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The Tragedy of Pat Tillman

Angry, grieving mothers are not rational or logical. Pat Tillman’s mom fits in that category. So does Cindy Sheehan. I cannot begin to imagine the pain felt by a woman who loses their son (or daughter) in a war. They are entitled to vent their anger. But that does not mean they are right.

The mythology surrounding the sad death of Pat Tillman in the mountains of Afghanista is back in the news with a new movie by Amir Bar-Lev called “The Tillman Story”. Folks on the left are convinced that Tillman was murdered because he opposed “the war.” Which war is irrelevant, but in the leftist meme Tillman got whacked because he had soured on the Bush war on terror and his fellow soldiers knew it and did the dirty deed.

For those on the right Tillman was an iconic hero. Lord knows that the Bush White House, the Rumsfeld Pentagon and the media in general seized on Tillman’s death to promote the concept of hero. Tillman was the poster child for the warrior who eschewed fame and fortune and laid down his life for his nation. At least that was the story.

But here’s what really happened.

Pat was killed by friendly fire on April 22, 2004. Only folks who have never been in combat insist that Pat’s death was deliberate and intentional. But shit happens in war, particularly when you have inexperienced combat leaders in the field, imperfect communications and fading daylight. When you are in the field you do not get to operate by the same safety procedures and precautions that govern a firing range. Tillman’s death was an accident.

The subsequent exploitation of Tillman’s death was not an accident. Unfortunately, General Stan McChrystal catches alot of blame for this exploitation. I think it is unfair. Yes, it is true that McChrystal signed off on the Silver Star recommendation for Tillman even though he believed there was growing evidence that Pat died from bullets fired by his fellow soldiers. But there was an innocent explanation–McChrystal actually thought at the time he was sparing the family and hoped the honor of the award would ease their pain. He was wrong and naive.

The record shows that McChrystal warned his superiors that the “facts” about Tillman’s death were troubling:

On April 29, Major General Stanley McChrystal — commander of the task force that the Rangers served in Afghanistan, and head of the most secretive joint-service force in the US military — sent a memo to John Abizaid, telling him to warn everyone all the way to Commander-in-Chief George W. Bush, an investigation “will find that it is highly possible Cpl. Tillman was killed by friendly fire… I felt that it was essential that you received this information as soon as we detected it in order to preclude any unknowing statements by our country’s leaders which might cause public embarrassment if the circumstances of Cpl. Tillman’s death become public.”

I remember the day when Tillman was killed. I was working on a military exercise at Fort Bragg. When the news came in everyone was stunned and saddened. I realize that those opposed to the war like to think of Stan McChrystal as a Neanderthal. But I have yet to meet a soldier who served under McChrystal and actually knew the man who does not lionize him. Why? McChrystal cared more for his troops than he did his own promotion possibilities. That’s why Stan spent so much time on the frontlines. The same cannot be said of General David Petraeus. As I have written before, he was known while he was a cadet at West Point as the kind of guy who would marry the Superintendant’s daughter in order to advance his career. Guess what? He did.

At the time of Tillman’s death most of McChrystal’s attention was consumed by the growing insurgency in Iraq. Afghanistan had become a second tier priority. But he was not in a position to dictate the allocation of military resources. The ones truly responsible for exploiting Pat Tillman’s death for purely crass political reasons occupied the Pentagon, the Joint Chiefs and the White House. But history is not fair. I fear that McChrystal will become the convenient, easy scapegoat.

None of this brings Pat Tillman back to life. He’s dead and buried. The war in Afghanistan continues. More than likely there will be more friendly fire incidents and more grieving, angry mothers. None of this diminishes the honor that Pat Tillman deserves. He did sacrifice a material life in a cause he believed to be just and honorable. It also is true he had become disillusioned. His dream had not panned out. He was still enough of a professional to try to finish out his commitment. That fairy tale, sadly, ended and ended tragically. More than six years have passed since his death and the casualties from this incident continue to pile up.

  • annie

    I know that Tillmans death is very sad but so isn’t every soldier that has passed and no one is more special than the other. They all went for the same reason to keep this country safe for all of us. They are all heros……

  • Retired

    I have a friend who was killed in a wartime accident.  Like McChrystal, he was a West Point graduate, but he had left the Army and joined the CIA.  He was a pilot himself, but was hitching a ride on a foreign army helicopter when he died.  That was the great irony of his death, because if he had been piloting that helicopter, instead of riding as a passenger, likely as not he would not have made the mistake that the foreign military pilot did.

