Tracy and Brian Jopek to Barack Obama: Remove Our Son’s Bracelet from Your Wrist
By Truthteller on September 28, 2008 at 12:10 PM in Barack Obama, Debates, John McCain
All of us remember this comical segment of the first Presidential debate between John McCain and Barack Obama. McCain mentions the bracelet he has been wearing in memory of Cpl. Matthew Stanley ever since his mother presented it to McCain in August 2007. Obama, in a desperate attempt to claim he too has credibility with the troops, responds with the following:
Jim, let me just make a point. I’ve got a bracelet, too, from Sergeant – from the mother of Sergeant Ryan David Jopeck, sure another mother is not going through what I’m going through.
No U.S. soldier ever dies in vain because they’re carrying out the missions of their commander in chief. And we honor all the service that they’ve provided.
If Obama truly honored the service of Sergeant Ryan David Jopek, he would honor the wishes of Jopek’s mother, who asked Obama in March 2008 to remove her son’s bracelet from his wrist during public events.
According to Brian Jopek, father of Sergeant Ryan David Jopek, Tracy Jopek, Ryan David’s mother, did not want Obama to insert her son into Presidential politics. I provide a transcript of minutes 11:23-14:00 of David Moberg’s “Route 51″ radio show of Wisconsin Public radio dated 20 March 2008, when Moberg interviewed Ryan David Jopek’s father:
Brian Jopek: Because of some of the negative feedback she’s gotten on the Internet, you know Internet blogs, you know people accusing her of… or accusing Obama of trying to get votes doing it… and that sort of thing.
Radio Host Moberg: Yeah
Jopek: She has turned down any subsequent interviews with the media because she just didn’t want it to get turned into something that it wasn’t. She had told me in an email that she had asked, actually asked Mr. Obama to not wear the bracelet any more at any of his public appearances. Which I don’t think he’s…
Moberg: It has been a while since he’s brought it up.
Jopek: Right. But, the other night I was watching the news and he was on, uh, speaking somewhere and he was still wearing it on his right wrist. I could see it on his right wrist. So, that’s his own choice. I mean that’s something Barack Obama, that’s a choice that he continues to wear it despite Tracy asking him not to… Because she is a Barack Obama supporter and she didn’t want to do anything to sabotage his campaign, so, if he’s still wearing the bracelet then, uh, that of course is entirely up to him.
Moberg: Maybe there’s a difference between wearing it and making a point to bring it up in your speeches?
One can download the radio show dated 20 March 2008 at this website.
Yes, there is a difference between wearing a bracelet and making a point to invoke it during one’s speeches. And Obama shamelessly invoked the bracelet and the name of the Sergeant to whom the bracelet belonged against the wishes of Tracy Jopek during the first Presidential debate. If Obama truly respected the sacrifice of Sergeant Jopek, he would have removed the bracelet before the debate. But not only did he refuse to remove the bracelet; he cited it when he decided he would play the “I’ve got a bracelet too” game with John McCain.
Anything, I guess, is fair game to Barack Obama. Whether it be a dead soldier, the mother of a dead soldier, our troops in Iraq or our troops in military hospitals, Obama will use them and abuse them when convenient for him and his campaign. Consider Obama’s citation of Sergeant Ryan David Jopek’s bracelet during the first Presidential debate yet another gaffe. And let us hope Tracy Jopek does not receive further harassment as a result of Barack Obama’s unwillingness to adhere to her very simple wish not to have her son’s death politicized by a career politician.
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