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Larry Lost His Devoted Friend Today UPDATED

he wrote this note to a few friends — i’ve deleted some names just in case:

SUBJECT: Only the good die young. Not true.

Well, Ceasar proved that old saw wrong.  He started his downhill slide couple of weeks ago (we suspect cancer).  There are not too many 12 year old Rottweiler’s running around.  Over the last week he started rapid weight loss and no longer wanted to eat.  Fortunately for me, I was in P—— on business (ok, I admit it, I was a coward).  This left S– and J— with the sad task of carrying Ceasar to the vet for the long sleep.  We think the raw food diet (B.A.R.F.) actually prolonged his life over the last year.  

He was a veritable chow hound until last week.  At least during the last year his flatulence disappeared thanks to the raw food.  I don’t know if he was happier, but it sure made atmospheric conditions in my office better.  We will dearly miss his throaty bark and intimidating greeting at the door.  Patton [the other Rottweiler in the Johnson household] just can’t pull it off, he’s too sweet (except when he is chasing and catching squirrels, but that’s another story).

We have decided that animal euthanasia should not be a holiday tradition.  I snapped the [image above] of the old man a couple of months ago.  I guess he knew he was on the final countdown.

Larry, we are so grateful that you gave Caesar such a loving home and such nourishment and attention. We all know too many stories of dogs who don’t have such good fortune, and it is truly remarkable that he lived so long.

Maybe one of these days, you’ll end up with one of these? Found that photo here.

Reverend Amy found a wonderful group to which we can donate, in Ceasar’s memory:

NoVa Rottweiler Rescue League, Inc.

And, if I may, I’d like to ask people to donate to a shelter near me that is in desperate straits financially because the rural county can’t support it, and they’re overwhelmed with pets because of the terrible employment problems in a rural area dependent on logging and with too many people, especially men, who think that spaying/neutering is wrong, sigh:

Clallam County Humane Society
2105 West Highway 101
Port Angeles, WA 98363
(360) 457-8206

It’s touching that their home page honors our troops. There are so many veterans here, including many who have lived in the forest, alone, since the end of the Vietnam War (!). (There’s a local group of vets who gather donations from merchants, and make sure those lonely men get some needed supplies from time to time, but who leave them be, in peace.)

Larry, to you and your family, our heartfelt condolences. We’re so touched that you did right by Ceasar throughout his exceptionally long life. Bless you for that.

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Here’s a bit of history about Rottweilers:

  It seems likely that the Rottweiler originated in ancient Rome as a drover dog. The ancient Roman Empire used this breed around the turn of the century to drive the cattle necessary to feed their massive armies as they crossed such traitorous terrain as the Alps in order to conquer a great part of Europe.  As the Roman Legions stopped along the way, the Rottweiler took on another task, that of guarding the camps.  The great ability of these dogs to accomplish such drover and guard dog tasks seems obvious due to the success of the Roman Legions they served. …

Read all of the history.

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And here’s a story about a mistreated Rottweiler who finally got rescued:

Angel’s Story

“My name is Angel. I was thrown from a moving truck with my legs tightly bound one night in Cherokee County, Georgia. I was found by the side of the road by some boys who beat me with a 2×4 while I lay helpless. My unconscious body was discovered by a kind person who brought me to the Cherokee Shelter where I awaited my fate. As my kill date rapidly approached I’d watch people pass my cage, my sad hopeless eyes seem to say “Save me, please save me, I promise I’ll be good”. I am a 3 year old female rottweiller, spayed, heartworm negative,vaccinated, housebroken, leash trained, sweet and loving.I am sweet and loving and good with other dogs and cats. I have some health problems which may have been the results of my abuse.”

A Happy Ending

The wonderful people at the Cherokee Animal Shelter have asked me to pass on Angel’s story. Angel’s time was up and they had planned to go ahead and euthanize her, but since she is so sweet and has been through so much, they decided to give her a bit more time. Angel was eventually adopted by my husband and I. We want to thank all the people on the AOL Rotty Board who donated money and gifts to Angel. And a special thanks to Laurie at The Cherokee Animal Shelter and Debra who is Angels foster mom.

Read all about Angel.

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Postscript: It is so good, Larry, that you advocate for the B.A.R.F. diet. Caesar’s longevity and health, until just the last couple weeks, is remarkable!

No dog or cat should ever eat supermarket pet foods — it’s like feeding one’s child nothing but Fruit Loops. The supermarket foods, all of them, are from the worst offal from diseased animals and loaded with cheap carbohydrates. The carbs are especially bad for cats, who should have NONE in their diets — they are obligate carnivores, which means their digestive systems are not designed to utilize any grains or vegetables.

Then there’s that cats, originally desert animals, get almost ALL of their moisture/water FROM FOOD, not bowls of water, which never give them sufficient water. Cats have to have WET food to get sufficient water.

Then we have these greedy pet food companies buying ingredients from god knows where, including China where they have no scruples and cheat by adding stuff like melamine, a plastic-type substance that mimics protein when it’s tested. The only brands I’ll buy are Evo Innova (wet/dry), Orijen (dry), Evanger’s (wet — the best!), and maybe Wellness or Merrick’s. Cats should get wet only but my budget demands I mix in some dry. Orijen and Evo Innova have NO grains in the dry food. Wish I could do B.A.R.F. but the cats won’t eat it.

A really good reason to buy the slightly more expensive, good food is that it saves BIG BUCKS down the road. A wet-food, no-grain diet for cats means that they will not get kidney disease or diabetes and will not get obese. Your vet bills will be MUCH lower.

The main reason we see obese cats is that their body tells them to keep eating because they’re not getting enough nutrients from the lousy supermarket food. So, their human “owners” will actually save money by buying the more expensive food, since it’s a guarantee that they’ll eat less of it because their body will not be craving those missing nutrients!

I’m alerting Uppity Woman about this thread. She is a true EXPERT on pet care. And she devotes so much of her time to rescuing animals. If you have any questions, I know that Uppity can answer them far better than I.

Love to you and yours, Larry.

UPDATE–FROM LARRY, I want to thank everyone for their supportive comments and heartfelt condolences. It is sad to lose an old friend but his time had come. The article above reflects that this blog can accommodate both cat and dog people. I realize there is a minority out there who tolerates both, but most pet lovers normally fall into one of the two groups. Despite different pet preferences we still find some common ground here. So thanks for your kindness.

  • Galt Pizza Parlor

    Sorry to hear about the loss of the nice doggie. Thanks for posting this nasuS.

    • nancy sabet

      Sorry Larry about your loss

  • Bob

    Larry:
    Don’t feel bad. I was a coward when my mother was dying. In my defense it was a new experience. It appears unfortunately or fortunately life is for the living.

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=82qCwLX9piE Woman Voter

      I will think some good thoughts for you beloved dog. Dogs are such loyal friends and companions.

    • Snickers

      Larry,
      I’m so sorry for the loss of your canine friend. My first Norman cat contracted AIDS and I watched him waste away. I took care of him for a year as he got worse. My friend and vet told me I would know when it was time to let him go, and I did. It was one of the hardest experiences I ever had, rivaling watching my best friend (human) die of brain cancer and helping to take care of her. My second Norman died while I was away on a business trip and I was devastatedd again – for years. I now have a Norman III and I adore him. But pets are so special, and the bonds we form with them deep and treasured.