    His death went largely unnoticed, because he was serving with the CIA in one of those nasty little wars that America wasn’t “officially” involved in.  Official or not, America lost a fine young man that day.

    There were no medals for my friend, because, ultimately, his death was just one of those sensless accidents that occur in pretty much all wars.  Like everyone in the CIA who dies in the line of duty, a star was carved in the marble wall at the Agency’s entrance in his memory.

    Strangely, those who knew him did not try to make anything more out of his death than it actually was, a sensless accident.  But we do remember him to this day, not because of the way he died, but because of the way he chose to live.  Where his life touched ours, we are better for it.  More importantly, that touch served to inspire and motiviate all of us to emulate him in that way.

    The last time that I saw my friend before his accident, I popped the top off a cold bottle of beer and greeted him with it as he walked through the door.  And that is the way I imagine he will greet me the next time that we see each other.

  • Patience

    Good, gutsy article Larry. 

  • Fred

    Slightly O/T, but while on the subject of Generals,

    What have you heard of Gen Mattis Larry?

  • donjo

    Sorry, but your explanation doesn’t account for what happened after the “accident.”
    It’s a little too cut and dried.  Accidental or not, I suspect only the people involved actually know.  It’s unlikely that anyone who wasn’t there actually knows, either.  In any case, it was a tragedy and the waste of a good human life.  

  • TeakWoodKite

    Lj, what’s up with the “Norm Chomsky meme” that was in the mix with Pat Tillman?

    I can’t understand why it recieved such odd press. the right used underhandly to suggest a motive and the left side the same.

  • EllenD

    Sh*t happens. Dead on, Larry. It happens with everything.
    At work, I have had drinks with former employees who dream up fantastic conspiracy theories to explain the actions of the company. Apparently sheer stupidity and happenstance doesn’t ever occur to them.

  • kenoshamarge

    I find it difficult to understand the kind of reasoning that would find it reasonable to suggest that other soldiers would “whack” Pat Tillman just because he had become “disillusioned”.

    Don’t most members of the military become somewhat disillusioned when reality catches up to idealism? Don’t most just shrug it off and carry on with their duty? Like it or not, not everything that happens is some kind of a plot ala The Bourne Conspiracy or whatever Hollywood Fantasy people like to dwell within.

    Murder a comrade because he/she disagreed with them? Not hardly. Not the members of the military that I know.

    Evidently those conspiracy theorists have no regard for the character of those they send in harms way and simply believe them to be murdering bastards.

    Smearing other members of the military, including Stan McCrystal, is stupid and ugly. Even grieving mothers have no right to do that.

  • Christopher

    Pat Tillman’s Mother, Mary Tillman, Tried to Warn Obama about McChrystal

    The mother of the slain football player and Army Ranger Pat Tillman, Mary Tillman reached out and tried to warn President Obama against making Stanley McChrystal his commander on the ground in Afghanistan.
    According to an article by Ben Stein appearing in Politico:
    Mary Tillman said in an unpublished interview this year that she wrote to Obama and called Senators and members of Congress seeking to block McChrystal’s appointment when she learned that he was under consideration for the post.

    She called the lack of deliberation in his appointment “disgusting” in the interview, given before today’s Rolling Stone article spurred intense tension between the general and the White House.

    An audio recording of the interview was provided to POLITICO by the interviewer, who asked to remain anonymous.

    Mary Tillman received no response from the Obama White House to the letter and little response to her contacts with members of Congress.
    Stanley McChrystal was accused of involvement in covering up of the fact that Tillman had been shot by his own comrades, having approved a citation for a posthumous medal that attributed his death to “enemy fire,” though the general also penned a memo warning the White House against describing the details of Tillman’s death for fear of future embarrassment.

    An official investigation blamed Stanley McChrystal for “inaccurate and misleading assertions” in the formal recommendation of Tillman for a Silver Star.

