clinton, and that she feels the same way about him. The reports are that those two have had a great, fun time on their overseas trips together. It is also well-known to all of you that John McCain has disliked Obama for a long time, especially after Obama failed to perform his DUTY as a U.S. Senator on more than one occasion. John McCain knows that Hillary Clinton is made of entirely different stuff: That she is the kind of person who always comes through, follows through, and is always prepared.
John McCain also has to know — because of his long friendship with Hillary Clinton — that this is an extraordinarily difficult time for her. She is acting with the utmost dignity. She is placing her political party ahead of her own ambitions. She is trying to soothe the deeply hurt feelings of her greatest supporters. She is acting as a surrogate for Obama in areas such as Florida where his polling is very poor.
So why did John McCain exploit Hillary to make this ad? Why now? At a time — most especially — when the press is hungry for ANY indication that Hillary Clinton and her supporters are giving Barack Obama headaches. (And that’s because any anti-Hillary story, for the media, is BIG NEWS.) It is easy to detect that all the news channels are eager for any sign of a “Clinton problem,” and every remark, every appearance, every speech will be dissected endlessly.
Is this the act of a friend? Or the act of someone who is using a highly sensitive time for Hillary Clinton in order to score a political point?
I especially feel sorry for Hillary Clinton.
Can you imagine how many times she is going to be asked about this advertisement throughout this coming week?
These days are difficult enough for her without having to deal with this, John McCain.
POSTNOTE: I fully anticipate that most of you will see this ad very differently.
But, right now, I am MOST concerned about being protective of Hillary Clinton. This week will be “hell” for her in so many ways. She doesn’t need reminders from anyone — and most assuredly not from her friends — of her remarkable fight in the primaries, and the utter madness that she is not the nominee when she not only won more votes but also is vastly more qualified.
And let us hope that ALL of Hillary Clinton’s supporters — AT the convention — behave in the most dignified manner possible, and that they follow Hillary Clinton’s lead.
She doesn’t need embarrassment to add to her list of emotions that she is experiencing at this difficult time.
There’s also a practical reason for all of her supporter to “behave” this week: We hope that Hillary Clinton has a great future. I personally hope, with all my heart, that she will run for the presidency again. Let’s not do anything that will make that opportunity more difficult for her. Let’s not build MORE resentment against her.






