    • Sometime-CIA-Defender

      Sorry for your loss, Lar.

  • Strawberrybitch

    Oh dear God. I was just loving on my mastiff, Wellington, (rescue dog) and realizing how old he was getting, and this popped up…too sad Larry, I’m so sorry. The thought of losing him is like losing a child. I wish I could give you a hug but since I can’t I’m going to give Welly another one as well as his adpoted brother, Balderick.

    • http://noquarterusa.net/ NoQuarter

      That is one BIGGGGGGGGGG dog! Wow. How neat. Wish you could post a photo.

    • Strawberrybitch

      Boy, if I could get the photos scanned into my computer and sent off to you…my favorite ones are of my three boys sleeping on the living room floor with the two dogs…my pack. PS Mastiffs are the perfect dogs for autistic children. The patience of a saint and the size of a Buick.

  • gregoryp

    My condolences to you Larry on the loss of Caesar. It is tough to deal with. I had to euthanize one of my Brittany’s about 2 weeks ago. He had malignant melanoma sarcoma. I don’t know what makes purebred’s susceptible to cancer but it is awful. The only saving grace is that the medicine the vet uses works very quickly and the animal does not suffer. Peace.

  • http://www.plainsradio.com Michele (not the nasty one)

    Oh Larry, my sincerest condolences to you on the loss of Ceasar. My husband and I currently have 3 Rotties and in our 20 years of marriage we have been lucky to share our lives with a total of 11 Rotties, most of whom lived to be 10 – 13 years old.

    Hugs and kisses to Patton and to all in the Johnson family who are grieving.

  • BlueDot in Texas

    Larry,
    I’m sorry for your loss. It’s always sad to lose a loved one. Give Patton an extra hug tonight.

  • Nancy

    So sorry for your loss Larry… We have an 18 year-old dog (almost 19)… and we know that she can’t possibly be with us much longer. She’s still in great shape (bassett-beagle mix)… but we also know that can’t possibly last much longer. We love her SO much and can’t even think about what life without her will be like… our condolences to you and your family..

  • HARP

    Sorry about your loss Larry. I know how you feel.
    I have lost a few myself.

    He ask me no questions
    He tells me no lies
    And when I address him
    Looks straight in my eyes
    Content with a little he never despairs
    But in all of my troubles he willingly shares
    He asks me so little
    He gives me so much
    Then always let sympathy
    Dwell in my touch

    • Pennsylvania Red

      I can’t believe it…for a few months I came to NQ for the haven it provided for those of us who hadn’t smoked the Hopium and now it offers the chance to express condolences to a fellow pet owner who experienced a loss.

      My kitty cat died early Sunday morning, BF and I laid her to rest Wednesday, she had a sunset service. She was 17 and a half years old. It’s so difficult to lose a longtime friend who has been with you through thick and thin. The house just isn’t the same.

      Heartfelt condolences to you Larry.

  • Mandelay

    What a sweet puppy face on Caesar. So sorry for your loss, Larry and family. All good things to you!

  • JustMe

    Oh so sorry on your loss Larry….it is one of the hardest losses to bare….our true loyal friends are the pets we choose. They offer love unconditionally and leave one empty space when they are not there.
    Thoughts with you all…..
    May Ceasar rest in peace~~

  • Patrick Henry

    LC…Sorry to hear about the Loss of your “Buddy”and My Sympathy to you and Your family on your loss of a good “Friend’…
    A Pets Loveand loyalty is Unconditional and we humans can learn so muc from the affection our Pets give us…

    I too have lost a few pets over the years…My cxhildhood dog “Candy” was run over right in front of Me…I had to have my Cat “Sugar” put to sleep as well as my Old Buddy “Rocky” who took morning Walks in the garden with My while I had my First Coffee and we examined the Plants…He sniffing…me looking and talking..and who liked laying all over mY Lap at night to watch TV..

    M Latest Black cat “Shadow” was a Humane society adoption..and a great Friend too..and so good He is leash trained …He has four different beds in his indoor “Sunroom…One very High for tuesdays when the Garbage Truck comes Huffing..Puffing ..Hissing and Crashing down the Alley…which scares Shadow so he gets as High Up with his back to the wall as he can.. and One West Window Pwerch for him to watch sunsets and Cover the patios for Trespassing Critters..

    Its vey Hard to lose such Friends…and I hope there is a place in heaven for them..there is in the heaven I Imagine..anyhow..

    In the meantime..I keep mine alive in the Memory of my Mind..

  • http://uppitywoman08.wordpress.com Uppity Woman

    He was a big handsome fellow wasn’t he? A beautiful example of the wonderful Rottie.

    • susaninbosque

      As usual, I have to agree with Uppity Woman but perhaps more so: I think that the Rottweiler may be the most noble of dogs in so many ways and anything beyond 10 is very old indeed. We have a horse/dog/cat household at the moment with a truly wild cat who adopted us.

      Our thoughts are with you and we thank you for sharing so very much with us and importantly, sharing your loss with us. I suspect you can tell how much your community has come to care about you in the last year or so… You have given so much to us, Larry and we are constantly sharing you with others.

      Be well and know that the Universe always takes fine care of the great at heart. And that certainly includes a handsome Ceasar. There is nothing like a great strong lake of happy black and tan fur lying at your feet, sleeping peacefully. Know he is still there Larry but just beyond your view. It is my belief that I am happy to share but I do believe you can see him if you focus your eyes just a bit beyond the spot where you know he should be. For years after I lost a wonderful strong black cat named Siddhartha friends who stayed with me would get up in the morning asking where the cat was who had slept with them the night before…. I still smile when I think of him but oh, I do miss my Rottie.

  • Peggy Sue

    As a dog person, I’ve been through this myself several times. In fact, I could mark my life into discernible stages by thinking about the dogs I’ve owned over the years. I’ve always said the downside of having puppies is that they age far too quickly, and though euthanasia is the humane way to end an animal’s life, particularly when they’re so sick, it’s never easy.

    With my last dog, I cried everytime I saw the puppy-chow commercial!

    On a brighter note, I own cousins of the Rotties: Bernese Mountain Dogs. But like many of these large breeds, ten years old is a good, long life. My two just turned six.

    I’ll tip a glass of wine to Caeser. Great name, btw. There’s a reason these creatures are known as “man’s best friend.”

  • ranger

    Larry,

    I am so sorry for your loss. It never is easy.

    But, the one thing about our pets that make their companionship a must in our lives is the fact that they give us the purest kind of love ever known on this earth.

    The unconditional love.

    They put up with us no matter what and still love us for who we are.

    With no conditions.

    If you are reading this, and need that unconditional love in your life and have the means to commit to a pet, go out and rescue a homeless pet to honor Larry’s devoted companion Ceasar.

    There are millions of pets who need homes and are just waiting for that special person to rescue them so they can love them as long as they live.

    • Strawberrybitch

      The BEST pets are rescue pets…damn, looks like another trip to the Humane Society is in order. Thanks for the excuse, uh reason.