  • Herby Bell

    Larry,

    Nice commentary and sentiment, but you must have been at the popcorn counter and missed the movie? You’re missing the point by circumventing the meta-narrative that there is no journalism in war, only PR. Anyone from any perspective, after viewing the documentary must come to the conclusion that The Tillman Story was the same perfect storm of bait and switch events that has been going on since Eisenhower first warned us to be aware of the growing military industrial complex. What are you covering up?

  • Rabble Rouser Rev. Amy

    What a beautifully written comment, Retired.  Your recounting of your friend, the way he lived, the way he died, and how he will be remembered, moved me to tears.  Thank you for sharing this moving portrayal of your friend. 

  • Sassy

    Thank you Larry,
    This subject is awkward to discuss, but best approached from the perspective that we have a volunteer military force.
    Every death is an honorable sacrifice to be respected. The narrative of each individual and family is different.
    My family values privacy, and to sensationalize the death of a family member would add to our grief.
    I sympathize with the Tillman family, and wish them peace and closure.

  • Ghosts of Toyko and Dresden

    Reminds me of My Lai…

  • Helen

    Larry, You dumped on Pat Tillman’s mom, but the news interviews I saw had the military dad pursuing the story and the Pentagon.  I never heard a word from the mom.  She or Cindy Sheehan don’t need to be trashed any more than they have.  They are no more illogical or irrational than the men who begin and believe in the wars their sons died in. I’m sorry to see you stoop to this.

  • EllenD

    BEN STEIN??? That freaked me out. Ben Smith.

  • Peggy Sue

    I have great sympathy for the Tillmans, Cindy Sheehan and all parents who have lost children and loved ones to these wretched wars.  I’ve never lost a child but I came pretty damn close.  And I can tell you from personal experience, it drives you to the brink.  And not knowing the particulars or having crossed messages of what happened, how it happened just makes it all the worse.  For instance, to this day I have no idea how my son was injured, who was involved, how or why it happened because everyone was trying to cover their own asses.  Ten years later, I’m able to let it go.  The difference is my son survived.

    I’m convinced a parent who’s lost a child never gets over it. And not knowing for sure what the particulars are or, as was the case with Sheehan, believing that your son died for nothing?  It would literally eat you alive and compel you to invesigate all sorts of alternative scenarios, whether they be sound or not. 

    In the Tillman case, a lot of suffering could have been avoided, had the military been up front and brutally honest.  It wouldn’t bring Pat Tillman back.  It wouldn’t have made the military look particuarly good.  But at least it would’ve been out in the open. 

    I remember growing up and coming of age during the Vietnam era when stories of friendly fire hit the headlines.  People were shocked, those of us who had never been on a battlefield.  But, in fact, friendly fire has been documented in every war ever fought. It’s one of the deadly by-products of battle.

    All I can say is the death of a child, even the prospect of losing a child, can drive you a little crazy.  And maybe it’s human nature but we want, even need someone to blame.  Because a loss by careless accident or coincidence or bad luck is just too horrific to consider.  Might sound nuts but I’ve stood on that edge.     

  • Noogan

    A very moving blog post, Larry; much appreciated. It’s probably true that Gen. McCrystal is unfairly targeted as the source of the cover-up, when he was only seeking to be fair to both the family and the Commander in Chief. And, my heart goes out to the Tillman family; but they aren’t alone. There are so many families who lose loved ones in questionable circumstances during war; so many families never know anything about the circumstances of their loved one’s death. The Tillman family has had an advantage, due to Pat Tillman’s high visibility. But that’s a double edged sword, since, that high visibility is what caused a cover-up of the circumstances of his death, in my view. “Friendly fire” death of such a high-profile soldier, particularly one who had become outspoken about his growing opposition to the war he was fighting, became threatening, so the circumstances of his death–and his opposition along with it–had to be hidden. 

    I hope the Tillman family can find peace in the truth. 

  • Tricia

    Thanks for this piece–very well done.

  • Fred

    Wait,

    Cindy Sheehan has trashed the US military, hung with Communists and the Muslim Brotherhood, and has milked her son’s death for political points. Sheehan deserves whatever comes her way.

  • Herby Bell

    No!!! Not THE Communists, too?!? To hell with the heretic truth tellers, Fred. When can we just get back to 1954, huh? Frightening, buddy.

  • foxyladi14

    it is the hardest thing in the world to lose a child.
    I hope and pray they will all find peace

  • Bronwyn

    This is so moving, Retired.  