  • interested party

    The Rottweiler reminded me somewhat of the Greater Swiss Mountain dog. Both are/were work dogs and have similar coloring. I checked into it and yes, that’s the case. I bring this up because I found this link rating dog foods.

    http://www.whisperingpinekennel.com/articles/article_dogfood.html

    If you own a dog owner, you might check this out. Don’t go by popular brands; you end up paying only for the name. The “cheap” Costco brand I buy is highly rated, by their scoring system. My dogs prefer it also.

    • RJ

      I am so sorry for your loss Larry. It is my belief despite what some “religous” people say, that pets have souls and they go to heaven. They must because they are gifts from God.

      Thanks for the link interested party. Glad to know the food I spend good money for rates an A+.

  • Sarracuda

    I am so so sorry for your loss. I love dogs, just remember the good times that you both spent together. God Bless

  • http://pumasunleashed.com Tellurian

    Dear Larry,

    The truism of losing a dog you’ve loved for so many years is like losing a child… is oh so TRUE!

    My Australian Cattle dog passed away last July and we are just starting to heal from the loss. He was our protector, companion and friend for 13 yrs.

    You have my sincere sympathy. Like Caesar, Tequila didn’t suffer very long…3 days. When I got the call the Vet saying he didn’t think he could save him was absolutely shocking… Our Jack Russell, grieved for him for so many months, I thought she might not recover. She did and she is happy now, getting to sleep nestled in the comforter on my bed.

    ((hugs))

    Tell

  • kgirl1028

    I have a black and tanned three year old dachshund named Ceaser, and he thinks he is as big and fierce as Larry’s Rottweilers when he is 12lbs dripping wet. He’s stuborn as hell, but that’s why i like the breed. Yesterday he discovered where we keep the treats and now attempts to steal one when he thinks i’m not looking. Dogs are great, they are the truest, most loyal friends you will ever have. he and his older brother (a seven year old red long hair dachshund) keep me in stiches. Heck i’m already starting to tear up. IF only people were like that.

  • Tricia Spiegel

    So sorry–Dogs are such a gift to us humans.

  • Shtuey Shtuey

    Larry, I’m so sorry for your loss. As the companion of two German Shepherd mixes I can sympathize. Our animals are devoted members of the family who give us so much more than we could possibly give back.

    My dogs both came from the local shelter. One needed to be nursed and trained through acute separation anxiety. The other spent the first year of her life with a family that abused and neglected her. In our home she has blossomed into a loving and devoted companion who is curled up next to me as I write this. The darkest places in hell should be devoted to those who abuse animals.

    When it comes to diet the brands mentioned in the post are all great. The dogs get The Honest Kitchen’s grain and gluten free formulas mixed with a variety of Evanger’s, Ziwi Peak, and Merrick 100% meat canned foods.

    The cats get either California Natural (made by Innova and great for animals with food sensitivities) Herring and sweet potato or Prairie Lamb and Rice dry food. For wet food they get Evo or California Natural.

    All are thriving.

    • http://noquarterusa.net/ NoQuarter

      I kind of went nuts over that Chinese pet food scare and scandal. I posted about it at some blogs, and got great advice from people who knew a lot more than I.

      I discovered Evanger’s wet foods — which are sold via Amazon — because I found out that both Evo Innova and Orijen buy their meat from the same source. It’s all American or Canadian grown meat, carefully supervised in humane conditions. The Evanger’s plant is in Minnesota or Michigan, i forget which. They also can the Innova wet food there.

      My cats go bonkers for the Evanger’s chicken.

      They also like the Merrick’s Turducken — Merrick’s is all made in Texas — but they do mix in vegetables. But, around this small rural area, Merrick’s is often the only wet food i can get.

      When I can, i order cases of Evanger’s wet from Amazon. It’s MUCH cheaper that way — at least 30+ cents cheaper per can.

      Orijen is made on Vancouver Island, from meat grown on that island. A friend has personally toured the facilities and plant, and swears that it’s of the highest standards. Orijen also makes a dry dog food that dogs love.

      Any Innova product is 100% safe and the cats love it — both the dry and wet.

      I avoid ALL fish-based wet or dry foods since about 90% of ALL fish, these days, for both humans and pets, come from the Far East, where the water pollution is so disgusting and the fish, raised in terribly over-crowded tanks of putrid water, are given massive amounts of antibiotics to keep them alive because of the terrible diseases they all get. Really disgusting.

      It’s too bad since the cats like fishy food, but tough toenail, kitties! You’re not getting that poison in your precious systems.

      If someone sent me a salmon provably caught in alaska, yeah, i’d eat some myself and share it with the cats. But that’s about it.

      • wodiej

        thank you for the tips. I have been feeding my doggies Nutro and just found out there are problems w that too! Hell, I don’t even know what treats to give them, they’re all made in China!!

        • JustMe

          Yes we lost our Westie “Ben” with the food scare it was heartbraking~~ We now feed our Cocker Rice chicken and a suppliment and home baked treats… The pain of taking your four legged friend to go off to Animal kingdom is too much to bare…. The strangest part is you still hear them for a while even though you know their not there.
          We had a cat who would scratch the window to get in and many times I would get up to open the door to let her in.

        • JIB

          http://www.makedogtreats.com/homemade-dog-treats/

          I cook, and bake a lot, always coming across recipes for homemade dog treats.

          Not sure if they’re any good, though…

          And my sympathy to Larry, and anyone else who has lost a pet…

  • KathyNeocon

    I’m so sorry Larry for your loss. I’ve lost pets too and I know how heartbreaking it is. After a period of time to grieve the best thing to do is go to the shelter and adoption a new one. I have two shelter kitties now and they bring nothing but joy and love to my life, and they’re so grateful for a second chance. The Angel story is so touching–thanks for sharing that. She really is an angel. Anybody that hurts or abuses an animal should be put to death.

    • KathyNeocon

      And my kitties are fed ProPlan for indoor cats dry food with weekly canned food for good measure.

  • CamdenRave

    Hey Ceasar, Karma is a bitch.

    (I am allowed to quote Larry Johnson, aren’t I?)

    • KathyNeocon

      Hey Ceasar, Karma is a bitch.

      (I am allowed to quote Larry Johnson, aren’t I?

      Yes Karma is a bitch, and it’s headed your way. Think of when it bites you on the ass.

      • KathyNeocon

        That’s think of me. Sweet dreams.

    • WildChild

      Larry gave a reason karma is a bitch. LOL you look foolish being a parrot on what is an obvious dog thread.

    • http://www.wewillnotbesilenced2008.com OBAMA IS A FRAUD

      CamdenRave…Is there someone really so F**KED up and sick that they would say something like that on a thread about someone losing a family pet? Wow. Just…well…WOW.

    • wodiej

      you are yet another example of the sickness that runs through the veins of Obama supporters.

    • stodgie

      camden, you are an asx!

  • sandi78

    I’m so sorry for you loss, Larry. I’ve been there and it’s not much fun. 12 is a good age for Rottweilers, you did a good job.

    We now have a Maltese, four and a half pounds dripping wet!

  • samb

    I LIKE DOGS , USUALLY THERE MUCH NICER THEN MOST PEOPLE, SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS LARRY.

  • http://deleted Buzz Latte

    It is so difficult to lose a member of the family. It is also hard to see them suffer. Remember the good times always.

    So sorry for your loss, Larry.

  • athy

    Larry-

    My deepest sympathy to you and your family for your loss.

    May you find comfort in the knowledge that your memories of Ceasar will allow his love for you to live on in your hearts forever-just as I am sure your love for him lived on in his heart to the end…

  • http://insightanalytical.wordpress.com InsightAnalytical-GRL

    Oh, Damn! I’m so sorry to hear about your darling’s passing!

    I’ve written about my “miracle” dog Slicker and have a post going up within the next couple of days about the beauty of dogs juxtaposed against the horrible cruelty that abounds today.

    It’s a subject that is always on my mind.

    Again, Larry, my heartfelt condolences…from me and Toro, Tico, and Slicker.

    Godspeed, Caesar…

    • http://noquarterusa.net/ NoQuarter

      Share your post with us … send it to me at susanunpc at gmail dot com

  • http://insightanalytical.wordpress.com InsightAnalytical-GRL

    PS–My three get some California Natural Chicken or Lamb low-fat kibble, but along with it HONEST KITCHEN..veggies and other good things, plus I cook them lean ground turkey…They are doing great!!

  • AF catfish

    What a pooch, what a love! RIP Ceasar :)

  • Beal

    My shelter-adopted Springer-mix died at age 14 just 4 yr ago. He had problems with fatty tumors for years. Had some removed, but the one on his neck was not an operable site. He was good until the last couple weeks of his life when the tumor started putting pressure on his spinal cord and he started having some problems moving his neck, hips, etc. Being a nurse, I gave him IV fluids and various shots for comfort the last week. Then the day came when he became paralyzed in his back legs and lost bladder control, so I had no choice but to euthanize him.

    The picture of Caesar reminded me of Sidney – those big brown eyes that seem to communicate with humans way better than humans communicate with each other. Sid couldn’t wag his tail after he became paralyzed, but he was smiling at me with his big brown eyes as I held him while he got his sleeping med. I think that losing him was the most painful experience I’ve ever had.

    My 16 yr old shelter adopted cat died 1 1/2 yr ago of old age kidney failure. I nursed her along at home with IV fluids and meds and she died here with me stroking her. That was the 2nd most painful experience I’ve ever had.

    Losing those animals was more painful than losing my parents. Mom and Dad were both well into their 80′s when they died and somehow there was a great deal of comfort in knowing they were no longer suffering and that they were prepared for their life on earth to be over. There is a connection that animal lovers have with their pets that is indescribable. Their unconditional dedication for pleasing us, their relentless desire (demand)for and satisfaction at getting our attention, and their reliance on us for their physical and emotional needs is a mix that can bring out the sap in the strongest of us! I blame my “sappiness” on my dad. He’s the only person I’ve ever known who could be sappier than me.

    There are no standards or regulations for pet food, so there’s no way of knowing for sure what’s in any of the commercial food. (Veterinary drug regs aren’t much better. They just use drugs developed for humans. They don’t put them through safety and dosage testing for animals before they are put on the market because of the cost of testing.) My vet said that he “hoped” the manufacturers of the food sold only through vets was a little more reliable/ethical in what they actually put in it. The supermarket stuff is all made in the same factories – they just slap different labels on them.

    I’ve never heard of the brands you mentioned. Just in case I ever get up the nerve to adopt another dog, I’d love to know more about those foods – where do you get them? Also, I’ve never heard of the B.A.R.F. diet, even with all the researching I had done over the years to figure out how to get Sid’s breath sweeter. Where can I get some info on it?

    I hope the Johnson’s get through this period without too much difficulty. If Caesar and Patton were buddies, I wonder how Patton is dealing with it. He may experience some anxiety and depression and may need some extra attention while he adjusts to Caesar being gone.

    • AF catfish

      My dad and grandmother were very close; when she died at 84 he was very stoic planning the funeral and handling her apartment and belongings.

      About a month later our cat died at 19, and he was a blubbering fool – he couldn’t bring her to the vet to be euthanized unless my mom went with them.

      I believed it was connected (to my grandmother dying) but your post makes me wonder …

  • http://www.wewillnotbesilenced2008.com OBAMA IS A FRAUD

    Larry,

    I feel sick for you hearing this. My mother has picked out the mental institution she will commit me to when mine pass. My two little girls, Lulu and Phoebe, were in the trash can at 8 weeks old. My big boy, Spenser, was abused, beaten, abandoned and I found him at a shelter. For 13 years I have slept with them every night I am in town. Any man who doesn’t like it can have the couch. This is my family and I shudder to think what it will feel like to lose one of my babies. When I think about it too much, I sometimes wish I would have never gotten them in the first place. The pain will be unbearable, I know it. But, of course the constant love and joy they have given me is something I will never, ever take for granted. They are better people than we are. And I’m a better person for loving them.

    I am soooo sorry, again, for the loss of your gorgeous baby. Ughhh…I’m such a mush-ball. Looking at the picture made me cry.

    • Galt Pizza Parlor

      When love ones pass the love we have for them never leaves us. And our love for them they take with them.

    • KathyNeocon

      When I think about it too much, I sometimes wish I would have never gotten them in the first place. The pain will be unbearable, I know it.

      • KathyNeocon

        (oops-accidentally hit the add comment button)

        Don’t ever regret getting your pets. The loss is horrible and painful, but not unbearable. You will bear it, and the best thing to do when it happens is, after a short period of time, go get another one. They’re all wonderful and special have their own personalities, but just like the ones you’ve lost the new ones come in with their little personalities and charm and steal your heart all over again. I know, I’ve been there. The worst thing to do is give in to the grief to the point where you forego pets altogether.

        • http://www.wewillnotbesilenced2008.com OBAMA IS A FRAUD

          Hey Kathy!

          I will ALWAYS have dogs. Always. If I could have 100 I would. In fact, that’s my goal when I semi-retire…get a huge ranch in Malibu and have a rescue foundation. I have had 5 at a time, but you know in LA we’re not supposed to without Kennel Licenses.

          I of course will get more when mine pass. But someone once said “if you find that perfect dog that’s everything you want once in your life you are lucky.” I love all three of mine, but my little girl Lulu is my soul sister and I will never find any dog again with her personality. Of course everyone thinks that their dogs are the most special in the world. Lulu is just like a baby angel. Sigh. Anyway, yes, I will replace them all with puppies but these three are a really hard act to follow. :mrgreen:

        • Galt Pizza Parlor

          Kathy I think this axiom expresses your sentiment well: “Better to have loved and lost, than to have never loved at all.”

    • wodiej

      It’s heartbreaking to lose them but that is from the great joy of loving them.

  • no vote for oblabla

    Godspeed Ceasar and wait diligently at the bridge for the day you’re reunited once again with your master.

    I also lost my most beloved fur baby recently, I had to make the painful decision to release him from this earth through euthanasia. It truly has been the hardest decision I’ve ever had to make in my life and I’m 53 years old. He would have been 18 this coming January 14th, my little Lhasa Apso. Teddy, I hope you see Ceasar as he gets to the bridge and help welcome him in.

    Tears…(((hugs Larry)))

  • TeakWoodKite

    I extend our deepest condolences on the loss of a family member, Mr.Johnson.

    If I understand it Ceaser lived a long life. Not an easy feat for a dog.