    I can only imagine how touched he’d be to know that you remember him so vividly and warmly all these many years later.

  • momule

    When I heard about Pat Tillman’s death I immediately thought about the 1979 TV film “Friendly Fire”.  It was taken from a true story of an incident of friendly fire in the Vietnam war. Carol Burnett was terrific as a woman radicalized by her inability to get a straight answer from the Army as to how her son had died.
    The moral I got from the film was that the unvarnished truth should be told from the getgo – no matter how painful, embarassing, traumatic. In that particular case, after several years of dogged unremitting searching the woman was given the answer she was looking for. But by then both she and her husband were so embittered by what they had gone through along the way that they could not accept it, and continued to believe in a angoing coverup.  Perhaps it should be screened for the brass and all officials who, for worthy or unworthy reasons, want to hide the facts from those closest to the casualties of war.   

  • Fred

    You have a point. Maybe we shouldn’t call those people “Communists”.

    I think anti-American political prostitutes is much more accurate.

  • Suzanne Goldstein, PhD

    Yes Pat Tillman was a tragedy. He was abused by his parents, he became violent, he played footbal to vent it and when that was not enough he went to the US Army to kill helpless, defenseless and disenfranchised people around the world. That was a tragedy.
    Cindy Sheehan’s son was also a tragedy. That a saintly mother like Cindy who fought to protect Communism and Islam around the world, that a tireless progressive social activist like Cindy would have a son, brutish and evil enough to join the US Army, that is a tragedy.
    But the greatest tragedy of all is that the US is spending billions of dollars a year, and sending thousands of soldiers to death, for one reason: to protect the interests of IsraHell and the cabal of zionists who control AmeriKKKa.
    Down with fascism! Down with the military industrial complex! Down with I$raHell!

  • Avraham Feigenbaum, CFO, Chicago ACLU

    I would like to ask all the meshuggeners in this blog, you don’t get tired of criticising Obama? Feh! Who gave you war? Bush. Who stole the election? Bush. Who caused global warming? Bush. Who gave us self-respect, prosperity, civil rights, equality, all this by way of unions and socialism? OBAMA The Greatest! OBAMA The Mightiest! OBAMA The Just! OBAMA The Wise!
    Now to Pat Tillman. He was a fascist murderer, like all military people. So he died. Big deal. I wish people would get so riled up about all the injustices that American people do against Muslims and Gays and Mexicans and drug dealers! This country has 250 years of persecuting minorities on its hand. Chill out, and try to wash away that blood off your hands, American people.
    Enough about Pat Tillman! How about some love for Muslims and Gays?
    But I don’t expect any compassion from CIA assassin Mr. Larry Johnson any time soon. Just endless criticism of OBAMA The High Holy One!

  • Doris Finkelstein, Code Pink

    Pat Tillman was shit. All soldiers are shit. I am glad he died. I hope he suffered when he died. I hope he is in hell. In fact I hope right now Saddam Hussein is sticking his shmeckl in Tillman’s tuches.
    Death to America the great satan. Death to Israel. Death to global warming deniers.
    Che Guevara Forever!

  • Yisroel Kupferberg, Pagan Aromatherapy LLC

    Pat Tillman did not have to die. He died because he believed the lies that Dick Cheney, Blackwater, and Neocons spread in the US on a daily basis. Just read the Walt & Meresheimer report. The Neocons run the US. They caused the Iraq war. Saddam Hussein was a man of peace. Muslims never hurt anyone. It was the Neocons. They killed Tillman.

    We don’t need an army. We just don’t. The world is at peace. There is no conflict or injustice left, mostly thanks to Obama. So why do we need to spend billions on keeping a military, when we can spend this money on building unisex bathrooms in Berkeley, paying the money Al Sharpton owes to various organizations, and paying generous sums of money to unions who have supported and promoted socialism in the US for all of the 20th century. It wouldn’t hurt also to give some of that stimulus money to aromatherapists who have been instrumental in keeping people calm and relaxed.

    What!? I should get nothing? Hello! I have been a lifelong Democrat! Where is my share of the stimulus loot?

  • Shlomo Bar-Cohen

    Dear “Noogan”:

    Here is the truth: Pat was killed by the Zionist-I$sraeli lobby in the US. Until these blood-thirsty fascists are purged from our lives, we will continue to suffer. Please donate money to JStreet, a group dedicated to finding a final solution for the Zionists and the removal of the illegal and immoral state of I$real off the world map. JStreet is working diligently to solve the Zionist-I$real problem, from the inside. Please send us money. We need to pay bills. George Soros is giving all his money to get Obama re-elected. So we are getting bubkes! If you are a progressive, if you have any respect for Trotsky, if you hate America and/or Israel, please send us some money. Remember: JStreet.org – we need your money for implementing a final solution.

  • TeakWoodKite

    uh oh….satire again?

  • Fred

    My sarcasm detector is detecting readings off the charts in this post.

  • kenoshamarge

    I guess they are supposed to be satire.

    Satire works only when it’s clever. This doesn’t rise to that level IMO.

    But then I don’t find Stephen Colberg funny either. Too many real idiots around for me to enjoy faux ones. But that’s just me.

  • oowawa

    This “person” is a kind of troll that I have called a “role playing troll,” and “he” has been appearing from time to time on this site for well over a year.  When “he” appears, he typically floods a thread and disrupts the discussion.   The trademark is that “he” uses phony Jewish names and creates a caricature of a liberal Jewish persona that “he” then makes as ridiculous as possible.  You could call it satire or sarcasm, but IMHO it has a very ugly core that is highly anti-semitic because of the consistent mocking of liberal Jewish stereotypes.  I find it very repugnant, but some others might laugh and think it’s all in good fun . . .

  • surfered

    It’s a tragedy when any of them die, maybe more so when their deaths become pawns of a political strategy.  I think a portion of a speech given by a fellow Silver Star winner, Jim Webb, is appropriate: 

    “Like so many other Americans, today and throughout our history, we serve and have served, not for political reasons, but because we love our country. On the political issues – those matters of war and peace, and in some cases of life and death – we trusted the judgment of our national leaders. We hoped that they would be right, that they would measure with accuracy the value of our lives against the enormity of the national interest that might call upon us to go into harm’s way.
    We owed them our loyalty, as Americans, and we gave it. But they owed us – sound judgment, clear thinking, concern for our welfare, and a guarantee that the threat to our country was equal to the price we might be called upon to pay in defending it.”

  • lorac

    Check out their past names…. they both share “Suzanne Goldstein, PhD” as one of their past names, along with others….  it’s just the usual person, trying to cause trouble.

  • Mazuz Al-Faysal Mukrabahat

    Hey Americans, repeat after me:

    - I am American I am coward bitch.
    - I am American I am worthless shit.
    - I am American I am slave of Muslim power.
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    - I am American I am butt kisser of freedom fighters from Palestine and Mexico.
    - I am American I am saying “Good Morning President Hussein”
    - I am American I am saying “Communism is good. I am happy to be a slave.”
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    - I am American I am murderer of innocent Palestinian and steal from the poor Mexican.
    - I am American I am eating dirty cock of Baldwin Brothers from age 5.
    - I am American I am fucking my wife that looks like Barbara Walters.
    - I am American I am gargling in the morning with the balls of Keith Olberman.
    - I am American I am BAG OF DUSH.
    - I am American I am learning Rachel Corrie big hero and saint and bow before her.
    - I am American I am kaka smell I am pig I am stupid I am infidel whore.
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    America, you are ZERO. Big empire of shit, Islam and George Soros fuck you down to your knees. America, we will piss on the grave of your George Washington, and you will pray to Allah, on your knees, five times a day!

    America you are SHIT! We are OBAMA UNITED – Islam, ACLU, Jesse Jackson, Al Sharpton, Al Gore, Black Panthers, Louis Farrakhan and Nation of Islam, JStreet, Hollywood, Noam Chomsky, Cheryl Crow, …..and MATT DAMON! …..and BEN AFFLECK! …..and BARBARA STREISAND!

    WE WILL FUCK YOU AMERICA! We will fuck you America so deep Muslim cock will push your vocal cords and your ass hemorroyds out of your mouth.

    *** YOU WILL PRAY TO ALLAH !!!

  • Duchie

    I caught the movie.  Tillman’s mother only wanted the truth..and never got it.  It’s not the Tillman’s of the world that are the problem…it’s the military covering their asses and politicians going to needless war!!!

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