    Canis spiritus lumen.

  • Illinois_gal

    Larry, I understand your heartbreak. I had a Rottweiler/Boxer mix. He died of cancer when he was 11 years old. I lost my best friend.

    I pray that God will help ease your pain.

  • Lyn

    Larry, I am so sorry for you and your family’s loss. What a beautiful dog Ceasar was. There is nothing like the unconditional love our dogs give us. I hope Patton gets a new Brother or sis soon. We have a 14 YO Golden retriever Comet so I can imagine how you’ve been feeling, and I don’t blame you for not being home. I also have a big beautiful mutt Zero who loves Comet, so this summer we got another Puppy from the pound so Zero won’t ever be the only dog. I’m not sure what the new pup is, but I think part Jersey Devil,:)
    I’m glad Ceasar got to spend his life with a family that loved him.

  • Prem

    My deepest sympathy and condolences to you and your family, Larry, on the loss of a loyal devoted family member, Caesar. It is tough to lose a sweet pet, but it sounds like he was blessed to have you and your family to take care of him, and you and your family were blessed to have him as part of your family.

    Take time to grieve and then when you’re ready, you may want to get another dog. They are sources of such great joy.

  • kbdabear

    An anonymous psalm for pet bereavement

    Just this side of heaven is a place called Rainbow Bridge

    When an animal dies that has been especially close to someone here, that pet goes to Rainbow Bridge. There are meadows and hills for all of our special friends so they can run and play together. There is plenty of food and water and sunshine, and our friends are warm and comfortable. All the animals who had been ill and old are restored to health and vigor; those who were hurt or maimed are made whole and strong again, just as we remember them in our dreams of days and times gone by.

    The animals are happy and content, except for one small thing: they miss someone very special to them; who had to be left behind. They all run and play together, but the day comes when one suddenly stops and looks into the distance. The bright eyes are intent; the eager body quivers. Suddenly he begins to break away from the group, flying over the green grass, his legs carrying him faster and faster. YOU have been spotted, and when you and your special friend finally meet, you cling together in joyous reunion, never to be parted again. The happy kisses rain upon your face; your hands again caress the beloved head, and you look once more into the trusting eyes of your pet, so long gone from your life but never absent from your heart.

  • kbdabear

    If you need someone to talk to about your dog’s loss, this is a wonderful site with very understanding chat monitors on their chat board. They were great in helping me cope with the grief of losing my two cats to cancer a few months ago.

    http://www.aplb.org/

  • Dora Ratquila

    I share your grief, Larry! I think the innate goodness, lovable mischievousness (devoid of malice and intent to do harm) and tried-and-tested faithfulness of canines more than make up for so many of these deeply-flawed and plain screwed-up, so-called creatures-made in God’s likeness: Bob Novak, Chris Matthews, Christopher Hitchens, Keith Olbermann, the Mumbai butchers and the opium-cultivating Taliban to name a few. Without the constant love of my furry four-legged friends, I would have committed seppuku a long time ago. Caesar’s in dog heaven now but I know that he’s still watching over you.

  • Patrick Powell

    I am sorry to hear about Ceasar.

  • justsomeone

    Larry, I’m really sorry for your loss. I could tell by the photo Ceasar really had a lot of heart. Take care.

  • NoBamaNoWay

    A lot of us know what you’re going through, Larry. pets are some of the best friends people will ever have. Just think about the good times and know that you gave him a long, happy life.

  • http://ezinearticles.com/?Three-Basic-Parenting-Styles&id=744499 Northwest rain

    A year ago my beloved doggie crossed the rainbow bridge — and I still miss her. Our cats were so sad — they were depressed — no god/dog to keep them entertained.

    I’m typing this with our newest furkid — and the cats feel that our family is balanced again. The old cat (almost 18) just stands his ground and the dog waits until Senior cat moves. Younger cat loves to take walks with the dog.

    Each of our furkids has been a special and unique personality and when they’re gone they leave a big hole in our heart.

    Size doesn’t matter — even the small ones have a huge heart and are fiercely loyal. (Sometimes the little ones are more macho than the big ones. So there Obama you sexist bum — you don’t know dogs either.)

    • wodiej

      I’ve always had little dogs and they are very feisty!

  • wodiej

    Larry, my thoughts go out to you. Any dog lover knows how heartbreaking it is to lose a pet. I have rescued my share of dogs and lost them as well. My last one, Andre, was extra special to me. I will always miss him. I still have my Shih Tzu Noah who is still pretty young. He needed a playmate so I found a little Yorkie at a rescue over the summer.

    I support our local SPCA. One thing people can do to help the one in Washington is to ask friends and family to make donations to them instead of buying each other Christmas gifts. Most of us get things we don’t need and can do without anyway. These poor little souls just need some food and shelter. Another thing the Washington shelter can do is talk to a local radio station to get the news out of their situation. We had a shelter near our town that did that. The donations flooded in. They are going to have to get help outside of their area since so many are out of work. Just some ideas.

  • Astra14

    Larry, I’m sorry to hear about your loss. I lost a cat to cancer and it happened very quickly. It’s very hard to lose any member of the family, human or pet. Hang in there and remember you are not alone.

  • Katmoon

    Larry,

    I am so sorry; I know how it hurts to lose our four-legged family members. Prayers to you and your family.

    Buster, our old siamese is traveling that road right now, hanging on, and still going, he is going to be 17, and we have 11 more cats and 3 dogs to go, we did a great deal of rescue over the last ten years, and have been at our limit(what we can afford in vet bills, etc.). We happened upon 6 babies once, left on the side of the road to die, their eyes weren’t even open yet, we bottle fed them and with a good vet and a lot of love they made their way back, over 10 years ago. Our friends call them”battle cats”, or “war kittens”, as they are huge. Bon-Bon, was left in the desert, abandoned; she tried to jump on an active grill one summer at our friends, to get the meat, moose-man is a divorced cat, molly an alcoholic abandoned kitty and spank-mandu, and samatha, are from the humane society.
    Buster and his sister “Semi” (she is semi-precious…family joke) are the grand dame and King. We also have 3 dogs, 2 rescued-Lucinda Doginda (she tells us she has traveled the world) and Sophie our most recent, find, was left here last winter in 16 degree weather, along with the house we purchased. and the old matriarch, Bella Wella (Walla-Walla). We love them so.

    • LesleeE

      Hey Katmoon,
      we had two siamese brothers, one passed away at 14 of leukemia, the other lived to almost 20. They were our first (of many) cats and simply wonderful. Good luck to dear Buster.

      • Katmoon

        Thanks, he is thin, but the vet thinks his best quality at this point is to be with his sister and family, makes my heart ache. All the cats take turns grooming him and sleeping with him.

  • kat in your hat

    I’m sorry about Ceasar, Larry. :(

    I lost a cat to cancer, and it was pretty rough. I’m glad she is no longer in pain…

    Maybe we will all meet our pets again one day, who knows.

    Sorry again, and take care.

  • Dee

    I’m so sorry for your loss. Sending hugs and prayers your way to you and your family.

  • JP

    My condolences to your loss, Larry. As an owner of two dogs I feel your loss. I wish all the best to you and your family during this time.

  • gazzerro@hotmail.com

    Sorry for your lose, I have six dogs and two cats, I have lost many animal’s over the years and it is very hard, I hope you have fond memories of Caesar, I always think of how they made me laugh and the joy they brought to my life in such a short span of time, that they were on this earth. God Bless you Larry and all of the creatures on Earth.

  • LD

    LJ,

    I recall the pain of “losing” my dog/best friend as a youth. I relived that pain a few years ago when I held our beloved golden, Maxie, as we put her down. These are not pets but truly are members of the family.

    Our thoughts are with you and your family.

    LD and family.

  • somerset

    Caesar looks like a really really good dog. I am so sorry for your loss. We had four German Shepherds (American show lines) but recently lost our old guy. It is so hard. We feed cooked human food (such as NZ lamb) diced over Royal Canin Potato and Duck kibble, with gravy, three times a day. We always have some plumrose ham in the bowls as well. GSDs are prone to bloat, so we feed often and well and so far so good. I worry about E. coli with raw, as one of my bitches has a compromised immune system.
    My thoughts are with you at this difficult time. I hope a wonderful new pal finds you when you are ready.

  • LesleeE

    What a lovely boy Caesar was, and how wonderful that he got to share his life with you and your family.
    I’m afraid our old dog will be leaving us soon too, she is a shepherd mix and the way she jumped and bounced around when she was young we would laugh and say part kangaroo, now she is having a lot of difficulty getting about and although on Prevacox for the pain and discomfort is declining. I’m dreading that last ride to the vet.
    Hugs to you all.

  • SonicNinjaKitty

    Sincere condolences. The loss of a dog leaves such an enormous hole in your heart. I have a Vizsla and know how the love a dog gives you is the purest kind you will ever experience. Just remember he’s in a wonderful place now with no pain.

  • getfitnow

    So sorry to hear of your loss, Larry. I said good-bye to my beloved Kiro over 3 years ago, and, still, at times, like now, I feel a wave of sadness. But as time has passed, I feel many, many more waves of fond, fanastic, joyous moments my little “co-pilot” and I shared. I bought him when he was 6 weeks, and had the gift of his presence in my life until he was 18 1/2. You’ll soon feel the blessing that Ceasar was a part of your life.

  • bemused

    My condolences. There’s a little pet cemetery in my big back yard–one of the most frustrated days of my life was having to cremate my Great Dane because I just couldn’t dig that big a hole. I rescued him from an abusive neighbor and he was my shadow for the rest of his life. Sadly, the big ones don’t last that long.

  • Judy L. NC

    My deepest sympathy, Larry. I’ve lost a couple myself and know how bad it hurts. I’ve cried more for my pets than my human family.

  • Ellen Tenn

    I’m so sorry for your loss. He sounded like a great friend

  • hootnannie

    When I saw the headline of “devoted friend” I marveled at how wonderful a human would have to be to deserve that title. When I scrolled to the photo of Caesar, I understood completely.
    I have had many canine (and feline) devoted friends. And for anyone who could mistreat them: I hope there IS a hell (though I personally believe in annihilation).
    I believe my dog Hildy loves me more than any human I know. She is truly one of God’s noblest creatures. Thank you, God, for putting these wonderful beings on this vale of tears with us.

  • Lorie N

    Larry I am so sorry for your loss. We have 2 Jack Russells who are like our children. One is comming up on 14 and he is a great friend. He has been with me through a lot of tough times and I hope he is here for a few more good ones.

  • bert

    My sincerest sympathy for your loss, Larry.

    Euthanasia is at the same time both the hardest and easiest decision a pet owner must make.

    I still miss my parakeet, Sparky; I had him for 13 years. He had more personality than some people I know. I still have a picture of him on my computer desk and am looking at it as I type this. He was so affectionate.

  • Margaret

    Larry I am so sorry for your loss. I have found losing a pet is sometimes harder than losing a person, just because they are always with you and are so incredibly loving.

    As for pet food, I feed my cats Wellness, wet and dry. I buy it online or at specialty pet stores. It’s expensive, but, they’re my babies!

  • http://moderateinthemiddle.wordpress.com/ ginaswo

    May I post another couple of WONDERFUL links for animal lovers looking to help?

    Our dear friend, who passed away form breast cancer this year, helped run a foundation to rescue and train animals, in honor of Amy Loukota, Db analyst extraordinaire and a wonderful human being, so nice you would suspect she was a furry friend in her last turn on the wheel of life:

    GUIDE DOGS OF THE DESERT
    http://www.guidedogsofthedesert.org/
    Our Mission: Guide Dogs of the Desert improves the lives of the blind by creating opportunities for life-changing independence, and by conducting community and outreach programs.

    Guide Dogs of the Desert provides safe mobility, loving companionship and the “miracle of independence” to the blind through the use of a guide dog.

    “Walking with a friend in the dark
    is better than walking alone in the light.”
    – Helen Keller

    Also an organization that flew to help after Katrina and took in the Vick dogs as well:
    http://www.bestfriends.org/
    The Best Friends Animal Sanctuary at Angel Canyon, at the heart of the Golden Circle of national parks in southern Utah, is home on any given day to about 2,000 dogs, cats, and other animals, who come from shelters and rescue groups around the country for special care they can only receive at Best Friends.

    Most of the animals who find their way to Best Friends have special physical or behavioral needs, and our expert staff of veterinarians, trainers and caregivers offer them all the help they require. Most of them are ready to go to good new homes after just a few weeks of special care. A few, who are too old or too sick, or who have suffered extra trauma, find a home and haven at the sanctuary, and are given loving care for the rest of their lives.

    • http://rabblerouserruminations.blogspot.com Rabble Rouser Reverend Amy

      Thank you for sharing those two sites…

      And to everyone else here, I am moved by your kindness and the stories of your pets/family. I told Larry after learning of his loss that I can appreciate it – we lost both of our greyhounds and our oldest cat all within one year. One greyhound was expected – he was a 90 lb 13 yr old dog who spent 5 years on the track before mandatory retirement. The girl was a surprise (brain cancer). We still miss those wonderful dogs (though they are more high maintenance than they are billed to be – just sayin’), and our old cat, who also died of cancer (we lost her brother several years ago to renal failure). Thank heavens we have our other 3 dogs, 2 cats, and 2 kittens, but we still miss the others…

      Larry, Ceasar was lucky to have found you, and vice versa. What a gorgeous dog. What a gorgeous breed. I had to stop looking at the NoVa site before I ended up with one of the rescues…

      My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family…

  • Diana L. C.

    I have read that when a human who has loved an animal (or many animals0 dies, he too will cross the rainbow bridge, and all those dear friends will come running to greet him/her. It is an image I keep in my heart everytime I lose such a friend.

    I am so sorry for your loss.

    • Galt

      Diana I witnessed someone go through something similar. I find this belief plausible based on my observations.

  • (trying to get over it)

    I still carry the pain of losing my family’s German Shepherd; he was 12, i was 14. Back in 1979…

    In 2000, my husband and I lost our baby daughter (our second child), 6 months old, from a heart defect.

    We survived, and now have a 6 year old son, 12 year old daughter, and a 14 year old cat.

    What keeps us happy & sane? Best summarized by a quote from William Blake: “He who kisses joy as it flies by lives in eternity’s sunrise.” I try to live life that way, truly. My cat is curled up on my lap purring, right now.

    p.s. Two weeks after our baby died in 2000, Clinton came to Ithaca, NY, stumping for the Senate. I stood in the freezing drizzle, weeping, holding my 4 year old’s hand, listening to this beautiful, strong woman; she was a survivor; I felt the first flicker of strength inside me.

    • JIB

      I’m very sorry for your loss.

    • Lyn

      Trying, I am sorry for your loss. Have you heard of the CHD quilt project? They make Blocks for anyone born with CHD and travel around the country.
      http://chdquilt.org/

    • http://rabblerouserruminations.blogspot.com Rabble Rouser Reverend Amy

      Trying, thank you for sharing this painful story, while demonstrating the resilience of the human spirit. Very moving…

  • TexasMirth

    To the Johnson family: I’m sorry for the loss of your dear canine friend. Caesar was a beautiful dog! This is a very touching thread with so many wonderful and moving stories about individual dogs and cats.
    The NQ community is indeed a caring bunch. I read each of the pet stories posted and appreciated them all. Caesar’s passing has prompted these touching tributes to our four-legged family members, proving that when they leave our lives, they do not leave our hearts.

  • Sassy

    Larry, my sincere sympathy, and you have risen in my esteem for loving a beautiful animal.
    We had a basset named Dinah for many years, and my daughter had Whitley the basset once she married and had a home.
    Sadly, Whitley developed leukemia at the age of two, unusual for such a young pet, and despite vigorous treatment, she died.
    After a period of ten years, and for the benefit of the two girls, they now have Sophie from a rescue team.
    It’s time consuming and expensive to own animals, but it is a blessing for those who do.
    Thank you!

  • Idiocracy08

    I’m so sorry for your loss Larry. It’s hard losing your best friend who always gives you unconditional love – no questions asked. My thoughts are with you.

  • I’m a Linda too

    ohhh, I’m so sorry for your loss. Hopefully you’ll find some comfort in knowing you have him such a great home and life with you and your family.

    My mother always complained about having pets and a dog, but she really did love and care for him and he knew, Kojak, deep down inside. When he knew he was passing, he went in to my Mom’s room and laid down next to her bed and died. (I’m balling my eyes out just thinking about it) He gave us all such joy for so many years.

    You gave him such peace and love and he knew that.

  • oowawa

    Every year, putting up the Christmas tree is a big deal for me. The things of heaven, the angels, go towards the top of the tree, and the things of earth, the snowmen, the forest animals, go towards the bottom of the tree. There are ornaments representing my children and grandchildren, and I hang each of these with loving thoughts. There are also ornaments representing the various beloved animals who have passed on, and I always place these with tears in my eyes. And when the tree is done, it stands as a beautiful monument uniting heaven and earth, with all of my dear family, humans and animals, happily together forever in its branches.

  • AnnieO

    Larry & Family,

    My heartfelt sympathy for your loss. Inasmuch as Cesaer was a loyal friend to you, you were a loyal friend to him. You gave him a full life full of love and care with minimal suffering. He could not ask for more. He was a very lucky dog.

  • NomNomNom

    I’m very sorry to hear of your sad loss. Please take comfort that your doggie Caesar had a loving home for his long life. I hope that in time you decide to have another pet, or more than one, as you are obviously a great caretaker!
    I tame feral cats and find homes for them, 17th year now. It’s just unbelievable how awful people can be.
    Speaking for those poorer owners & rescuers who cannot afford the brands listed above, the most important part of purchasing food is to buy food made in the US of US ingredients. Some of the high end brands were guilty of using China to Canada melamine laced petfood. Even supermarket brands have some canned foods with less byproducts & non-meat ingredients: read each label, and buy the best one can afford. The most important fator in the quality of life and length of life of your pet is how much you love them. They will hang in there for you as long as they can.
    I take care of ~30 cats at a time and have 12 pet cats: I spend more than a 1/3 of my income on catfood alone, before any veterinary care. I could not possibly buy the brands listed above. My oldest feral kitty, the original kitty I tamed, will turn 17 in January. I feed her regular cost wet catfood and dry catfood at every meal, with as much high quality dry food as I can afford and of course any day I eat meat, she gets some of that as well. She also gets bottled spring water because she not drink tap water, lol.

    • LesleeE

      Bless you and everyone on this thread who work so hard to bring comfort to the lives of unwanted animals.

  • Tess

    We just put our beloved Rosie to sleep. The most comforting thing we found in print was an obituary for James Herriot (“All Things Bright and Beautiful”) that was written by Mary Ann Grossman, for Knight-Ridder/Tribune. It ends with “a childish vision of heaven where there are endless fields and woods in which to run, and St. Francis sits beneath a tree surrounded by every animal who ever lived. Who could doubt that James Herrioy is sitting with them?”
    …so sorry.

  • workingclass artist

    What a handsome and noble companion. I have an eleven year old Golden Retriever named Harry who is a steady and faithful companion helping me through adjusting to my daughter moving far away to attend College. Companions soothe the soul whether they be Human or Animal they are a gift in life to be commemorated with Joy and Respect. I offer my deep sympathy to you and your family Larry for the loss of your companion.
    Ave Atque Vale Caesar! Salutamus
    Hail and Farewell Caesar! We salute you

  • http://change.gov Jeff

    Karma is a bitch!

    • AnnieO

      How could you say something so cruel and feel good about yourself? That’s a very sad commentary on yourself.

    • http://www.wewillnotbesilenced2008.com OBAMA IS A FRAUD

      Jeff, Karma IS a bitch. Which means a freak like you is about to have something horrible happen. Too bad. What a shame for a nice guy like you to drop dead.

    • Cat in NJ

      Jeff, you must a lonely and bitter freak. Life goes by too quickly. You should start experiencing it. Or have even the O-lovin’ groups rejected you? You clearly have no place to go.

      What happened to Larry’s dog is not karma. It’s an inevitable part of life as a pet owner/pet parent. It hurts like hell to lose them. But every day they’re a part of your life is a wonderful thing. It really is. But Jeff will never know. Pathetic Jeff.

    • stodgie

      yeah, jeff and karma doesn’t sorry fools like you. she is waiting downstairs with some bad news.

  • melisa

    I am so sorry. We have had the same luck with our pets, they live incredibly long, and then you have to make the decision. Our cat was 20, our pup was 14. It just makes it harder.

  • sjc-tx

    Dogs love us unconditionally and honestly. Sorry for your loss.

  • Seattle Moss

    Jeff,
    You have no class and are insensitive to the grief people feel when they lose a loved one. I’m sure you’re one of those types that love to see animals abused as it makes you feel high and mighty about your pathetic little life. by your statement you might even be one of those sexist pigs that abuse women..

    Go bug off!!

  • wonkandknow

    Larry,

    It’s always hard to lose a dear friend. Ceasar was loved and lived a good life.

  • http://vbonnaire.wordpress.com vbonnaire

    Oh, Larry. I’m so sorry to hear you lost a “best friend” I have many times, both cat and dog. You will have the memories, forever.

    Every gesture, every quirk.

    Hugs. Until the two of you meet again.

    I know my best pal Buff is barking just like he always did, and Blue (now with diabetes and 12) is by my side.

    Dogs are “first friend” and family as well

  • AnnieO

    Uppity, one of my pets is a 15 year old cat with hyperthyroidism. She can’t take the meds because it makes her sick. She eats constantly and still loses weight. I know she is dying, but do you have any suggestions for keeping up her strength and maybe filling her belly a little longer? In other words, what should I be feeding her? Would table scraps be best?

    • Amalia

      annie: 15 is still ok for a cat, but you should work with the vets on the meds thing. there are foods that are more fattening for cats, and your
      vet can help with that too, kinda like Ensure for the elderly. table scraps can be problematic, although when a pet is at the very end comfort rules all. hyperthyroidism can be managed. good luck!

      • AnnieO

        Amalia, thank you very much. We tried the chewy meds and liquid meds, but both made her sick. The dr. said that a very small percentage of cats can’t tolerate the meds, and my cat happens to be in that category. She probably has about 6 mos. left. She weighs, at most, about 5 lbs now. I just want her to be happy and as strong as possible up to the end. The vet didn’t mention any particular food. Do you know the names of any of these fattening foods?

        • WildChild

          kitten food.

          • AnnieO

            Any particular brand/kind? Do they make soft kitten food? I only remember the dry stuff.

            • WildChild

              I have a fifteen year old cat that one day decided to stop eating and lose a lot of weight and make me think she was going to die. She was scrawny to begin with and she became bones in about a week. Luckily I had a kitten at the same time and looked at her food and noticed the his fat content. Since fat is such a dense calorie food I started giving my oldest cat the kitten food hoping to max out the number of calories she was getting in the few mouth fulls of food she was ingesting every day. She not only ate it, she snarfed it down like she never ate before. She gained all her weight back and looks great. And I’m still feeding her kitten food though I occasionally switch off for a day or so and give her some of the weight control food I give to my middle cat.

              We feed all our cats vet food. Our current vet has purina pro plan. Our last vet had science diet.

              • AnnieO

                Thanks! I’ll definitely give that a try!

                • WildChild

                  I hope it works for you.

                  • AnnieO

                    I went to the store and got the kitten food. While there, I looked at the fat content of what I was feeding her and noticed that the fat content was very low. I found other soft cat food with much higher fat content. She now has the soft and the kitten food. I’ll also try Stodgie’s idea of baby food. She’ll have quite the buffet!

    • stodgie

      annie, they will typically eat baby food. i get gerbers meat food for them when needed.

      • AnnieO

        Great idea! I’ll try that, too.

  • Athena the Warrior

    Larry I’m so sorry for your loss. There is no love like that of a furry friend who loves you no matter what. Always keep in your heart that Caesar chose you to give his love to.

  • Amalia

    so sorry to hear of your loss. Rotts are truly timeless, reminders of guardians of heroes of the past. you took such good care and thanks for that lesson.

    also thanks for the cat perspective. they must have wet food. we’re partial to Instinct/Nature’s Variety. the good stuff is rarely available from the large pet food store chains. which is good for two things….1)support small, local businesses and 2) the big stores rarely pay attention to temperature for storage…too high or low temps can affect the food in the can. kitties really are wild animals who decide they love a blanket but the care is dicey.

    rest in peace, Ceasar, and rest easy Larry, our hero.

  • basil

    I’m so sorry, Larry.

    I had to put my 15 year-old Bichon down last year when she developed a horrible eye infection.

    It was the hardest thing I’ve ever done in my life. I held her as the vet injected her and she was gone in seconds.

    She’s buried under the apple tree with her hubby.

    :cry:

  • JiffyJML

    Larry, I am so sorry to hear about the loss of Ceasar. I have just lit a candle in memorial to your great and devoted friend. I try to do this every time I hear that someone’s pet has passed on.

    Losing a pet is so hard. The last time I experienced it, I was 16. It was a stunning loss and took me more than 12 years to dare to love another pet — I did not want to experience that sort of heartbreak ever again. My dog now is the light and joy of my life. At every moment I am aware that I will outlive him, and it inspires me to go all those extra miles to make sure he is happy and well cared for, and that he knows how much he is loved. I hope that one day, knowing I did my best by him — all those “one more blocks” on walks and “one more” throws of the frisbee at the park, just because he loves those things — will make it easier to say good-bye this time. I hope.

    Sleep well Ceasar.

  • Elaine

    Larry, I am so sorry for your loss…had to put 5 dogs in 6 yrs to sleep…one being my late son’s rottie Alexia..she was only 5 and cancer ate her up..never cried so hard… I worked in the Veterinary business for 6.5 yrs always was the hardest part of the job…but I always offered to go in with owners and hold their hand or hug them thru it, never failed I always cried right along with them..it seemed to help them, guess it was just an understanding between animal lovers…. you have to be one to understand the connection..My advise which I gave quite often is to get another one…it’s the best medicine..here’s how it works…the new baby does their little things and you will smile at first and go remember when Caesar did that it helps heal the heartache and in time it fades but the loss will always leave a void…Said to my vet one time as she was putting Nikita,( the first one ) to sleep…Why is it that all the bum reeming AH’s get to live a long life and my boy has to leave me so early?? He had no answer for that, so I figured out that they are put on this earth for a short time but long enough to show us what unconditonal love is and if we never see it again at least it happened once in our life time…………God speed………….

  • Choo Choo Magoo

    Larry. You have my heartfelt smpathies. Losing a part of the pack is always tough, but especially a loyal, tried and true guardian of hearth and home.

    As someone who has worked with rescue agencys for many years, I feel compelled to make a fervent prayer that the memory of Ceasar will lead your heart and pave a path to your home for a new pack member. There are so many truly awesome dogs and cats that are in desperate need of a home. And as this economy gets worse, they are becoming homeless at a ever increasing rate and are truly helpless victims. Please consider contacting a rotweiller rescue group in your area.

    • Choo Choo Magoo

      Sorry that was suppose to be Rottweiler not rotweiller.

  • witness08

    Just want to say how very sorry I am to hear of your loss, Larry.
    May your happy memories of Ceasar provide you with solace.

  • Karma

    Sorry about Ceasar…Rotties are such loves.

    Best wishes for your family and Patton….

    We just made the decision last month…my husband couldn’t make the trip either.

  • Ashy1

    Sorry about your loss. Losing a pet is so hard, but all the joy and laughs they bring are well worth it. I have a Rottie/Chow/Lab mix; I prefer mutts, I guess. His name is Bhima, and he is the best dang ‘ol muck pup anyone could ask for. He is an avid boater. He has three cats and three chickens and he guards them along with the rest of his property very well. He doesn’t like squirrels, though. Squirrels aren’t on the list. He’s about ten years old now, and I’m hoping I can get a few more years with him. I avoid thinking about his age because I never want to spoil the present.

  • http://www.cafepress.com/pumapride John House

    Sorry for your loss. I don’t know what I’d do if I lost Henry (but he’s only a year and a half old)…he’s such a sweetheart.

    My eldest cat is 10. He’s getting up there. I don’t want to lose him, either. He’s saved my life twice. He put us in debt last year to the tune of $3K becuase he was horribly sick…but he’s better now. I just hope he’s got at least 5 more years.